I think i was gaslighted any advice?

[twoton]

When did this tread move away from Nikki being gaslighted to a Halloween wedding? If I get invited, can I wear a costume? I want to be a sexy nurse, or a sexy waitress, or a sexy cop, or a sexy stewardess, or a sexy teacher, or a sexy Little Mix.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

That's a nice story but it doesn't disprove anything I said about single mothers, to clarify I was referring to them as a group and not you as an individual.....was pretty clear but you decided to address this from a personal stand point.

I'm not a misogynist, I just hate stupid women who go around acting like victims and feel entitled because they couldn't find a good man and ended up getting pregnant by some loser. Instead of saying "yeah I fucked up and paying the price" they respond by saying how strong and empowered they are, how they don't need a man but yet act entitled. Why the hell do you think black America is fucked beyond hope, it's because 70% of them don't even know who their father is, that is an actual number.

I remember getting into this with that trash @swoon a year ago, another stupid single mother. I remember telling her how I would have been 26 at the time, I have a nice house that is paid off in a good neighborhood, I'm financially set and can live a very comfortable life. I don't drink alcohol, do drugs, smoke or have a gambling problem. I take care of myself, live an active lifestyle, have a broad variety of hobbies and interests and educated, and in addition to all of this I'm 6'4", fit, handsome and have a big dick lol. Her response was that none of those are positive qualities.......and she wonders why she is a single mother lol. Women like this wouldn't have a fucking clue, which is the reason why they are single mothers.

Yeah, the fact is qualities or assets mean very little at all in terms of someone being attracted to another.
Like I always say its all about the right emotional triggers being used at the right times.

Either being used spontaneously/naturally or based on study and developed habit.
The shitty quality, flakey guys that women get impregnated by often are guys who have enough natural emotional trigger ability that they keep women entertained so they don't get sexually or romantically bored. But because they have not studied the full science the women do end up getting bored after a number of years. As those guys can't keep it up because they do not know the science of what keeps women attracted.

Unfortunately many women I have encountered cannot pick up on men's vibes very accurately.
They will most often mistake emotional trigger ability as masculine, confident and "fun" thus they get duped every time.
They will also mistake up front honesty and seriousness of mood as needy and desperate or just "not fun".
Thus they too often get impregnated by those who do not have the mental and emotional resolve to remain dedicated.
Dishonest men in other words who cannot follow through. But men who just let themselves spur of the moment fall into lust and then all that follows.
But then you have the other side too, women who themselves reject honest, good-quality husbands because they get bored with them.
All because the poor guys do not understand the science of what keeps females sexually and romantically attracted.

If a guy wants to remain personally free its best not to ever get involved in any intimate relationships and really best not to even have sex with other physical people ideally.

Sex robots, sex dolls and jacking off are better anyway. Cause they don't ever have bitchy moods.
Saves a guy the hassle who is not prepared to have offspring.

 

[sangheili90]

Yeah, the fact is qualities or assets mean very little at all in terms of someone being attracted to another.
Like I always say its all about the right emotional triggers being used at the right times.

Either being used spontaneously/naturally or based on study and developed habit.
The shitty quality, flakey guys that women get impregnated by often are guys who have enough natural emotional trigger ability that they keep women entertained so they don't get sexually or romantically bored. But because they have not studied the full science the women do end up getting bored after a number of years. As those guys can't keep it up because they do not know the science of what keeps women attracted.

Unfortunately many women I have encountered cannot pick up on men's vibes very accurately.
They will most often mistake emotional trigger ability as masculine, confident and "fun" thus they get duped every time.
They will also mistake up front honesty and seriousness of mood as needy and desperate or just "not fun".
Thus they too often get impregnated by those who do not have the mental and emotional resolve to remain dedicated.
Dishonest men in other words who cannot follow through. But men who just let themselves spur of the moment fall into lust and then all that follows.
But then you have the other side too, women who themselves reject honest, good-quality husbands because they get bored with them.
All because the poor guys do not understand the science of what keeps females sexually and romantically attracted.

