I want to give more (pleasure that is)

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  1. JustHangin'

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    Ok, so one of the reasons i joined LPSG is because due to my girth, sometimes i cant give my lady as much sex as i would like due to her getting all sore...

    I like to consider myself as a giver, i am aware of lubrication and i always give hours of oral even before penetration so it wont hurt us (had a VERY PAINFUL EXPERIENCE), also i like it very much, but anyway... my question is

    After 5, 6 hours of sex, 2, 3 orgasms the women i've been with get sore and even with a lot of stimulation and oral sex from my part, they are just in pain (inside the vagina, vaginal lips, clitoris, etc)......

    Can some of you ladies enlighten me? is this something i have to get used to? can i do SOMETHING about it? or not all women are like this?
     
  2. Phil Ayesho

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    After 5 or 6 HOURS of sex she has only had 2 or 3 orgasms?


    Either you are a total poseur, a liar, or you simply don't know what the hell your doing.

    A woman can have 20 or more orgasms in an HOUR of well orchestrated oral sex...

    What the hell are you doing for 5 or 6 hours?
     
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    well said, phil! :biggrin1:
     
  4. JustHangin'

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    Well thats why I'm askin for advice... probably i dont know what im doing, but i wanna learn
     
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    I joined this place because the first time I had sex with my new boyfriend, I was in pain for a couple days…mostly because of length and um that was after maybe 20-30 minutes?

    The good news was after a few times I got more used to it and for the most part it doesn’t hurt anymore…we don’t even use lube anymore because I have so much on my own. Although if there are times when it does, I just have to let him know and he backs off a bit. (Not as deep). Not so sure what to do when it’s girth that’s the issue.

    I don’t know about 5-6 hours of sex. I personally couldn’t handle it and I only have ever (if I'm lucky!) have 2-3 orgasms within 12 hour period of time (meaning different “sessions” within that time frame). Hmmm I always thought that was pretty good when my friends tell me they rarely if ever have orgasms. :confused: That's one thing I don't like about this place, forever feeling inadequate.

    Hopefully someone else will have some good advice for you!
     
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    My question is: What the hell do you do for a living to have that kind of time?

    I'm lucky to get a half hour of foreplay during weeknights, usually i'm raring to go by then if not before then. If i want to orgasm i often masturbate because of our busy schedules. Sometimes i incorporate him into the mix. For the most part, you shouldnt be caring so much about doing it for so long just because you like to do it, you should care more about stopping at a point when she is ready.

    Ever hear of the phrase in show business about bowing out while you are still good? Stop before shes begging you to quit so she is wanting to have sex after the oral sex.

    Doing anything other than sleeping for 5 or 6 hours is more than i can think about.

    Too much of a good thing is possible.

    I saw a recent thing on the news about its more satisfying and healthy for the penis to have quickies that last an average of 13 minutes of penetration (if i recall that correctly). I guess compared to some of those hour long penetration sessions i see in porn- we are quick to draw and be done with it.
     
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    Hell, after consecutive 20 hours of sex with my squeeze I just let my horse take over and finish him off.
     
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    Gee, I thought women had hundreds of orgasms every time.:tongue:
     
  9. JustHangin'

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    To Mademoiselle Rouge: This marathon sex spree i had was in the winter break, hopefully it will happen again on this summer break (no school, no work, so i have time)... also i never said that she was begging me to quit... actually she got pissed off that we couldn't do more, even once cried because she wanted more but couldn't cus of the pain....

    As for the comments about "what am i doing" well, we both like holding the orgasm as long as we can, it gives us the most amazing climax (once i came for about 10 - 12 seconds.... it was beyond words) and she has told me that her orgasms are very long as well because of this....... but i am open to the possibility that im doing something wrong... im young and im seekin for advice to correct if something needs to be corrected
     
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