"I want someone to use for their pleasure," Him/her

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  1. Wyldgusechaz

    Wyldgusechaz New Member

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    100% of the women I have met express this desire. They like kissing, and hugging and intimacy once in a while, but they mostly want rough aggressive animalistic sex. If they thought they did not want it in the begining they sure want a few weeks into the relationship.

    Here is a quote from a blogger that I have shown some women

    >>Tonight, I'm craving hard use, so hard I have no choice but only to feel the cock pounding into me, the hand yanking my head back by my hair, the fingers twisting my nipples until I scream as my pussy soaks his cock sinking deep... to feel my arms spread and pinned by his hands, making me helpless, what a glorious feeling. Free to just feel what he is doing to my body, with my body, using it for his pleasure, which is my pleasure, where does his end and mine begin... around and over and between, exchanging until there is nothing between us but skin...<<

    Universally they say YES, that is what I want. Now these are middle aged women, very athletic and hot, who have gone long periods of sexless times. They want to feel the testosterone oozing into them.

    The idea of being used is a little foreign to me. Women and gay men, does the idea of being "used" excite you?
     
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    Yes I love the idea of being fucked hard my hair gently pulled my nipples sucked hard and a hard big girth cock pounding my pussy. I also love the kissing, hugging, and cuddling though to. But when there is a gap in time I just want to get fucked hard for long period of time.
     
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    Absolutely not, no
     
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    The idea of a guy using my mouth for his pleasure? It's a delicate balance, but yes, that turns me on.
     
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    I think sex is tricky. There are so many varieties of sex, all depending on lust and mood.

    Are we sure this blogger is a woman, and not a man?
    On a personal level, the idea of being incredibly sexual is always a turn on. In terms of being "used", an element of sexual release for another person... I have to admit, there is a certain amount of sexuality involved in being used. Knowing that person is loosing control due to things you are doing with your penis/ass/hand/mouth... its very erotic.

    As long as you can get arousal by it, I'm all for the used feeling.
     
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    No, being "used" does nothing for me at all.

    Being "enjoyed" is what excites me.
     
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    I don't for a second believe that most women have the same nasty fantasies as men. That's where we are different.
     
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    I absolutely know this was written by a woman. I know her. She is sexually ravenous.
     
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    You'd be surprised.

    Men's fantasies are not necessarily "nasty" and the mind is infinite when it comes to fantasy.

    If you need proof just look at the erotica written by Pat Califia (before she became Patrick), Anais Nin's erotica, the erotic fiction of Dr. Carol Queen, and Anne Rice's erotic fiction.

    Yes I sometimes do enjoy having my mouth "used" for a man or woman's pleasure.

    I only do this with boyfriends/male partners for the most part. I like it when I am servicing a partner/boyfriend and He is fucking my mouth with His cock and his balls are hitting my furry chin, and He is making me gag and choke on His cock. Then later I get to do it to him.

    I have the fantasy of having a thin, femme, and boyish woman collar me, whip me, tie me up, do some knife play with a Buck knife or dagger held to my throat and this would all be done safe, sane, and consensually.
     
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    my first 3 sexual relationships featured rough, aggressive, pounding sex, and the desire to have either of our bodies used for dirty sexual pleasure. lots of submission and domination. i've been on both ends. when i was 19, my girl would willingly handcuff herself comfortably, and let me fuck her mouth.

    **i didn't realize i was so lucky to have a string of girlfriends that wanted to blow me this way
     
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