If a guy wants to remain personally free its best not to ever get involved in any intimate relationships and really best not to even have sex with other physical people ideally.

Sex robots, sex dolls and jacking off are better anyway. Cause they don't ever have bitchy moods.
Saves a guy the hassle who is not prepared to have offspring.

The point was that woman talking shit doesn't have a clue about what makes a good potential dating prospect. Obviously a guy can be a real catch but if your personalities don't click the relationship probably wont work. Trashy women with daddy issues may see a high quality and mature man as boring and unattractive, these are the types of women that thrive off of drama and get bored easily. I've met women like this, not necessarily dated them but interacted with them, and it's like they are locked into the mode of being a bratty teenage girl.

I dated a 19 year old Mexican girl in the spring, she was pretty hot but it didn't last long. First time I went to pick her up when I got to her neighborhood I thought I could have gotten robbed at any moment, it was actually that bad. Anyway, over the course of several weeks we had been seeing each other she'd tell me about her upbringing and how dysfunctional it sounded, I couldn't relate at all because I wasn't raised around people like that but I could see how it would be a real struggle. She'd fly off the handle about trivial things, create drama for no reason and seemed incapable of taking responsibility. When I'd pick her up and bring her to my place I'd always ask if she'd want a drink, if she was comfortable with the air conditioning, overall just trying to be considerate and thoughtful. She later ended up telling me that she saw this as a sign that I was uncomfortable and or trying to get something out of her. I could go on but the point is that some women out there will never have a clue, they could land a perfect guy that is hot, fit, intelligent, fun and has everything going for him but still find a reason to reject him.

 

[sangheili90]

Yeah, the fact is qualities or assets mean very little at all in terms of someone being attracted to another.
Like I always say its all about the right emotional triggers being used at the right times.

Either being used spontaneously/naturally or based on study and developed habit.
The shitty quality, flakey guys that women get impregnated by often are guys who have enough natural emotional trigger ability that they keep women entertained so they don't get sexually or romantically bored. But because they have not studied the full science the women do end up getting bored after a number of years. As those guys can't keep it up because they do not know the science of what keeps women attracted.

Unfortunately many women I have encountered cannot pick up on men's vibes very accurately.
They will most often mistake emotional trigger ability as masculine, confident and "fun" thus they get duped every time.
They will also mistake up front honesty and seriousness of mood as needy and desperate or just "not fun".
Thus they too often get impregnated by those who do not have the mental and emotional resolve to remain dedicated.
Dishonest men in other words who cannot follow through. But men who just let themselves spur of the moment fall into lust and then all that follows.
But then you have the other side too, women who themselves reject honest, good-quality husbands because they get bored with them.
All because the poor guys do not understand the science of what keeps females sexually and romantically attracted.

If a guy wants to remain personally free its best not to ever get involved in any intimate relationships and really best not to even have sex with other physical people ideally.

Sex robots, sex dolls and jacking off are better anyway. Cause they don't ever have bitchy moods.
Saves a guy the hassle who is not prepared to have offspring.

A lot of what you mentioned here really comes down to how the woman was raised and the types of men she grew up around. I'm reading this a 2nd time and so much of this reminds me of the girl I was dating in the spring, the one I mentioned on my previous post above. I'd also add that how the man is raised will play a role in the type of woman he'd be better off pursuing a relationship with. A guy that grew up well of in a healthy household with good role models probably isn't going to find a good fit with a woman who grew up in a trailer park. People generally associate and date with those who are of a similar social status and upbringing compared to themselves.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

The point was that woman talking shit doesn't have a clue about what makes a good potential dating prospect. Obviously a guy can be a real catch but if your personalities don't click the relationship probably wont work. Trashy women with daddy issues may see a high quality and mature man as boring and unattractive, these are the types of women that thrive off of drama and get bored easily. I've met women like this, not necessarily dated them but interacted with them, and it's like they are locked into the mode of being a bratty teenage girl.

