[And it turns out that for some people, direct stimulation of the cervix is highly pleasurable and even results in its own
distinct genre of orgasm.]
Had no idea that was a thing. Thank you.
[For me, if the cock is in front of the cervix, it’s wonderful, and if it’s behind it, then I’m finished and need to curl up in a ball.]
I can't even picture that. Though also helpful to lpsgers.
[In my anecdotal experience, some men can correct with positioning and others are hopeless. It seems to depend on how in tune with their bodies they are, and particularly how sensitive their genitals are—how well they can feel where their penis is in vaginal space.]
Well i'm screwed.
[While I do think your sexual health and pleasure is, for the most part, in your own hands, it’s kind of a bummer that she’s the one asking this question and not him. I feel like if you have a big dick, the
one downside is you need to learn how to wield it.]
Now i feel personally attacked. Also very helpful for lpsgers but man...i'm trying damnit!
[I can imagine it might be difficult to get honest feedback with the kind of nuance that helps one figure out exactly what spot to avoid? Like, when I’ve been punched in the back of the cervix, I’m definitely not on board for a “Does this hurt? How about now?” research mission.]
That's more than fair.
[It was the
diva cup. It has to go way up in there, and then you have to squeeze it just right to get it sealed properly, so I spent a lot of time feeling around my cervix.]
First time hearing about that too.
[I don’t think lube is going to help the cervix issue. Heightened arousal might. It doesn’t for me, but that doesn’t mean anything for this woman’s body. I’m suspecting that he’s also significantly wide. Lube and arousal will absolutely help with accommodating girth.]
Hmm. Never thought that lube could help with that but i have read some comments from both men and women who do online. Also good information. The rest is also very good info. Thanks for the add.