I think i was gaslighted any advice?

[Tight_N_Juicy]

The WHO recognizes it as a mental illness, so I think I'll stick with what they are saying and not what the media is trying to tell me.

Typical. Just pick and choose what you *want* to believe so you can push your own hateful shit and justify it to yourself.

Punk ass.

 

[deleted924715]

Oh jeez, now there are three fuck-bois having a hay day over here.

Y'all just need to get together and circle-jerk it out.

Blind leading the blind. I actually feel embarrassed.

 

[deleted924715]

These morons don't even understand what actual misogyny would look like. We should buy them a one way ticket to the middle east where they can experience it first hand, ironic how these same people are all for the mass importation of people from the Islamic world.

You've just proved again that YOU don't understand what actual misogyny looks like.

 

[deleted924715]

That's why they also hate masculine men, these people are more likely to be independent and defend their culture and heritage. There is a massive push to emasculate men, it's not quite that bad here in the U.S but has definitely taken strong roots in much of Europe. I think the massive push and cultural normalization of transgender men becoming women is a means to accomplish this. You'll also see the guilt, name calling and harassment is an attempt to keep people in line who don't follow along with the leftist agenda. You are a racist, a misogynist, stupid, uneducated, ignorant, etc. Just look through this thread and you can see it lol.

Lol, I'm getting from this post that you see yourself as masculine..?

 

[950483]

Chat with you privately about this.

Ahh,...now I see your angle. I'm not sure he'll go for it tbh.

 

[950483]

I think I'll just leave this here. Nuf said..

Elliot Rodger’s Narcissism

Posted June 04, 2014

Saturday morning 11 days ago, the U.S. found out that Elliot Rodger, a 22-year-old, went on a murderous rampage Friday night in Isla Vista, CA. Isla Vista is a pretty beach town, filled with seemingly immortal, young students with lives of sunshine and partying. My brother lives there, two blocks from where the chaos ensued. I became interested in the story as I waited for Jim to call me back to say he was OK.

The first video I saw was this, Rodger's pretentious announcement for the "Day of Retribution." It is a excellent example of someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder(NPD), who specifically hates women. I was struck by Rodger's hackneyed script, fake laughand rehearsed delivery. Though Rodger was young, 22 years is old enough to understand the meaning of "cliche."

"Well, now"— a theatrical pause—"I'll be a god compared to you."

In April, Rodger's mother warned Santa Barbara authorities about her son. In response, officers visited Rodger but decided he was “quiet and timid ... polite and courteous." They left and only followed up post-tragedy. Had the police researched Rodger more, they could have viewed his YouTube channel. Until yesterday, it showed a series of disturbing, self-pitying rants. Had the police been able to search Rodger's apartment, they might have found a 137-page manifesto, which presents grandiose fantasies and persecutory delusions.

They might have found guns and ammo, which were in the apartment as they questioned Rodger.

If this is in fact Rodger's actual Facebook page, it also hints at Rodger's motivation. Nowhere does he act pleased by or interested in other people, although it's social media. Rodger valued his car and his looks. In photos, he didn't relax into a smile but posed, mostly in selfies. I only found one picture of him with someone else, and he doesn't look happy in it.

"You girls have something against me. I don't know what it is," Rodger complains in one video. If Rodger wanted to be loved, it might have helped if he had shown love for other people.

A problem for people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder is that it's difficult for them to care about others. They value people in so far as people make them feel good about themselves. Someone with the disorder exhibits "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning in early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following":

1. Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements). Elliot Rodger repeatedly refers to himself as the "supreme gentleman" and is insulted that women don't pay attention to him.

"That is such an injustice, because I am so magnificent. I deserve girls."

2. Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love. Rodger was obsessed with finding "love."

"I want to feel that sense of being worthy."