I dated a 19 year old Mexican girl in the spring, she was pretty hot but it didn't last long. First time I went to pick her up when I got to her neighborhood I thought I could have gotten robbed at any moment, it was actually that bad. Anyway, over the course of several weeks we had been seeing each other she'd tell me about her upbringing and how dysfunctional it sounded, I couldn't relate at all because I wasn't raised around people like that but I could see how it would be a real struggle. She'd fly off the handle about trivial things, create drama for no reason and seemed incapable of taking responsibility. When I'd pick her up and bring her to my place I'd always ask if she'd want a drink, if she was comfortable with the air conditioning, overall just trying to be considerate and thoughtful. She later ended up telling me that she saw this as a sign that I was uncomfortable and or trying to get something out of her. I could go on but the point is that some women out there will never have a clue, they could land a perfect guy that is hot, fit, intelligent, fun and has everything going for him but still find a reason to reject him.

Yep, exactly. I have seen it many times over in women I know.
Basically if a chick has daddy issues that are unresolved that usually means she will seek out men who abused them just like their fathers. They also tend to have terrible communication skills to top it all off.

She probably told you that after that fact didn't she instead of bringing it up real time?
Then she probably went dead silent right after eh? Not leaving it open for you to even answer or discuss.

It would be nice if chicks told us stuff up front so it could be talked over real time. Like "Hey when you do that, I feel this way, am I processing this accurately?" and then you could just answer and create further rapport then and there and move forward more comfortably.
But instead its usually a chick will mis-process one single thing and then its game over, she's emotionally convinced she is correct.
And then they will completely shut down OR become actually vicious if you try to maintain any form of contact, however polite it may be. You make a mistake in her mind and you will be hated forevermore.
So much for sweet feminine "compassion and understanding"

 

[sangheili90]

Yep, exactly. I have seen it many times over in women I know.
Basically if a chick has daddy issues that are unresolved that usually means she will seek out men who abused them just like their fathers. They also tend to have terrible communication skills to top it all off.

She probably told you that after that fact didn't she instead of bringing it up real time?
Then she probably went dead silent right after eh? Not leaving it open for you to even answer or discuss.

It would be nice if chicks told us stuff up front so it could be talked over real time. Like "Hey when you do that, I feel this way, am I processing this accurately?" and then you could just answer and create further rapport then and there and move forward more comfortably.
But instead its usually a chick will mis-process one single thing and then its game over, she's emotionally convinced she is correct.
And then they will completely shut down OR become actually vicious if you try to maintain any form of contact, however polite it may be. You make a mistake in her mind and you will be hated forevermore.
So much for sweet feminine "compassion and understanding"

LOL yeah I'd hear about this stuff later on through text message, never actually in the moment. I was actually really upfront with her with my intentions, the last string of text messages I got from her indicated that she said I was desperate, just like you mentioned on your first post. Yeah, she was actually pretty nasty towards the end. I only had sex with her once, she found out I had a big dick when she asked for a picture. The next day she came over and within about 10 minutes I was already all over. She took her clothes off and spread her legs for me but she had a hard time with it and said I was too rough and that it hurt, she wouldn't have sex with me after that. I tried to initiate with her the next time she came over and she refused, I tried to talk to her about it but she started yelling at me so I brought her home. Lots of drama, but she kept in contact with me up through July.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

LOL yeah I'd hear about this stuff later on through text message, never actually in the moment. I was actually really upfront with her with my intentions, the last string of text messages I got from her indicated that she said I was desperate, just like you mentioned on your first post. Yeah, she was actually pretty nasty towards the end. I only had sex with her once, she found out I had a big dick when she asked for a picture. The next day she came over and within about 10 minutes I was already all over. She took her clothes off and spread her legs for me but she had a hard time with it and said I was too rough and that it hurt, she wouldn't have sex with me after that. I tried to initiate with her the next time she came over and she refused, I tried to talk to her about it but she started yelling at me so I brought her home. Lots of drama, but she kept in contact with me up through July.

Yep, exactly. Sounds like a super typical clockwork case. LOL
She processed you as desperate, 100% as predicted.

