Tampabbc4me,
You need to learn some respect and love for your body. I have met much smaller-hung guys than you who do not have these issues. And THEY have to fight the stigma of ACTUALLY having a small prick.
You do not. I think you might enjoy a trip to
http://www.measurection.com where most of the members are smaller than average, and in fact, almost all of them are significantly smaller than you.
I can't tell if you are yanking our chains here or not. Frankly, this all sounds like an elaborate fantasy to me, and if that is the case, we don't wish to participate. But if you aren't, if your story is the real deal, your ex-wife's a cunting whore. Don't let the unnessecary, rude, and degrading comments of one amoral bitch ruin your life.
(As an aside, I find it vaguely offensive that you had to bring race into this. )