I think i was gaslighted any advice?

[sangheili90]

Your post above is the blueprint to your soul, and it ain't pretty.

First things first...you've got verrry little experience with women; it's obvious from this and many other posts around LPSG that women intimidate you. Yet you seem to believe you know what women think/want, especially single mothers. Sweeping generalizations do not equate to real life experience. You need to get out more.

Women here have tried to help you get some game, but since you know everything, when you don't hear what you want to hear, instead of listening, you start calling names. How's that working for getting you laid, let alone some type of relationship with the opposite sex?

What you are is insecure. It reeks though many of your posts. Especially those where you need to remind LPSGland what a fine physical specimen you are. Even if you are exactly what you describe above, once anyone gets past the "handsome and tall and hung and built like a brick shit house" facade, all they see is an empty vessel. There's nothing there.

You've done the easy part. That hardest work is yet to be done--on the nonphysical part of you.

Lastly, you claim not to be a misogynist, but you are clearly a WOMAN HATER. Tell me what's the difference oh wise one? You generalize, and then generalize some more. You got nothing, so you are just typing some drivel that I assume makes YOU feel better.

To borrow a phrase from one of my favorite songs, The Greatest Love, "Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all." You need to get busy, very busy.

I mentioned that I don't drink alcohol, do drugs, smoke or have a gambling problem. I have a nice house in a good neighborhood that is paid off, meaning no mortgage, and can live a comfortable life and have a strong financial future. I have a broad variety of interests, take care of myself and now going for my degree for "personal development". I also mention that I'm tall, fit and handsome because that is what I am. Mentioning all of these things isn't insecurity, I state this to these people because it shows that I literally have everything going for me and if this isn't enough something is wrong.

Seriously, do you have any idea how insulting it is for that swoon to say none of these things are positive qualities? I can see a woman like her being married to an awesome guy like that, he comes home and she still looks for something to complain about. These "women" that endlessly follow me around on here are simply mad that they couldn't land a guy like me, so naturally they try to knock me down a few pegs to cope with that fact and because I don't kiss their asses like the losers males that follow them around.

Seriously, I get so many messages from other posters on this site about the harassment I get from these losers.

On a personal note, I've already met a few different women over the past couple months and none of them think like these sicko whores. These are women that I cold approached, meaning they were total strangers in an environment where socialization is not expected, initiated a conversation with them that went on for quite a bit and developed a connection from that. Very few men have the ability to do this and it takes a lot of courage to do it, yet I'm sure some jealous loser on here will try to knock me down again.

I am so far beyond the league most of you guys are on it isn't even funny.

 

[sangheili90]

@sangheili90 I'm so sorry, but I didn't realize that I was debating someone with no experience with relationships, good or bad. Please do not try to interpret my stories. There's no meaning in them for anyone else but me.

I will be more than happy to discuss life events with you after you happen to experience a few. Until then you're talking theory, and I'm talking practicum.

One of my good friends has a daughter who became a pediatrician a few years back. She's so cute and smart. She got married a couple of years later and had a beautiful little boy. I got a chance to visit about a year later, and she told me that she felt like she needed to go to every parent of every child she's ever treated and say "I'm so sorry I told you that. I had no idea!" It was hilarious. She knew all the theory but had no practical experience with children. And everything she thought she knew was wrong outside of medicine.

Like I said. It's just a story that means something to me. So I guess it might be explaining where I'm coming from, not that I think you need to know since you already know just about everything.

I will only offer one piece of advice: go and buy the largest virtual crowbar you can find and open your mind. It's way too young to be so closed.

I started dating in the spring and have met several other women since then. I don't need a lot of experience in relationships to recognize that single mothers who had children out of wedlock should be avoided by men.

 

[EllieP]

I started dating in the spring and have met several other women since then. I don't need a lot of experience in relationships to recognize that single mothers who had children out of wedlock should be avoided by men.

And as a single woman who had a child within wedlock on behalf of us all, I thank you for that.

 

[kcrown1967]

@sangheili90
I'm curious, what do you like about this site?

 

[sangheili90]

@sangheili90
I'm curious, what do you like about this site?

Like, why do I post here?

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I mentioned that I don't drink alcohol, do drugs, smoke or have a gambling problem. I have a nice house in a good neighborhood that is paid off, meaning no mortgage, and can live a comfortable life and have a strong financial future. I have a broad variety of interests, take care of myself and now going for my degree for "personal development". I also mention that I'm tall, fit and handsome because that is what I am. Mentioning all of these things isn't insecurity, I state this to these people because it shows that I literally have everything going for me and if this isn't enough something is wrong.

