i think i've finally lost all interest in men.

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

For all those that hate men and themselves we get it now please leave we are tired of hearing you.

Not cool seattle!

It's not that some women hate men, it's that all women love to bitch'n'moan about men.

If you can't deal with it. Stay out of the forum.

Besides if your avatar is any indication, you're old enough to know that half of what the average female says is crap. So don't be so sensitive!!!

that's their game!!! :biggrin1:

 

[dolfette]

Well now that's just silly. That doesn't give sufficient credit to all those single women who are there to drink and drive.

there are cars to wreck and orphans to make.

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

there are cars to wreck and orphans to make.

and you're just the gal to make 'em bridget jones :wink:

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

My misunderstanding. FWIW I think she's a complete person - a complete nutter! (only kidding :biggrin1

Let's review. Shall we dolf has provisionally announced that she going off men. This as a result of having gone out with some guy, some guy who is not her BF. And that this outing was was allegedly platonic and done with her BF's prior knowledge & consent.

And as a result of some as yet unspecified indiscretion by said escort (didn't pick up the bar tab I'm thinking), dolf wants to take it out on the whole gender...her no doubt long suffering BF included apparently.

Add to that her inability to visit her favorite watering holes unaccompanied without fear molestation.

Dolf, don't give up the faith. If the islamaphobes are right London will soon be under sharia law, alcohol will be banned and you will be issued your standard regulation burqa.

problem solved.

:biggrin1:

 

[dolfette]

scalawag, posted in that thread, you goldfish.

http://www.lpsg.org/177016-wtf-is-a-guy-thinking.html

 

[drac]

In all seriousness if you have problems with relationships whether it is with men or women and you always seem to have problems no matter the person, then the problem is YOU! So maybe you should do everyone you meet a favor and leave them alone and let them find someone they can get along with instead of being with you and you ruining the relationship somewhere along the line. Sorry to be blunt, but maybe you need an attitude change.

 

[hsarge]

Our society forces the concept that 1 person is all you need. Not all societies have been that way. The ancient Greeks, who we honor as the the forerunners of Western society, were not so. Wives were for hearth, home and children. The Hetaera were the women for sexual adventures. The hetaera were also quite educated and respected for their intellect. Dolfie, it is nice to have a person to experience things (art, nature, etc) with; that does not imply 24/7. Your art, wit, cynicism, etc, would seem to make you a very interesting.

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

scalawag, posted in that thread, you goldfish.

http://www.lpsg.org/177016-wtf-is-a-guy-thinking.html

y'mean this is same guy?

And you're on tear about it after a week?

Okaaaaay....

so now all that's left to explain is how this is your BF's fault?

 

[dolfette]

In all seriousness if you have problems with relationships whether it is with men or women and you always seem to have problems no matter the person, then the problem is YOU! So maybe you should do everyone you meet a favor and leave them alone and let them find someone they can get along with instead of being with you and you ruining the relationship somewhere along the line. Sorry to be blunt, but maybe you need an attitude change.

that would be what i've been saying this whole thread.

you're not the sharpest, are you pet.

so why exactly do i need an attitude change if i'm happy alone?

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

you're not the sharpest, are you pet.

He doesn't give your posts his full attention.

Just the attention they deserve.:biggrin1:

 

[drac]

that would be what i've been saying this whole thread.

you're not the sharpest, are you pet.

so why exactly do i need an attitude change if i'm happy alone?

You just remind me of a friend of mine with your attitude. I love her very much, she has your same attitude but deep down, she really wants that special person in her life. That's all. Those who really are happy alone, don't complain about being with people and think they need to be alone, they just are.

 

[dolfette]

y'mean this is same guy?

And you're on tear about it after a week?

Okaaaaay....

so now all that's left to explain is how this is your BF's fault?

no, it just highlighted a lot of things for me.

and it's not the bf's fault. but that's not the point.
being incompatible isn't anyone's fault.
i'm just accepting that i'm not relationship compatible.
being with someone, no matter how wonderful that someone may be, just isn't giving me anything i want that i can't create for myself.

the bf is just about perfect,
and i like him more than any other guy,
but that's still not enough...in fact, it's too much.

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

the bf is just about perfect,
and i like him more than any other guy,
but that's still not enough...in fact, it's too much.

awwww y'mean he's so nice it's boring?

now that's a conundrum I've never heard of before...

 

[dolfette]

You just remind me of a friend of mine with your attitude. I love her very much, she has your same attitude but deep down, she really wants that special person in her life. That's all. Those who really are happy alone, don't complain about being with people and think they need to be alone, they just are.

everyone has turning points.

this thread, in case you'd not noticed, isn't complaining about the man i'm with. far from it, because the man is great. it's asking about societal pressures to be part of a couple.

please try to keep up, pet.

 

[dolfette]

awwww y'mean he's so nice it's boring?

now that's a conundrum I've never heard of before...

did i say that?

no, he's far from boring.
it's really not about him.

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

everyone has turning points.

this thread, in case you'd not noticed, isn't complaining about the man i'm with. far from it, because the man is great. it's asking about societal pressures to be part of a couple.

please try to keep up, pet.

well, now in that spirit. just how much notice are you preparing to give "mr. wonderful" before you kick him to the curb like yesterday's garbage.

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

did i say that?

no, he's far from boring.
it's really not about him.

Right, it's all about you. Sorry. :redface:

 

[dolfette]

well, now in that spirit. just how much notice are you preparing to give "mr. wonderful" before you kick him to the curb like yesterday's garbage.

don't say it like that :frown1:
...shit!

 

[B_FatMushroomHead]

You chicks still blathering about how lame men are while on a big dick site? Ok, cool. Just checking.

Where's my vittles, dolfette?! GIT!

 

[dolfette]

You chicks still blathering about how lame men are while on a big dick site? Ok, cool. Just checking.

Where's my vittles, dolfette?! GIT!

no, we're onto how great he is and how breaking up sucks.

sheesh

what are vittles? is it like pasta?