I Think My Roommate Might Be Bi/bi-curious?

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I think my roommate might be bi/bi-curious. He’s had several girlfriends in the past and has sex with them all. He’s always trying to find girls to hook up with too but I think it might just be a cover up. It sometimes feels like he’s flirting with me at times. I’m wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to how I could find out if he’s bi/bi-curious without coming straight out and asking him. Also wondering if anyone has suggestions for how to make a move on him if he is. I’m still bi in the closet so I’m not sure what the best move is, but I think he suspects that I’m bi. Thanks for the help in advance!
 
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I think my roommate might be bi/bi-curious. He’s had several girlfriends in the past and has sex with them all. He’s always trying to find girls to hook up with too but I think it might just be a cover up. It sometimes feels like he’s flirting with me at times. I’m wondering if anyone has any suggestions as to how I could find out if he’s bi/bi-curious without coming straight out and asking him. Also wondering if anyone has suggestions for how to make a move on him if he is. I’m still bi in the closet so I’m not sure what the best move is, but I think he suspects that I’m bi. Thanks for the help in advance!
same here my room mate moved in thought he was str8 till one night after a few glasses of wine...
 

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Don’t be stupid and follow that advice.

Just sit down with him and just let him know that you’re bi and say that you hope he’s ok with it.

Right there is the door be wide open for him to feel comfortable to confess if he chooses.

Please, don’t act like it’s a porn movie, because it’s not.
 

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Don’t be stupid and follow that advice.

Just sit down with him and just let him know that you’re bi and say that you hope he’s ok with it.

Right there is the door be wide open for him to feel comfortable to confess if he chooses.

Please, don’t act like it’s a porn movie, because it’s not.
I just haven’t came out yet to my friends & family and he’s friends with some of my friends too
 
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I just haven’t came out yet to my friends & family and he’s friends with some of my friends too

Either way you're coming out to him, but making such a bold move. Right now this all sounds like a fantasy in your head (and that's fine.) but if you want the cock, then you need to open up your mouth.