Seriously, do you have any idea how insulting it is for that swoon to say none of these things are positive qualities? I can see a woman like her being married to an awesome guy like that, he comes home and she still looks for something to complain about. These "women" that endlessly follow me around on here are simply mad that they couldn't land a guy like me, so naturally they try to knock me down a few pegs to cope with that fact and because I don't kiss their asses like the losers males that follow them around.

Seriously, I get so many messages from other posters on this site about the harassment I get from these losers.

On a personal note, I've already met a few different women over the past couple months and none of them think like these sicko whores. These are women that I cold approached, meaning they were total strangers in an environment where socialization is not expected, initiated a conversation with them that went on for quite a bit and developed a connection from that. Very few men have the ability to do this and it takes a lot of courage to do it, yet I'm sure some jealous loser on here will try to knock me down again.

I am so far beyond the league most of you guys are on it isn't even funny.

Fucking pudknocker.

Really? You're married? Have children and grandchildren, a stable and happy relationship? Someone to come home to every night? Got a sex life so awesome you can't even comprehend how lucky you are?

You have NOTHING.

Oooooh, you "cold approached" a woman and talked? So? Who can't do that, who hasn't done that? I don't know who you associate with IRL but that is normal. Normal people talk to each other. Normal people have had a bunch of relationships by AGE TWENTY SEVEN.

You don't know shit, and you haven't done anything. I got laid more last week than you have in your life, and I'm old as fuck. I was married at 22, but still had more real relationships than you by then. After I was separated, I dated more women than you've even met.

Don't ever talk shit about people, because you have no clue who you're talking to.

 

[kcrown1967]

Like, why do I post here?

No, what brings you coming back day after day? You come across as feeling like you are superior to everyone here so I don't understand why you continue to come back.

 

[deleted924715]

I started dating in the spring and have met several other women since then. I don't need a lot of experience in relationships to recognize that single mothers who had children out of wedlock should be avoided by men.

But single mothers aren't pursuing you - no women are. You lurk around young women at the gym who tell you they have boyfriends to get you to fuck off and think this is an achievement. So why do you care?

 

[sangheili90]

No, what brings you coming back day after day? You come across as feeling like you are superior to everyone here so I don't understand why you continue to come back.

I don't even really post on here that much, it's more of an off and on thing. Most of these posters I have on my ignore list and I don't acknowledge them at all, this particular thread I had mentioned to the OP that he can do better than some young single mother and it turned into what you see here. I make valid points about objective topics but a lot of the posters on here turn everything into emotionally based arguments.

 

[sangheili90]

I don't even really post on here that much, it's more of an off and on thing. Most of these posters I have on my ignore list and I don't acknowledge them at all, this particular thread I had mentioned to the OP that he can do better than some young single mother and it turned into what you see here. I make valid points about objective topics but a lot of the posters on here turn everything into emotionally based arguments.

Most of these posters meaning the ones that harass me all the time.

 

[deleted924715]

. Mentioning all of these things isn't insecurity, I state this to these people because it shows that I literally have everything going for me and if this isn't enough something is wrong.

YES! This is what people are trying to tell you and have been trying to tell you for a long time. Something is very, very wrong.

(p.s. we know you can't resist peeking, ignore or not)

 

[sangheili90]

@MisterB

The woman at 3:10 sums it up pretty well, though I'd never be able to get into a relationship with a woman like that. Low quality women on here constantly complaining and they wonder why no guy wants them.

 

[deleted924715]

Who are these women that no guy wants? I think I've missed those posts. Most of the regular female posters here are in relationships - all of them have had more relationships than you.

I've seen your numerous threads asking how to get women though and the shit fest each one turns into because of your unattractive combination of insecurity and conceit.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Most of these posters meaning the ones that harass me all the time.

So you come here and insult several people directly, some indirectly but regulars know who you mean, and because they and we don't just sit back and take crap from you, these people "harass you all the time"??

Wake up.

Every time you get "harassed" it's because you insult people. I'm sure most of the time your head is so far up your ass you don't even recognize it...or care, because that's the unfeeling douche you portray yourself to be. So don't act all hard done by. You bring it upon yourself. I've seen people try to help you, and you shit on them. Fuck that, you don't deserve help. But God knows you need it.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

though I'd never be able to get into a relationship with a woman like that.

Low quality women on here constantly complaining and they wonder why no guy wants them.

You contradicting mother fucker.

