do you work out your willy? i have dated guys who could hang a wet towel of it. that's pretty strong, yes? i've dated varying degrees of...not stiffness...moveability once stiff. and once i dated a guy who, though rock hard, would flop about all over. as though it wasn't tethered at all. some, once hard, were unmovable from their desired angle. others could be moved a little...when i was learning to drive, the ex moved just enough to be the gear stick. explain this stuff to a non penis-toter?