Texting and Calling can only be used for setting physical dates with women, period. Any more than that and they will see the continued contact as desperate to some degree or another, period. OR they will just get overly used to you and take you cheaply which leads to the same exact bitchy, nasty behavioral result.
Its really like a time bomb and will manifest eventually in some form or another with any woman from any background.

Best case scenario she just gets emotionally and romantically bored but remains polite if she happens to be a good communicator; which is very rare especially nowadays. OR she just breaks contact and goes dead cold and you never hear from her again.

Its a sad fact but temporal sexual and romantic attraction is very mechanical. It would be nice if it wasn't.
Its so fucking predictable its actually comical.

 

[sangheili90]

Don't you belong to a good country club? And you need to associate with classy, well-bred people. Be a part of the crowd you belong in or want to rise to. Works well every time.

I totally agree, but despite all the drama and craziness I actually am glad I had this experience with her. I'm 27 but also going to college right now, I met her in the spring on campus during a film night that they were having. She was pretty hot and had a great ass and I liked talking to her so I told her to give me her number, ended up taking her out a few nights later. I lost my virginity to her and after that I gained way more confidence with women, this was back in early May and I've been on a role with meeting women since then.

I'd upload a picture of her if this wasn't LPSG but most men attracted with women would go ape crazy to have a chance to fuck a girl like that.

 

[sangheili90]

Yep, exactly. Sounds like a super typical clockwork case. LOL
She processed you as desperate, 100% as predicted.

Texting and Calling can only be used for setting physical dates with women, period. Any more than that and they will see the continued contact as desperate to some degree or another, period. OR they will just get overly used to you and take you cheaply which leads to the same exact bitchy, nasty behavioral result.
Its really like a time bomb and will manifest eventually in some form or another with any woman from any background.

Best case scenario she just gets emotionally and romantically bored but remains polite if she happens to be a good communicator; which is very rare especially nowadays. OR she just breaks contact and goes dead cold and you never hear from her again.

Its a sad fact but temporal sexual and romantic attraction is very mechanical. It would be nice if it wasn't.
Its so fucking predictable its actually comical.

I'd only text her to set up a date, she'd be the one to start these texting conversations instead of talking about it face to face. I learned a lot about this stuff in a very short period of time, this was the first girl I had been dating.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

I totally agree, but despite all the drama and craziness I actually am glad I had this experience with her. I'm 27 but also going to college right now, I met her in the spring on campus during a film night that they were having. She was pretty hot and had a great ass and I liked talking to her so I told her to give me her number, ended up taking her out a few nights later. I lost my virginity to her and after that I gained way more confidence with women, this was back in early May and I've been on a role with meeting women since then.

I'd upload a picture of her if this wasn't LPSG but most men attracted with women would go ape crazy to have a chance to fuck a girl like that.

I'd only text her to set up a date, she'd be the one to start these texting conversations instead of talking about it face to face. I learned a lot about this stuff in a very short period of time, this was the first girl I had been dating.

Yeah, for me no matter how hot a girl is if she expresses any type of off putting behavior my sexual attraction to her becomes practically non-existent. The physical is only attractive when a feminine, loving personality comes along with it.
That is why I am glad women leave when they see I am not attracted to them or their bitchy behavior.

That's when they get really aggressive and vile.
They can't stand not being able to allure us sexually. LOL

Even if chicks initiate texting sessions, they have to be kept super brief otherwise it always ends the same.
You become the texting buddy = not a romantic interest anymore LOL

 

[sangheili90]

Yeah, for me no matter how hot a girl is if she expresses any type of off putting behavior my sexual attraction to her becomes practically non-existent. The physical is only attractive when a feminine, loving personality comes along with it.
That is why I am glad women leave when they see I am not attracted to them or their bitchy behavior.

That's when they get really aggressive and vile.
They can't stand not being able to allure us sexually. LOL

Even if chicks initiate texting sessions, they have to be kept super brief otherwise it always ends the same.
You become the texting buddy = not a romantic interest anymore LOL

She was fine when we first met but this slowly started becoming more apparent about 2 weeks into dating. Really not a big deal, not like I put a ring on it or anything. Learned a lot in a very short period of time and if I didn't date her I'm not sure I would have gained the confidence I had to pursue other women I met earlier this summer.

