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- 100% Gay, 0% Straight
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- Male
This is a weird one. I’m gay and a year ago a friend’s son came up on Tinder who I’d met once or twice (he’s 28). Which led me to assume he was gay. Anyway I’ve since gotten to know him fairly well and hang out a lot because of a mutual hobby, and found myself really falling for him. Me and some friends sensed that he liked me too, so… without mentioning the Tinder thing, I took a chance and asked him out! His response was that, although flattered, he’s straight. And I was absolutely floored by this news. I’m not into pining over straight guys, so I’ll let it go, but… I mean, the Tinder thing makes me suss. I don’t see any other straight guys showing up on there. We’ve hung out since and he’s totally fine, in fact he acts EXACTLY the same way, which is awfully confusing. I’m so perplexed and would never dare bring it up with him as that would be disrespectful to his privacy, but I’d love some insight to what on earth this could all mean. I have some ideas already, but it’s haunting my thoughts (against better judgement). As is my understanding, truly 100% straight guys don’t turn up on gay tinder, right?