i think i've finally lost all interest in men.

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it just means it's beside the point.

Maybe for you...I knew he meant what he said when he posted. I was just trying to give him my opinion (even if it's unwarranted, his opinion was too if we go by that).
 

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I have a different outlook on this somewhat. Whenever I listen to my sister or my mother having to manipulate or "check in" with their spouses, I think it odd. I get frustrated, "why can't we just go already?" It was my sister that said "oh I don't have the same freedoms that you do about some decisions." While I was a little annoyed that she could be saying that I don't have the responsibilities she does with family, I took it the way she intended, that I don't have to answer to someone else.

If anything, when I'm in a relationship, I fet flustered when the guy in my life makes a decision that affects, has consequences for me, and fails to consult me. It really irked me. So I look at differently, it doesn't mean that I'm selfish because I am single any more than it means that I am incomplete without a guy in my life. I do have my freedoms. I can chose to take a vacay somewhere or go to an event without checking in with my significant other. My mother, my sister and my best friend envy me in that way. They don't envy that dating pool though.

Grass is greener on the other side kind of thing.
 

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I've had similar experiences on the opposite side of the gender coin.

"You CHOOSE to remain single?" followed by a look that undoubtedly means "what the hell is wrong with you?"