hi everybody, basically for the last 9 years I have been in a straight relationship. In December while at work I met this guy. We had a few drinks after work a couple of nights nothing more . Then we got chatting and basically we both realised that things weren’t right in our lives and we had this night of pure passion . The night after we both said that we need to leave our current partners . We spent a lot of time together he was living with her so he spent a lot of time with me at mine . To cut a long story short twe spent time together a lot and we basically fell for each other . We both told our family’s and came out to everybody . Everyone knows about us everybody is really good and I felt truly amazing . He made me feel loved , needed , happy ness everything. He moved in and we are just a normal gay couple . Now 4 months later things are starting to change , I feel so low. He is a serious gamer he spends all his time on it . I litterly do everything for him will do anything for him. I make all this effor for him and he doesn’t give me anything back . He is the most amazing person I have ever met the only person who has ever made me feel the way I do . He is also still in contact with his ex and it makes me anxious because I feel at the drop of a penny I will be dropped . They even meet up together . I give up everybody I knew, give up a friendship with my ex because I didn’t want him to feel how he is making me feel . But he doesn’t understand when I say to him how I feel. He says your my life you know where my priorities are , but I don’t feel they are with me. He isn’t from the same country as me so I understand he doesn’t know anybody else other than his ex and me and says it just friendship but he makes no effort to find friends either . I try for him but there is only so much I can do . When he was with his ex he said the reason it isn’t working with her is because she spends all of her time on the ex box speaking to her ex and yet he does the exact same thing to me. Thing is I love him so much I feel for him and now I feel I’m stuck in a situation that I don’t know what to do .