I think I've convinced TheBF on non-circumcision

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  1. petite

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    We're having a baby boy and I'm anti-circumcision. He's cut and really doesn't know anything about uncircumcised penii. I think I may have convinced him that not cutting is the best idea for our son. What do you think? Is there anything else I should tell him to sway him?
     
  2. Charles Finn

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    tell him to give your son the choice he never had
     
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    Mind you he won't be able to really show his son how to clean it of peel back the foreskin. I'm not saying for or against just merely putting in my two cents.
     
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    Hats off to Charlie ... I agree.
     
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    I'm sure that I could find a friendly volunteer in the chat room who could show me how to do it. :wink:
     
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    petite, thank you for helping your son keep his intact manhood. I'm not a basher of parents that choose otherwise but I feel it's much better to let each man choose what he wants for himself. I have restored some of my foreskin, but I can never replace all the nerves that were removed soon after I was born.
    I've attached the NORM site below. Maybe you and husband could check it out.

    NORM - The National Organization of Restoring Men
     
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    Perfect!
     
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    Eh, the problem is that he likes his penis the way it is. He doesn't feel like he had a choice "taken" from him. It's just the penis he's always known and loved.
     
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    I'm not intact but I know if I have a son he will be (at least until he can choose for himself). I am confident that I can show him what he needs to know, and, like petite said, I can always find help. :smile:
     
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    Functions of the Prepuce or "Foreskin" (part 1) • VideoSift: Online Video *Quality Control

    Above is the link to a video entitled "The Prepuce". It is a definite must see for both you and your husband. It is based on medical research studies performed in North America and Europe it explains the anatomy and physiology of the foreskin. It is very professional and easy to understand.

    Thank you for looking out for your son - you just made my day.


    Note: you do need to be careful on you handle it with your husband - you need to handle the communication delicately and make sure you DON'T criticize his circumcised status. I would hint around a bit about it over a period of time. Tell him you are doing some research on it. Ease him into the fact that you are questioning the practice and eventually work up to showing him the video "The Prepuce".

    Good luck and may the foreskin be with your son! :smile:
     
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    seconded.
     
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    keep it! how hard is it to figure out how to clean foreskin? it was easy for me, i taught myself lol.
     
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    Thank you for the thoughtful advice. I will show it to him!

    I'll be careful, but I don't think that he's insecure about how I feel about his penis. I got black-out drunk one night and screamed "I love your cock!" over and over again at the top of my lungs while we had sex, along with a lot of other colorful things I've never said before about how much I appreciate his package. He said he tried to get me to be quieter because he was afraid that the neighbors could hear me, but I was too drunk to listen. He said that he was laughing really damn hard because it was hilarious. If he ever had any doubt about whether I love his penis, I believe I eliminated them that night.
     
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    my favorite thing to do is play with my foreskin. a lot of nerve endings are there. nerve endings = pleasure :D
     
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    Oh lord I am NOT going to read all of this because I am sick to death of defending the natural penis, but I am a mom so I want to say good for you for sticking to your guns. My son's father IS cut and it's total nonsense to think that your son will be all confused about cleaning. Thats' just bullshit. You clean it for him when he's a baby and when he's old enough to take showers he can clean it himself. We have NEVER had an issue..EVER. No infection, no pain, no problems. Just go with your gut and don't listen to the bullshit. An uncut penis is not a freakin Rubiks cube, for god's sake.
     
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    Rubiks cube? Good one. :smile2: Is there any special cleaning needed? Just wash the outside. Later when his foreskin is mobile, I'm sure he'll figure out how to "wash." :mischievous:
     
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    most of the time when i see an uncut penis its ugly.... imo...
    most of the girls ive met throughout my lifetime prefer cut ones....

    im cut, and i love my dick.. and personally im attracted to cut ones... i think they are easier on the eyes..
     
  19. Pitbull

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    Well the boyfriend is so well adjusted. :smile: I'm happy for him in that regards.

    Now before I answer your question
    I'm missing part of my cock and if you could just excuse me for a minute or two...
    I'm just trying to find it here...
    Haven't seen it in years...
    Oh fuck!
    I think someone threw it out!
    Shit! Damn!
    Guess its gone for good.
    And I really was rather attached to it, too.
     
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    Show him a video of the process.
    Then explain that there are so many men in varying cultures who live wonderful lives with foreskin.
     
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