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  1. D_aco04hcx

    D_aco04hcx New Member

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    hi all,
    i don't know if i'm within the avarage range or not but i can go on for at least 20-30 minutes than starts to be harder to control ejaculation; some times under particular circumstances i have gone over one hour but what i would like is to have another hard-on within a short time.
    i think i have some blood pressure problems, i mean, i have low blood pressure for sure so my penis, when not erect, is really small, when i get an erection i'm about 6,5x5,5 (sometimes seems longer, i don't know what does it depends on), so, within avarage but as soon as i ejaculate i loose erection and takes time to gain a new one.
    i know, you're thinking "this guy is over 30s, what is him looking for...", but it worked this way since i was i kid...
    any suggestion?
     
  2. Dr Rock

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    nope. sounds pretty normal to me. I can't recall the last time I was ready to go again in under 30 minutes.
     
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    It's called a refractory period, all men have it and its usually an hour or two. Women either don't have one or it is very slight.

    Refractory period = Time between one orgasm and the next

    All I can say is you have to be very turned on to keep going. IE cum but still be hard...again it would be mad to expect that could happen every time. Or just learn to last longer before the first orgasm...but 20-30 mins is plenty.
     
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    Erm...Refractory period = Time between ejaculation and the next erection.

    With age it can become the Refractory Era. :(
     
  5. AlbertaBeef

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    This is all good info. What I know is that the body will release a hormone, I believe it is Prolactin that is the cause of the 2 hour standard refactory time. It is a hormone that essentially relaxes the the valves that trap blood in the penis to maintain an erection. If you see your doctor there is a drug and I'm sorry I forget what it is called but he/she can perscribe it to you. The little research I have done shows that 5-HTP and suppliment that you can get at any health food store may also do the same thing however I have not tried this.
     
  6. Dr Rock

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    it's not a good idea to mess around with stuff like that without a valid medical reason. there are sound biological principles for the refractory period. if you starve your tissues of oxygen you risk a whole world of nastiness.
     
  7. Imported

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    carolinacurious: I think Albertabeef's input is very interesting, I'd like to look into that a bit more.

    My input:

    Things that I have not done but are reported to help:

    1. Viagra, Cialis ect

    2. A cock ring


    Things that have worked for me:

    1. Immediately (quickly, reasonably soon) after sex (orgasm) do something mentally intense but totally unrelated to sex. For me this was most relevant back in College studying for exams with my girlfriend. We'd hit the books and that refractory period would almost be nothing. In practice this can be difficult because it tends to piss your partner off when you jump up right after sex to go read some ancient history. It can also be a problem because this is exactly the opposite of what most women I've encountered need to be able to keep going. The 5-10 minutes of reading history I need is about exactly the same amount of time they need to totally lose the mood.

    2. Ok, the longer you are hard before orgasm the longer it will take for the blood to leave your penis. What I've done is to have sex for an extended period, orgasm, then stay as still as possible (during the super sensitive stage) without pulling out, but, you know, cuddle, talk, the idea is not to be dead but just to avoid stimulation during the super sensitive moments right after orgasm. When that has passed, if you are like me, you should still have a pretty good semi and you're already in "balls deep"; start to slowly move, at the very first it may not be all that great but I find that my body quickly responds and soon everything is full steam ahead. YMMV

    (There is no way that I could get this to work while having to deal with condoms-so this one isn't for the girl or guy you just met, alright?)

    3. For me I've found just laying there and cuddling right after sex, usually with a quick break to splash some water on my face or to go get us a glass of water, but coming right back and getting right to the cuddling, kissing and stroking works for me and I'm usually ready to go in 10-15 minutes and my partner is usually still in the mood as well.

    Maybe these will help, maybe I'm just lucky. I'd be curious to know if these techniques help anyone.
     
