This whole elusive vaginal orgasm mystery. The key is not in my gspot, where it does feel really good to have stimulated, esp with clitoral stimulation at the same time. The trick seems to be in the vaginal fornix or cul-de-sac, where i normally can't stand hard thrusting. It seems very ironic that i had just posted what in the world am i supposed to be looking for. I think its sheerly coincidental the timing of it because we did manage to do several things differently. So tonight we had some very productive conversation about all sorts of things in our life and relationship. We seemed to make some break throughs as far as that goes. I think that helped release some emotional tension for me. Also, i'm taking a week break off of my birth control pills (pronatalist should be happy) which means i'm cycling for the only the 2nd time in 4 years. So i have to wonder if something hormonal is going on that aided in this. So we go through the whole foreplay, yada yada, you know the drill. And nothing seems at all different in the first position (on our sides with him entering from behind) and its not unusual to have to start kind of shallow before being able to thrust pretty hard. When he got to the stage of being able to push in as hard as he could i was enjoying it just like i always do. Then i hop on top of him backwards and hold on to his ankles. Its a little too deep for me so he goes extra slow. I'm thinking, wow this feels way way better and wetter than normal. And then i start to bounce harder with his slow thrusts. It kind of felt like an itch needing to be scratched way deep inside, but not on the upper wall that the gspot resides, on the back wall instead and curved towards my tailbone almost. It feels so awesome and the pace stays the same and then the build up is getting so intense but there is no release. It just feels so engorged like its going to rupture and the flood gates are going to let loose. My jaw is dropped the entire time this extreme sensation starts and i mutter something like "I feel like i'm going to cum" and he says "oh yeah?" and keeps bouncing with me. Mind you we are still going at a medium pace but very deep, he's trying so hard to keep my pleasure going. Keep in mind, this sensation stays about the same during the point where he's going nuts in the throws of his orgasm. But when i stop bouncing on him because he finished, this sensation doesnt go away so i tilt my hips to make his cock hit that back wall again and then the pulsating starts...but its not at the PC muscles like with clitoral orgasms, it feels way way deep and the pulsations are faster, not at the normal intervals. So for like 5 minutes i'm still in twitching, pulsating pleasure. And for a good 10 minutes afterwards i feel like i could just barely touch deep inside and i would keep the sensation going. It was incredible. I picture this sensation that didn't go away to be like edging. All along i've been having the angles to favor my gspot where the head of his penis is in the opposite direction and not deep enough. This area went from painfully sensitive to begging for the hard end of a cock. Now i'm cramping pretty badly from all the disruption that took place but i'm a happy girl! I'd be very anxious to hear your experiences with this...especially the first time if you know what i'm describing.