He idealized a relationship with a beautiful, blond, white girl. A virgin, who had never held a girl's hand, he fantasized about what other people's love lives were like but had a shallow understanding of love. He was baffled that girls didn't swoon over his $300 sunglasses and BMW. Rodger explains that once you hit puberty, life is either "heaven on earth" or a "living hell." According to him, whether or not his life was good depended on how many girls liked him. By basing his life's worth on whether girls liked him, he made women into objects instrumental for feeling self-worth rather than as people in themselves.

"My problem is girls."

3. Believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions). By seeing himself as inherently unable to be loved by women, he thought of himself as special.

"I've been thinking about how sad and miserable my life has been... I have had to rot in loneliness."

4. Requires excessive admiration. It's not clear by what Rodger says that he ever actually interacted with women. He doesn't describe approaching someone to strike up a conversation. But he is clearly mad that women don't pay attention to him. He sees women with other men and feels they are insulting him personally.

"You will finally see that I am in truth the superior one."

5. Has a very strong sense of entitlement, e.g., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations. "Do you know how much misery you've caused me?" he says to "you girls." Not only should girls love him for his wealth and appearance, they should not insult him by being with other men or wearing revealing shorts. In Rodger's twisted mind, what women do is directly relevant to him, regardless of what's going on in other people's minds or lives.

6. Is exploitative of others, e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends. I haven't seen evidence that Rodger exploited others in the same way a CEO exploits his employees. However, killing indiscriminately to achieve what you think is justice is a kind of exploitation. Rodger used his victims to punish "girls" and humanity for not liking him enough.

7. Lacks empathy, e.g., is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others. Within the past year, Rodger committed several acts of aggression with no qualms about harming people. He splashed a couple with his latte for looking happy. He squirted kids with orange juice for looking happy. And he tried to push students off a ledge at a party for not talking to him. Additionally, he published combative comments towards women and minorities, disrespecting those people's humanness.

8. Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her.Perhaps what ultimately destroyed Rodger was his maddening envy of others.While looking at a sunset in one video, he says he can't enjoy it because he's thinking of all the men that get to enjoy it with girlfriends. He feeds his loneliness and hatred by comparing his experience to his idealized vision of love. In a video with "envy" in the title, he films a couple kissing in a park as he broods in his car.

"I have to film this. I have to show the world why life isn't fair. No girl would do this with me."

9. Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes. In a video he took of himself in his car, he—without joking—gives what he thinks is a sexy look and films himself driving. In isolation, it could be an embarrassing moment of self-absorption. But Rodger made numerous comments online that show he was full of himself.

"I do everything I can to appear attractive to you," Rodger explains in his video titled "Why do girls hate me so much?"

Dear Elliot Rodgers out there, the goal is not to manipulate people into liking you. The goal is to be authentically likable.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201406/elliot-rodger-s-narcissism

 

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Great, that is wonderful to hear. . I hope it goes really well for you both. Well enough that neither of you will ever need to have anything to do with women ever again.
Gosh, who'd have thought it! I hadn't realized he was str8 rather than straight, but that really is the best news I've had all day.

 

[rtg]

A lot of what you mentioned here really comes down to how the woman was raised and the types of men she grew up around. I'm reading this a 2nd time and so much of this reminds me of the girl I was dating in the spring, the one I mentioned on my previous post above. I'd also add that how the man is raised will play a role in the type of woman he'd be better off pursuing a relationship with. A guy that grew up well of in a healthy household with good role models probably isn't going to find a good fit with a woman who grew up in a trailer park. People generally associate and date with those who are of a similar social status and upbringing compared to themselves.

None of this was an issue before she got bored of you and rejected you because she in fact realised that you were a low quality man. I don't think you'll ever understand that material and superficial things doesn't equal high quality. You go on about these things like that's the most important thing to a woman but then when you gave that woman those things you called her a gold digger and that she was using you for dinners and so you'd buy her things... contradictory much?

 

[deleted924715]

I think I'll just leave this here. Nuf said..

