Hey all,
I've been on this site a while, mostly as an admirer not much of a contributer. Anyway, I need some advice, maybe more 'push' than anything. Little background - pretty sure I'm gay, but definitely not out to anyone. (Damn, my heart is pounding just typing this out, haha) Anyway, I live with one roommate, and we're both new to town, so we pretty much only hang out with each other (no, there's no gay/love interest story there. We'll save that for the fiction section lol). Therefore, he knows where I am all the time.
However, my roommate is out of town from now through the weekend, and I'm thinking this might be the perfect weekend to, honestly, hook up with a guy and make sure it's what I'm into. I'm about 95% sure I'm into guys, and I've somewhat hooked up with a guy before (both very drunk, and he's gay), and... to be completely honest... I feel like I have all this built-up sexual energy (23 and I'm a virgin, mostly because I'm not out) and I just need to, for lack of better words, get it out there. (Yeah, awful choice of words.) Problem is, I'm definitely not ready to come out, but I want to make this happen in a short amount of time. A) Is this a good idea? (I'm turned on just thinking about it... but that doesn't necessarily mean it's a good idea, lol), and B) What's the best way to find a guy to make this happen with? Online? Club?
Any comments are appreciated. If it ends up working out, I promise to share the details lol (and to embellish if it doesn't go very well haha)
Thanks!
I've been on this site a while, mostly as an admirer not much of a contributer. Anyway, I need some advice, maybe more 'push' than anything. Little background - pretty sure I'm gay, but definitely not out to anyone. (Damn, my heart is pounding just typing this out, haha) Anyway, I live with one roommate, and we're both new to town, so we pretty much only hang out with each other (no, there's no gay/love interest story there. We'll save that for the fiction section lol). Therefore, he knows where I am all the time.
However, my roommate is out of town from now through the weekend, and I'm thinking this might be the perfect weekend to, honestly, hook up with a guy and make sure it's what I'm into. I'm about 95% sure I'm into guys, and I've somewhat hooked up with a guy before (both very drunk, and he's gay), and... to be completely honest... I feel like I have all this built-up sexual energy (23 and I'm a virgin, mostly because I'm not out) and I just need to, for lack of better words, get it out there. (Yeah, awful choice of words.) Problem is, I'm definitely not ready to come out, but I want to make this happen in a short amount of time. A) Is this a good idea? (I'm turned on just thinking about it... but that doesn't necessarily mean it's a good idea, lol), and B) What's the best way to find a guy to make this happen with? Online? Club?
Any comments are appreciated. If it ends up working out, I promise to share the details lol (and to embellish if it doesn't go very well haha)
Thanks!