I think i need to break up

[Enid]

Wait wtf, why am I the asshole?
I didnt do shit, im just saying it isnt working out.

You're only an asshole if you string her along.
Unfortunately, after 2 years, it may seem that way to her.
Do like helga suggested, break it to her as sensitively to her needs as you can.

 

[Wish-4-8]

Wait wtf, why am I the asshole?
I didnt do shit, im just saying it isnt working out.

Reread my post.

 

[B_jeepguy2]

I have a gf of almost 2 years, i go to school away from her and stuff is awesome but for some reason i dont think she is the one. Ive considered breaking up with her for the past few months but I keep spending weekends and time with her and its always a blast. Shes a fun, sweet, sexy girl that is an awesome person, sex is great, etc. I just don't know about it.

Lately ive been hangin out with another chick that is a little more mature and I am starting to feel for her. I have an opportunity with her but I am not sure if I want to jump right into something.

It's freakin hard to break up ive tried it in person and totally was not ready for her tears, etc. It's like impossible because we just spent an awesome weekend together. I don't know what to do. Id like to go back to just being friends and being diplomatic about it because she really hasn't done anything wrong.

IMO you are way too young to be looking for "the one" just hang out and have fun dude. I mean hell you are not married to her, she doesn't have to know if you go out with the other chick if you are in a different town. Why act married if you are not!

 

[helgaleena]

IMO you are way too young to be looking for "the one" just hang out and have fun dude. I mean hell you are not married to her, she doesn't have to know if you go out with the other chick if you are in a different town. Why act married if you are not!

the above is an example of asshole thinking btw, fak.

 

[sexplease]

the grass is not always greener on the other side. In fact, it's pretty much the same.

Just the weeds are in different places.


Such is life

 

[deleted395785]

went through almost the same incident, didnt go out with the other person, just was a thought. my advice, honestly? you should keep seeing both of them until you get caught and lose both of them. we could tell you one or the other but you already went out with the mature one. there's nothing to really stop you from hanging out with other chicks because of your long distance relationship. its not like you just wanted to fuck someone else, you actually like the other woman. there's nothing really wrong with your gf besides you being with her. you're telling yourself its not working out to justify hanging out with the other woman. its one thing to lie to your gf but dont lie to yourself, its silly.