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A problem for people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder is that it's difficult for them to care about others. They value people in so far as people make them feel good about themselves. Someone with the disorder exhibits "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning in early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following":

1. Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements). Elliot Rodger repeatedly refers to himself as the "supreme gentleman" and is insulted that women don't pay attention to him.

"That is such an injustice, because I am so magnificent. I deserve girls."

2. Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love. Rodger was obsessed with finding "love."

"I want to feel that sense of being worthy."

He idealized a relationship with a beautiful, blond, white girl. A virgin, who had never held a girl's hand, he fantasized about what other people's love lives were like but had a shallow understanding of love. He was baffled that girls didn't swoon over his $300 sunglasses and BMW. Rodger explains that once you hit puberty, life is either "heaven on earth" or a "living hell." According to him, whether or not his life was good depended on how many girls liked him. By basing his life's worth on whether girls liked him, he made women into objects instrumental for feeling self-worth rather than as people in themselves.

"My problem is girls."

3. Believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions). By seeing himself as inherently unable to be loved by women, he thought of himself as special.

"I've been thinking about how sad and miserable my life has been... I have had to rot in loneliness."

4. Requires excessive admiration. It's not clear by what Rodger says that he ever actually interacted with women. He doesn't describe approaching someone to strike up a conversation. But he is clearly mad that women don't pay attention to him. He sees women with other men and feels they are insulting him personally.

"You will finally see that I am in truth the superior one."

5. Has a very strong sense of entitlement, e.g., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations. "Do you know how much misery you've caused me?" he says to "you girls." Not only should girls love him for his wealth and appearance, they should not insult him by being with other men or wearing revealing shorts. In Rodger's twisted mind, what women do is directly relevant to him, regardless of what's going on in other people's minds or lives.

6. Is exploitative of others, e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends. I haven't seen evidence that Rodger exploited others in the same way a CEO exploits his employees. However, killing indiscriminately to achieve what you think is justice is a kind of exploitation. Rodger used his victims to punish "girls" and humanity for not liking him enough.

7. Lacks empathy, e.g., is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others. Within the past year, Rodger committed several acts of aggression with no qualms about harming people. He splashed a couple with his latte for looking happy. He squirted kids with orange juice for looking happy. And he tried to push students off a ledge at a party for not talking to him. Additionally, he published combative comments towards women and minorities, disrespecting those people's humanness.

8. Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her.Perhaps what ultimately destroyed Rodger was his maddening envy of others.While looking at a sunset in one video, he says he can't enjoy it because he's thinking of all the men that get to enjoy it with girlfriends. He feeds his loneliness and hatred by comparing his experience to his idealized vision of love. In a video with "envy" in the title, he films a couple kissing in a park as he broods in his car.

"I have to film this. I have to show the world why life isn't fair. No girl would do this with me."

9. Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes. In a video he took of himself in his car, he—without joking—gives what he thinks is a sexy look and films himself driving. In isolation, it could be an embarrassing moment of self-absorption. But Rodger made numerous comments online that show he was full of himself.

"I do everything I can to appear attractive to you," Rodger explains in his video titled "Why do girls hate me so much?"

Dear Elliot Rodgers out there, the goal is not to manipulate people into liking you. The goal is to be authentically likable.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201406/elliot-rodger-s-narcissism

*shudder*

Way too close for comfort. There are a couple of people in this thread going on ignore, because their vibe is repulsive no matter how much they buoy themselves and each other up with a self-flattering ideology and I can't hide that I am repulsed. Them being authentially likeable is not on the horizon. I'd hate for a reply of mine to trigger one of these people and some poor woman on the other side of the world gets the brunt of it. They're going to snap one day, but it won't be because of something I've said.

