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I met a guy online several months ago when I was home from college. We met over my spring break after texting and talking on the phone; conversation was good so we decided to move forward with the real thing. He had me over for dinner, and afterward we did some heavy making out and he blew me. Later that week I went to his place for dinner and another romp, and I spent the night. We did not have anal sex. That following morning, we went to breakfast before he went to work and by this time I had spent enough time with him to gage our chemistry.
My problem is this: We are both very attracted to each other physically, but I think he is into me on a more personal level whereas I dont feel the same way. In other words, I think he wants to have more dates, which Id be opposed to. We have very few similar interests and from my point of view, conversation got more stagnant and awkward the more we were around each other. Of course, Im mostly speculating that he likes me more than I do him. He might feel similarly, but he has been the one to reach out to me several times over the last two months during which I have not seen him. I have not initiated any contact over this span and I dont think Id have communicated with him at all had he not texted me (I replied and we had brief exchanges...all small talk).
Now that the spring semester is ending, and Ill be home soon, Im wondering how I should handle the situation. Should I be honest and blunt by saying that I dont feel the chemistry, but Id be open to a potential FWB situation since I find him attractive? Would this come off as a slap in the face? I dont know since I've never had a FWB. Curious to hear if any of you LPSGers have been in a similar situation, and if so, how you navigated it. Any input you guys could give me would be appreciated.
Thanks.
My problem is this: We are both very attracted to each other physically, but I think he is into me on a more personal level whereas I dont feel the same way. In other words, I think he wants to have more dates, which Id be opposed to. We have very few similar interests and from my point of view, conversation got more stagnant and awkward the more we were around each other. Of course, Im mostly speculating that he likes me more than I do him. He might feel similarly, but he has been the one to reach out to me several times over the last two months during which I have not seen him. I have not initiated any contact over this span and I dont think Id have communicated with him at all had he not texted me (I replied and we had brief exchanges...all small talk).
Now that the spring semester is ending, and Ill be home soon, Im wondering how I should handle the situation. Should I be honest and blunt by saying that I dont feel the chemistry, but Id be open to a potential FWB situation since I find him attractive? Would this come off as a slap in the face? I dont know since I've never had a FWB. Curious to hear if any of you LPSGers have been in a similar situation, and if so, how you navigated it. Any input you guys could give me would be appreciated.
Thanks.