I Squirted For The First Time Ever

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  1. eyescream

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    I just wrote a blog entry on this. I squirted for the first time ever last night (I am generally orgasmic and multiple orgasmic but never squirted before this).

    I was being fucked like crazy and strangely, I was extremely wet last night (wetter than usual) and I was getting a few mini orgasms.

    I call them mini orgasm when the pleasure is derived 100% through the gspot and 0% clitoris and no contractions but a feeling of relief and satisfaction (as opposed to g-spot orgasms which includes contractions). Please let me know if you experience this too. :) Full fledged orgasms are a whole lot better but this is okay too.

    Anyway, after he pulled out, I didn't cum but I was still wetting myself and so I sort of 'pushed'. That thing we do before we pee. I don't really know why I did that. Then it happened - I squirted. It lasted for a split second but it was a proper squirt from the vagina nonetheless. I used to think it was somethinig that happens immediately after an orgasm or during one but in this case, it wasn't. There was no proper orgasm.

    For the squirters out there, do you squirt during an orgasm or after (or even before)? Do you sometimes squirt without an orgasm?

    Squirting is very new to me, I'm in my late 20s. I've never had problems reaching orgasms in the past but it has never gotten to this.:eek::smile:

    Please share your first squirting experience if you haven't already. :)
     
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    Congrats! You may even find yourself as a multiple squirter... where you keep doing it over and over and over. Not for every day, but pretty awesome, huh?!
     
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    The times I've squirted have all been through insanely amazing g-spot stimulation...as a result of an extremely skilled partner.
     
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    Cool!:cool:

    My g-spot was being stimulated like crazy before the squirt, but I didn't really get an orgasm when I actually squirted.
     
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    The times I made a girl squirt was during g-spot stimulation. I could tell when she was about to because I could feel this "push" from her. Like the area fills up like a bubble. And I could feel when it wasnt full. I would rub her a certain way and time it with the rhythm. I could tell when it was close and I would change the technique to then make her "go".

    Truthful, like regular orgasm, the quality of the pleasure is enhanced the longer you hold back the release. It was all trial and error in the beginning. But I got tot he point where I could feel the difference of when.

    Im waiting for all the naysayers that are going to say that you really just pissed on yourself.
     
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    For me, squirting and clitoral orgasms (which was the only way for me, before I discovered squirting) have zero to do with one another. It's much easier for me to make myself squirt than have a clitoral orgasm, now that I know where/how to apply pressure, but it is a MUCH stronger sensation when I hold off on it. If I edge for awhile first, I would definitely call squirting orgasmic. It's different, no doubt, but still an orgasm as far as I'm concerned.
     
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    How common is it for women for there to be a damp spot on the bed after you're done having sex? Typically any where from just a small spot to one that is maybe 6-12 inches wide. Does that classify as a squirt or is that just more of a leak from being so wet?
     
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    A leak or even an orgasm.Also,the guys sperm which has run out.
     
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    I've only squirted once. I didn't recognize it immediately for what it was, thought I was peeing at first. But then a few minutes later, I really DID pee (on the toilet of course) and that's when I realized that what I had just done prior to that was squirting.

    I had been stimulating my clit with my fingers and my G spot with a hairbrush. I suddenly felt a need to bear down, so I did, VERY strongly, and out came the squirt. I did not feel an orgasm-type feeling but it did feel like a release of pressure. I also had a clitoral orgasm, but not at exactly the same time - that was either before or after the squirting, I no longer recall. Haven't been able to do it again, yet! I prefer a clitoral orgasm and don't see what all the fuss is about wrt squirting.
     
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    my girlfriend squirts with almost every orgasm she has while we have sex. when i make her orgasm with my tongue she rarely squirts, only if i finger her g-spot as well. but during sex it feels as you described it, like she fills up and starts to push me out!
     
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    Yes.:redface: My posts on the other boards show that I used to be one of the "some people squirt and some people don't" type of people.

    I understand where they're coming from though, because when I used to watch porn where women squirt I thought "how in the world did she do that? Why kind of device did the porn industry place inside her to make it seem like she ejaculated? I bet she peed."

    Completely agree with you there. It's probably because squirting is compared to the male ejaculation.