 

[socalfreak]

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201406/elliot-rodger-s-narcissism[/QUOTE]
Holy crap.
Just swap his name out for @sangheili90 & you'll never know the difference

 

[950483]

*shudder*

Way too close for comfort. There are a couple of people in this thread going on ignore, because their vibe is repulsive no matter how much they buoy themselves and each other up with a self-flattering ideology and I can't hide that I am repulsed. Them being authentially likeable is not on the horizon. I'd hate for a reply of mine to trigger one of these people and some poor woman on the other side of the world gets the brunt of it. They're going to snap one day, but it won't be because of something I've said.

Earlier my partner warned me against saying anything to anger sangheili, in case some poor woman had to pay the price. It's probably futile, but I'm kind of hoping that @sangheili90 will see that he needs some serious help. The similarities between his MO and Elliot Rodgers is just uncanny. Two peas in a pod.

 

[deleted924715]

Earlier my partner warned me against saying anything to anger sangheili, in case some poor woman had to pay the price. It's probably futile, but I'm kind of hoping that @sangheili90 will see that he needs some serious help. The similarities between his MO and Elliot Rodgers is just uncanny. Two peas in a pod.

I think the nature of his problem likely precludes it.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

These morons don't even understand what actual misogyny would look like. We should buy them a one way ticket to the middle east where they can experience it first hand, ironic how these same people are all for the mass importation of people from the Islamic world.

Its funny how that works isn't it. LOL

Somehow everybody loves to tolerate the most misogynistic religion on earth.
And me even typing this is for some reason considered "hate speech"

Since when has oppression of women NOT been misogyny?
Since a particular religion said so.

Sighs for the world.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

Earlier my partner warned me against saying anything to anger sangheili, in case some poor woman had to pay the price. It's probably futile, but I'm kind of hoping that @sangheili90 will see that he needs some serious help. The similarities between his MO and Elliot Rodgers is just uncanny. Two peas in a pod.

LOL.

Comparing a dude brother who posts his opinions to Eliot Rogers?
Aww, c'mon now....
That's just funny to read.

 

[rtg]

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-mysteries-love/201406/elliot-rodger-s-narcissism

Holy crap.
Just swap his name out for @sangheili90 & you'll never know the difference[/QUOTE]

Earlier my partner warned me against saying anything to anger sangheili, in case some poor woman had to pay the price. It's probably futile, but I'm kind of hoping that @sangheili90 will see that he needs some serious help. The similarities between his MO and Elliot Rodgers is just uncanny. Two peas in a pod.

It seriously scares me how similar they are.... they even look a little alike. Even things like Elliot mentioning "young women", how they are with inferior men, how he's such a fine specimen of a man and how he's so polite.... all sounds so familiar to our mate sangheili90.

 

[950483]

LOL.

Comparing a dude brother who posts his opinions to Eliot Rogers?
Aww, c'mon now....
That's just funny to read.

It's not funny to read, it's very worrying because his opinions and his view of the world are the same as those of Elliot Rodgers, with a few extra nasty bits thrown in.

 

[sangheili90]

LOL.

Comparing a dude brother who posts his opinions to Eliot Rogers?
Aww, c'mon now....
That's just funny to read.

I think these people missed the part where I mentioned dating a girl in the spring and have met others more recently. Then again, @socalfreak had to go on LPSG and move all the way across the country for a woman on steroids, it makes sense why he follows me around.

 

[sangheili90]

Its funny how that works isn't it. LOL

Somehow everybody loves to tolerate the most misogynistic religion on earth.
And me even typing this is for some reason considered "hate speech"

Since when has oppression of women NOT been misogyny?
Since a particular religion said so.

Sighs for the world.

Any form of European nationalism and pride is seen as blatant racism, but antifa, BLM and Islam are totally acceptable.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

Any form of European nationalism and pride is seen as blatant racism, but antifa, BLM and Islam are totally acceptable.

Yep, another day in paradise...

 

[sangheili90]

Yep, another day in paradise...

I don't know any people in real life who actually think like that, but I feel the internet easily allows these individuals to congregate on the internet, which gives the illusion that they are far more common and numerous than they actually are.