 

[sangheili90]

Fuck hot one-nighters out of town. I have a bud in SD, and when I go there, we'd fuck these young Asian chicks together that he'd get for us (Navy SEAL guy). Hot shit, no drama, no strings.

I'm not really interested in one night stands. Besides, I've already met a couple other hot Latinas recently so it really isn't a big deal.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

She was fine when we first met but this slowly started becoming more apparent about 2 weeks into dating. Really not a big deal, not like I put a ring on it or anything. Learned a lot in a very short period of time and if I didn't date her I'm not sure I would have gained the confidence I had to pursue other women I met earlier this summer.

A man should NEVER pursue women, ever.
They must pursue you.

Then you can tell they are higher quality and legitimately interested.
No matter how shy a woman is if she likes a guy she will pursue him in some way guaranteed.
Respond to pursuit that pleases you, and encourage it more, but never the other way around.

 

[sangheili90]

A man should NEVER pursue women, ever.
They must pursue you.

Then you can tell they are higher quality and legitimately interested.
No matter how shy a woman is if she likes a guy she will pursue him in some way guaranteed.
Respond to pursuit that pleases you, and encourage it more, but never the other way around.

You know what I meant, don't dissect it lol.

 

[The Meat Rod Cometh]

You know what I meant, don't dissect it lol.

You know I know what you meant brother, don't tri-sect it. LOL

Of course everyone knows you are the greatest "misogynist" on LPSG right?
Just gotta give a brother a run for his money.

And yes people this post was friendly and sarcastic.
Before you all go off the handle with absurd "misogyny" claims.

Feminists suck their own hairy balls. That is not sarcastic.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Oh jeez, now there are three fuck-bois having a hay day over here.

Y'all just need to get together and circle-jerk it out.

 

[sangheili90]

You know I know what you meant brother, don't tri-sect it. LOL

Of course everyone knows you are the greatest "misogynist" on LPSG right?
Just gotta give a brother a run for his money.

And yes people this post was friendly and sarcastic.
Before you all go off the handle with absurd "misogyny" claims.

Feminists suck their own hairy balls. That is not sarcastic.

These morons don't even understand what actual misogyny would look like. We should buy them a one way ticket to the middle east where they can experience it first hand, ironic how these same people are all for the mass importation of people from the Islamic world.

 

[sangheili90]

Exactly. They want them here, no matter how awful their track record is on women's or gay rights. SJWs are concerned only with virtue signaling and their own internalized hate of the country.

That's why they also hate masculine men, these people are more likely to be independent and defend their culture and heritage. There is a massive push to emasculate men, it's not quite that bad here in the U.S but has definitely taken strong roots in much of Europe. I think the massive push and cultural normalization of transgender men becoming women is a means to accomplish this. You'll also see the guilt, name calling and harassment is an attempt to keep people in line who don't follow along with the leftist agenda. You are a racist, a misogynist, stupid, uneducated, ignorant, etc. Just look through this thread and you can see it lol.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

These morons don't even understand what actual misogyny would look like. We should buy them a one way ticket to the middle east where they can experience it first hand, ironic how these same people are all for the mass importation of people from the Islamic world.

I speak out on behalf of the rights of women World Wide. Just because people are more significant oppressed in other places in the world doesn't dismiss the bullshit that happens here in the states.

You're an actual idiot if you don't think @sangheili90 is a woman hater. He's the poster boy for the insecure, weak misogynist that exists right here in America.

 

[sangheili90]

I taught at a very regressive left college. I know this for a few years now. They want to start instituting criminal charges here for "misgendering," accidentally not using the preferred pronoun. The mentally ill can ask something, but not demand it; they need treatment, not coddling.

The WHO recognizes it as a mental illness, so I think I'll stick with what they are saying and not what the media is trying to tell me.