i m with my boyfriend and we don t have a lot of sex... most of the time we have blow jobs and hand jobs but NO SEX!!! Why ? He doesn't like me? or want me? and when we have sex (once at a week or two weeks normal sex!!!we see each other only weekends cause of the work) it's just "one number" and sometimes we end same thing oral sex... i don t understand it ... And i ask to be tied up... he say yes but always is no ... what should i do to make it work ?