I used to be ashamed of my foreskin...

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  1. LemacST

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    then I realized that once I was actually having sex, girls either didn't realize it or didn't care. This is true for me at least, then again, I don't have a very long foreskin as I have seen some guys have on here or in some porn. I know this for sure because none of them obviously reacted weird. Only one asked, after I dated her for months. Also, funny story, I was out with my two of my guy friends and two girls I hooked up with (neither of them knew however because one was done in secret). We all started talking about sex. Circumcision/foreskins got brought up. Both girls literally were like "EW, I WOULD NEVER DO A GUY WITH A FORESKIN, THAT'Z SO GROSS!!". It was cute because my foreskin was slapping around the back of their mouths/vaginal walls/rectum at one point or the other :smile: LOL. Retards :biggrin1:

    I remember I used to get paralyzed with fear thinking that a girl was going to see my foreskin, be like "ew wtf" and not have sex with me (and of course, tell the entire universe). Then I realized that I wasn't the only guy in the world who wasn't cut. Even in the US, a lot of my peers (at least of my generation), most which I did not expect, were circumcised.

    Now I don't care. It really depends on the situation, but I don't feel I'd feel weird admitting that I wasn't circumcised. It really only depends on the people, however...a good amount of people are still deluded morons who think foreskin=smegma=disgusting penis, so I'd rather not tell them that I'm uncut. Other than that though, I am uncut and proud!
     
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    I think some people just think that when you have an erection, your foreskin GROWS with it, so you constantly have a piece of irremovable skin covering your head. This is against the norm, therefore unamerican, therefore it should get butchered off, right guys?
     
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    Lemac, if I was one of those girls, "Yum!" would be my first response to seeing your penis.:biggrin::tongue:
     
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    Foreskin fucking rocks! Flaunt it!
     
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    Uncut cocks are the very best kind of cocks!!!!

    It always surprises me the unusualness (is that even a word?) of them on boards like this. The strong feelings of difference and shame uncircumsised men seemed to have felt growing up saddens me .

    I think, usually, the anti circumsision sentiment comes across most strongly if you live in Americia.

    You ( general you) seem to be the only western world country still lopping off bits of the male body in the name of aesthetics.

    Even though your country ( America) is predominantly Christian, and I would think most would believe, god got it right when he made humans.

    xx

    Honey
     
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    I love foreskin, don't be ashamed of it, the more American guys who flaunt it the more it will impact on your society and make foreskin attractive and less prone to getting an 'ick' from people who aren't familiar with foreskin.
     
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    I have a teenage son - and wish to hell, I'd left him alone at birth!

    He ended up with a bad/ tight circ. Poor Lad! Dad's please think about leaving it intact - they can always cut later, as Jewish boys do. It should be THEIR decision!
     
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    I am sorry to hear that. Don't rake yourself over coals for it. When you have a kid all you want to do is what doctors say is best even if goes against your better judgement. We're programmed to do that. If he has issues now you may want to ever-so-gently/surreptitiously/barely find a way for him to discover that there is foreskin restoration. Even if he doesn't want to restore completely the same techniques can be used to loosen a very tight/painful circumcision.

    What's done is done. You can't take back the past. You can work to help make his future better though. I don't presume to know your relationship with him but maybe letting him know about restoration and supporting him if he chooses to do so is a way to help heal you both.
     
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    LemacST - You've got nothing to be ashamed of, let me tell you. That's a hot cock! Hmmm... maybe you could found a band of militant intact men:

    The Foreskin Liberation Front or FORLIB :2gunsfiring_v1:.

    Don't forget to kidnap Patty Hearst. It's a great way to get publicity.
     
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    uncut and proud, me too
     
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    To Hell with Naples...

    Vedi Conchis e poi muor!
     
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    It makes me laugh when I hear of US girls reacting like that to a foreskin. Maybe guys will be the same soon if they encounter women with pubic hair.
     
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    Jews cut on day 8, which isn't much later.

    Sorry for what happened to your son. By telling others you will prevent future mishaps.
     
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    Never be ashamed to be cut or uncut. :) The people here (Not all, but many. And some people in other places penis is discussed or viewed... mostly by gay men too.) are out to make some feel bad about being cut, so some of us know how you feel. <3
     
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    I agree with that.
    You're confusing effect with intent. Speaking for myself: I don't purposely try to make cut men "feel bad". I can't speak for everyone but I'm sure no one does that on purpose.

    Let's not start another circumcision battle. I'm sure everyone is tired of those.
     
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