helgaleena
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There are way too many babies in the world who were not actually wanted. Not only is it making us overpopulate, but it cripples the child to be unwanted, even if the parents do everything they 'should'. I know. I was one. I did not suffer malnutrition or homelessness or abuse, only ineffable emotional chill that made all things seem false.
I think sometimes that people who want to make a baby 'just because' think there is some magic in having a dependent being who is forced by instinct to need and idolize and imprint on you that it will make you lovable. Maybe, maybe not. Are you willing to risk perpetuating the cycle of lovelessness?
Get a pet and practice loving and caring for it first. See if you have it in you. Because with DNA testing, any child will be traced to you and you will be financially responsible for it anyway.
I think sometimes that people who want to make a baby 'just because' think there is some magic in having a dependent being who is forced by instinct to need and idolize and imprint on you that it will make you lovable. Maybe, maybe not. Are you willing to risk perpetuating the cycle of lovelessness?
Get a pet and practice loving and caring for it first. See if you have it in you. Because with DNA testing, any child will be traced to you and you will be financially responsible for it anyway.