I think im bi and like my friend...

[905057]

I think im bisexual but i only really fancy my friend. Ive had dreams where i suck him off and he sucks me off. Hes very openly bisexual, like he has shown me his dick before. But he has a girlfriend... We casually be gay to each other, it sounds weird but its not rly... But he keeps saying im straight im not gay but like he has a girlfriends??? and i am straight except i fancy him?? I would love to show him my dick and stuff but i alwasy get a boner and i cant show that thats awkward? How do i not get a boner but at the same time how can i get to do something sexually with him i just rly want to im quite confused!?!?!?
BAsically how do i ask him to get sexual with me and do stuff? like on a sleepover or something?? How to i get a bro blowjob or something ?

 

[fun4812]

# 1answer alot of people will say: get drunk with him.

#2 just flat out ask him
# 3 keep it to yourself unless you want to run the risk of loosing your friendship.

 

[hvdude]

If he is openly bi- just tell him you think you are too. Then see where it goes from there. If he wants to take it further he will but as fun4812 says you may risk damaging your friendship or losing him as a friend altogether. Then again you may find a great buddy to explore your sexuality with who you trust.

 

[tallblondviking]

Be totally honest with him; say exactly what you have here. Honesty will help maintain the friendship and it already sounds like there is an open discussion of sexuality beyond regular bravado between you two so you're ahead of the game.

 

[905057]

i would and i really want to but hes open about it but at the same time he has a girlfriend and yeah

 

[dickthrobbing]

Tread carefully, you could loose him as a friend. You will just have to try and send him signals that you fancy him if he picks up on them he will either -
Ignore them if he is not interested
Hit on you if he is; or
Tell you straight out to stop hitting on him

 

[Brandon1]

I think im bisexual but i only really fancy my friend. Ive had dreams where i suck him off and he sucks me off. Hes very openly bisexual, like he has shown me his dick before. But he has a girlfriend... We casually be gay to each other, it sounds weird but its not rly... But he keeps saying im straight im not gay but like he has a girlfriends??? and i am straight except i fancy him?? I would love to show him my dick and stuff but i alwasy get a boner and i cant show that thats awkward? How do i not get a boner but at the same time how can i get to do something sexually with him i just rly want to im quite confused!?!?!?
BAsically how do i ask him to get sexual with me and do stuff? like on a sleepover or something?? How to i get a bro blowjob or something ?

I've got a very similar problem, except I don't have a crush on a friend, I just am bi and don't know how to go about initializing myself into the bisexual world of experiences. I wish you the best of luck with your situation.

 

[933295]

i would and i really want to but hes open about it but at the same time he has a girlfriend and yeah

I have a girlfriend too. It doesn't mean much. If someone is bi, they're attracted to both girls and guys, right?

 

[Brandon1]

I have a girlfriend too. It doesn't mean much. If someone is bi, they're attracted to both girls and guys, right?

Essentially yeah, but it also means that half of you is gay and the other half is straight. If you fight it, the One side you don't embrace will start to become an unavoidable issue at some point in your life. I finally accepted my bi side this year and feel MUCH better. Good luck!

 

[933295]

Essentially yeah, but it also means that half of you is gay and the other half is straight. If you fight it, the One side you don't embrace will start to become an unavoidable issue at some point in your life. I finally accepted my bi side this year and feel MUCH better. Good luck!

I'm not sure what half of me is gay or what half is straight! ;-)

 

[Brandon1]

I'm not sure what half of me is gay or what half is straight! ;-)

Lol does it matter?

 

[905057]

I've got a very similar problem, except I don't have a crush on a friend, I just am bi and don't know how to go about initializing myself into the bisexual world of experiences. I wish you the best of luck with your situation.

you too

 

[Brandon1]

you too

It looks like you have a great body, your screen.name is hot cock so that's a 50%/50% chance that's true and you seem like a decent guy and you're younger. You should have no problem getting someone who YOU and vice.versa.

 

[curtdude]

Dude you have a nice cock whip it out and show it to him how could he turn it down

 

[933295]

Easy... if he's not into you. Having sex with another person is more than what kind of equipment they have. Usually it has a lot to do with how you're both attracted to each other. Attraction has several aspects to it. If the chemistry s there, then do for it.

 

[Ajax1]

I think im bisexual but i only really fancy my friend. Ive had dreams where i suck him off and he sucks me off. Hes very openly bisexual, like he has shown me his dick before. But he has a girlfriend... We casually be gay to each other, it sounds weird but its not rly... But he keeps saying im straight im not gay but like he has a girlfriends??? and i am straight except i fancy him?? I would love to show him my dick and stuff but i alwasy get a boner and i cant show that thats awkward? How do i not get a boner but at the same time how can i get to do something sexually with him i just rly want to im quite confused!?!?!?
BAsically how do i ask him to get sexual with me and do stuff? like on a sleepover or something?? How to i get a bro blowjob or something ?

He's openly bi & showed you his cock? .. He already tried to hook up but you missed it.
Ive done this, get a bunch of cock pics you like on your phone & get drunk w him then show him your 'friends' stash of cocks she likes & the rest will happen

 

[surfnwoody]

I think im bisexual but i only really fancy my friend. Ive had dreams where i suck him off and he sucks me off. Hes very openly bisexual, like he has shown me his dick before. But he has a girlfriend... We casually be gay to each other, it sounds weird but its not rly... But he keeps saying im straight im not gay but like he has a girlfriends??? and i am straight except i fancy him?? I would love to show him my dick and stuff but i alwasy get a boner and i cant show that thats awkward? How do i not get a boner but at the same time how can i get to do something sexually with him i just rly want to im quite confused!?!?!?
BAsically how do i ask him to get sexual with me and do stuff? like on a sleepover or something?? How to i get a bro blowjob or something ?

Have a few drinks, do a sleepover, check out some internet porn, kid around, get hard, he's bi..... Sounds like fun to me.

 

[fbneros]

Well be open with him. If he show his cock to you it meen that he is interested in you. you dont be ashamed. And making a step forward to him it wont make loosing him. I think you both will feel great and willake your friendship stronger.

 

[william1]

Would be nice to hear an update seeing as original posting is long time ago, did you ever consummate your relationship ?

 

[trackjock13]

have had this same situation more than once with my older bro's buddies. If they are showing off their cock, much less saying they are "bi", girlfriend or not he is wanting sexual contact w/you. True, the "few too many beers" may lower inhibitions or give an excuse for having sex w/you, but sounds like he is flashing his cock w/o alcohol. In my cases, bi guys w/girlfriends just want sex w/o the emotional commitment required by most girls. I don't understand you getting hardons and not wanting him to see you that way. You should not hide a physical reaction from him. Sounds like he has been giving you cues and you are not responding. You should. I think you are afraid of getting emotionally hurt yourself if there is just sex w/him w/o a relationship, but that's a whole 'nuther thread...have fun...life is short.