Which is it? Are you high quality and too good for them? Or are they too hot/high quality for YOU and won't give you the time of day?

Shut the actual fuck up and go get some counseling from a professional who gets paid to listen to this bullshit.

Seriously.

 

[kcrown1967]

I don't even really post on here that much, it's more of an off and on thing. Most of these posters I have on my ignore list and I don't acknowledge them at all, this particular thread I had mentioned to the OP that he can do better than some young single mother and it turned into what you see here. I make valid points about objective topics but a lot of the posters on here turn everything into emotionally based arguments.

You don't post that much and yet you have over 3000 post, correct me if I'm wrong but that seems like a lot of posting to me.

You don't seem like a very tolerant person from the post of yours that I have read. I'm all for people having their personal opinions about something but it seems like you are trying to offend the women around here by lumping them into an all encompassing group. You have no grey area which is very important if you ever want to be in a solid relationship. No two people in a relationship are going to agree on everything. Just my 2 cents worth.

 

[sangheili90]

You don't post that much and yet you have over 3000 post, correct me if I'm wrong but that seems like a lot of posting to me.

You don't seem like a very tolerant person from the post of yours that I have read. I'm all for people having their personal opinions about something but it seems like you are trying to offend the women around here by lumping them into an all encompassing group. You have no grey area which is very important if you ever want to be in a solid relationship. No two people in a relationship are going to agree on everything. Just my 2 cents worth.

I've been on this site for over 4 years, which is quite a long time. I'm not lumping all of the women on here into a collective group, just the ones that have been harassing me for over a year now. If you actually read my posts you'll see that I state my opinion and then someone who takes offense begins with the name calling, misogynist, aspergers, etc. I could actually go through some of my threads and show you exactly what I'm talking about, it's not normal for someone to endlessly follow someone around on a forum just because that individual has an opinion you don't like. You don't see me popping into people's threads and start calling them names and starting shit for no reason. When I get into an argument with someone I know in the real world I might not agree with them.....but you don't see me bringing it up months later and bearing a pointless grudge because of it.

I'm not a bad guy, I just have a very low tolerance for bullshit and people who fail to acknowledge mistakes they've made. Everyone makes mistakes and fucks up, but when these are done you acknowledge it to yourself and others, learn from it and not do the same thing again. These people instead of doing this would come up with some stupid justification for what happened and try to put the blame on someone else like they had no part in it. Virtually every bad situation I've had whilst dealing with other people there was always something I could have done differently to prevent it from every happening, even in cases where I really wasn't the one at fault.

 

[TexanStar]

Most of these posters meaning the ones that harass me all the time.

 

[950483]

Seriously, do you have any idea how insulting it is for that swoon to say none of these things are positive qualities?

So we can actually get to the crux of the matter, and I now know why you have got something against me personally.

You may well have felt insulted, but I stand by what I said a year ago. Only a superficial and materialistic woman would be impressed with your finite list of ''positive qualities''. None of the qualities that I would prioritize, if I was still looking for someone, are in your list. Although to be fair most would choose to avoid someone with serious addiction problems, so I think that should go without saying really, it's just weird to list that as a positive quality. Kindness is more of a priority to me than any of the things you have listed. I can only speak for myself of course, but I suspect that women the world over look for the same quality. Your personality, as it comes across on this site, is absolutely squalid. How will you find a woman who wants you, rather than what you have got, or how you look on paper? I don't know what has happened to you to make you the way you are, but for you to still feel so grievously injured by a perceived slight from a year ago is just not normal. That's just not how healthy human beings think or behave. You really will continue to struggle through life without professional help. It is absolutely not true that women are following you around the site or harassing you. Do not take my word for it. I think you should show all of these bizarre threads to a mental health professional and ask their opinion.

 

[950483]

I'm not a bad guy, I just have a very low tolerance for bullshit and people who fail to acknowledge mistakes they've made. Everyone makes mistakes and fucks up, but when these are done you acknowledge it to yourself and others, learn from it and not do the same thing again. These people instead of doing this would come up with some stupid justification for what happened and try to put the blame on someone else like they had no part in it. Virtually every bad situation I've had whilst dealing with other people there was always something I could have done differently to prevent it from every happening, even in cases where I really wasn't the one at fault.

You are a bad guy. The "mistakes" that you are on about -yet again- are the children of single mothers as mentioned time and time again by you, and referred to as "mistakes" and "bastards". Your mother was a single parent. You have said as much in previous posts. So what kind of abusive childhood or crazy cult did you grow up in?