100% of the women I have met express this desire. They like kissing, and hugging and intimacy once in a while, but they mostly want rough aggressive animalistic sex. If they thought they did not want it in the begining they sure want a few weeks into the relationship. Here is a quote from a blogger that I have shown some women >>Tonight, I'm craving hard use, so hard I have no choice but only to feel the cock pounding into me, the hand yanking my head back by my hair, the fingers twisting my nipples until I scream as my pussy soaks his cock sinking deep... to feel my arms spread and pinned by his hands, making me helpless, what a glorious feeling. Free to just feel what he is doing to my body, with my body, using it for his pleasure, which is my pleasure, where does his end and mine begin... around and over and between, exchanging until there is nothing between us but skin...<< Universally they say YES, that is what I want. Now these are middle aged women, very athletic and hot, who have gone long periods of sexless times. They want to feel the testosterone oozing into them. The idea of being used is a little foreign to me. Women and gay men, does the idea of being "used" excite you?