What’s wrong with two buds trading hand jobs? We all jack off. Everyone is horny. It doesn’t mean you’re gay, it just means that you needed to shoot. I’ve had vlowmjobs from guys before and I have fucked a couple of guys, but I’ve never been fucked and have no desire. I wish that I had a jo buddy now, it would be cool to have some male intimacy like that. I really think that it’s the bond that we crave, not necessarily the sexual act—which can also be important, but society teaches us that men can’t be close. I know in my case, because I grew up in a single parent household with my mother (my father died when I was a baby) I’ve never had close male affection and it’s something I want.