    The best orgasms I've ever had involved strong contractions (g-spot orgasms), and zero squirting. But being new to this, I guess I still have a long way to go. Perhaps I have yet to experience squirting and orgasm at the same time. *Fingers crossed*

    To some who have replied - no, I did not pee; I know the difference between something coming out of my vagina or something that comes out of my urethra. And it was not sperm, as a condom was worn all the way - and did not break.

    I don't expect everyone to believe me. Heck, I've yet to figure out how some women achieve orgasms through nipple stimulation or snogging.

    Kudos to the guys who have experimented and succeeded in getting your girls to squirt.
     
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    I was actually trying to do something else I had read in her Cosmo magazine. Damn Cosmopolitan! lol

    It surprised us both. Freaked and embarrassed her. I did research to show her that it was normal.

    Yeah, the next time out, we got a towel ready.
     
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    FYI: Both ejaculate and urine come out of the urethra. I'm not doubting your experience, just thought I would clarify what you were saying.
     
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    I've made my girlfriend squirt. She has only been able to do it to herself once, and I do it to her pretty often. She says it's much more intense than most of her other orgasms. Basically, I build her up to a normal orgasm, and then I keep going, but I also rub her clit and keep fucking her. After another 5-10 minutes, she usually squirts.
     
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    Thanks for clarifying.:smile:

    I must point out, I have lots of experience when it comes to peeing, and I've had thousands of orgasms in my life. I would know for sure if it was pee. I make it a must to clear my bladder right before sex, as sex becomes too uncomfortable with a full bladder.

    I will have to do more reading on this because it has never really interest me before. The fluid squirted out from somewhere and it did not feel like it came out of my pee hole. It did not have that 'i just peed' sensation.:confused:

    THAT experience on the other hand was new to me, and I was taken by surprise. My initial reaction was 'did the condom break?' and I checked to make sure it hadn't.

    This is impossible for me to prove at the moment. I know that there's still a huge debate on the subject of whether squirting actually happens or not. But when it comes to sex, I believe in keeping an open mind.

    I'll read the 'women do not squirt' thread and check to see if I identify with some women's experiences there.
     
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    what little I know about this phenomenon is from this book


    Amazon.com: Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking : The Ultimate in Female Ecstasy (9780451184771): Tommy Leonardi, Arthur Gross: Books


    it provides really only one technique but it's almost idiot proof.

    basically the g-spot is on the inside more or less directly behind the clit. Stick index finger (or index & middle finger), seek out a spongy feeling spot, and stimulate by curling your finger(s) (rather like if you were making a "come hither" gesture)

    as with female orgasm generally once you get the first one it's easy for others to follow


    I can't say it's always worked but It has worked definitely once. Two other times the women in question were very wet and experience vaginal clamping, one I commented on the sheets being wet. Two others didn't seem to like fingering in the first place and preferred oral


    this is an important point according to Leonardi a lot of women as the near ejaculation mistake the feeling of being about to ejaculate for needing to urinate and so stop & run to the bathroom. so another big part of the book is encouraging the necessary trust for a woman to let go.

    finally and in conclusion, CONGRATULATIONS!!!:wink:
     
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    I have made my girlfriend squirt. With my fingers and my mouth and it was surprisingly a lot of fluid. Happens only very seldom when she orgasms and it took me years to first get her that far, she also didn't know that it was even possible.
     
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    I only had one experience a very long time ago in my early 20s while I was masturbating that might have been female ejaculation. I have no idea really. I'm not sure it exists.

    I don't think I've ever understood the "mini-orgasm" thing. I have heard other women use that term before and I just don't get it personally. I've never had a mini-orgasm. All my orgasms are maxi.
     
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    I dated a girl for a couple years that had alot of trouble having an orgasm. As if it were some sort of challenge, I would go down on her for long periods with lots of clitoral, and gspot stimulation simultaneously and it was so incredible to witness and contribute to her squirting orgasms.

    The thing I find interesting is how alot of women feel as if they need to pee. My wife has to stop during sex all the time in certain positions (ie lying flat on her stomach and me going straight up and down with deep penetration). She will pee before sex, but certain positions she will try an pee againg but often can't. Should we just try an keep doing to possibly have her squirt. I would love to experience this again. It has been over 10 years since I have had a woman do this. Oral sex with my wife is all clitoral stimulation as she does not like fingers inside her pussy. Annoying to me, but what can I do, its her body. I still do my best! LOL