  8. Imported

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    carolinacurious: Ok, I had not read Dr. Rock's post when I posted the above so I'll take it into consideration but:

    Albertabeef,

    The "and" in this sentence is confusing. Are you saying that 5-HTP IS the supplement or are you saying that 5-HTP AND SOME OTHER supplement are reported to help?
     
  9. jonb

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    That reminds me of the old joke: To increase positive thinking, the school replaced periods with the more enthusiastic exclamation point.

    Adam: So, you want to cut fourth exclamation point?
    Bob: I can't; I need to pass English, and it doesn't help much that I keep forgetting my exclamation points. I can cut fifth exclamation point, though.
    Charlene: Um, Mr. Davis? Can I be excused? I'm having my exclamation point.
    Mr. Davis: Just as long as you know that the test tomorrow is on reptiles of the Miocene exclamation point.
     
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    My experiences and techniques are pretty close to those of CarolinaCurious.

    Oddly enough I was in my 30"s when I discovered I could start thrusting shortly after my first orgasm and give a good long second fuck til I came again. At that age I guess I probably developed not only more physical control but also a more mature mental attitude about what I wanted out of intercourse. Does that make any sense?

    When I receive head from a talented partner I have always been able to orgasm at least twice with no refractory period between. In fact, it came to be expected by my regular partners. I've been able to do it ever since reaching my 20's and I never thought there was anything exceptional about it.

    My ability to hit the do-it-to-me double declined in my 40's but in answer to Carolina's comment about Viagra, I take it now (I'm 55) and it (the Viagra) has restored my ability for no, or very short, refractory periods. After 3 or 4 orgasms, more or less, I'm spent for several hours which may or may not please my partner.

    My guess is that short refractory periods (or exclamation points :p ) are a matter of training, control, how hot your partner is, or not realizing you can't do it. Endowment does'nt matter.
     
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    I've never been able to go twice without a refractory period, but apparently I usually have a very short refractory period. Try relaxation techniques, I can usually get hard again within a half hour if I soak in a hot tub after sex.

    I can't go every 10 minutes for 6 or 8 orgasms any more at 36, but can still go 3 times in 3 hour period if I'm not totally stressed out. I also have problems with a hair trigger if I'm stressed out.
     
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    At 65 I can now orgasm up to 4 times straight off (about 6 spurts of spunk each time) with only a few seconds movement in between. This has only started happening lately and it completely drains me - both of spunk and energy! If I don't move (or rub) immediately after an orgasm I loose the urge and it will stop at that.

    Franky
     
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    I don't think the two hour refractory period can be anything more than a very rough average.

    Since my early twenties (it wasn't so in my teens for some reason) I have usually had at least one "double" (i.e refractory period = nil) in any given period of 24 hours. For some reason my system seems to need this, and it isn't necessarily linked with how aroused I am.
     
  14. Kimahri

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    Hell, I'll throw this out there.

    No lie, twice now this year, I&#39;ve gotten off 3 times in under 10 minutes. The first two, I stayed hard in between and the third the hardon returned (was good porn <g>). Now I can usually go two sometimes three in less than 30 mins.

    I keep hearing about a refractory period and such, I&#39;m sure there are others out there that can go almost back to back, right? Aren&#39;t they called multiorgasmic or something?

    Truth be told, I&#39;d rather have a Faceking sized load with a massive orgasm and only be able to go once than to have the great feeling but not as intense orgasms I do.
     
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    I think it may depend (at least for me) on how turned on you stay, as well as how long you&#39;ve engaged in sex/masturbation before going off. And I&#39;m sure foreplay, and pre-foreplay arousal state may have something to do with it. Try different things out, break the norm and see what works if you are determined.

    When/if I take supplements (what I call a "cum cocktail"... maca, goat weed, et al) I can reload rather quickly.

    Hope that helps.
     
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    I find that my body is often ready faster then my mind is, but I&#39;m young. I went 3 times back to back with my g/f, with about 10min. of prepwork between.
     
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