i had it done, and horror story short, i was having rather rough sex and I tore it a little. I ended up taking it out, and after about 3 days of pain... it was pretty much gone, and then got a PA.... much better, but apparently as I am learning, permanent.
May I suggest: 1. Git yerself a rusty, dirty nail (the bigger the better). 2. Git yerself a framing hammer with a big ol' handle. 3. Hold yer dick firmly on wooden table (or an old log, if one's handy) 4. Center (if possible) the nail on the head of yer dick. 5. Whack down hard with the hammer. 6. Pull nail out of wood, but keep it pierced through your dick. 7. Wait until your jaw starts to stiffen. When you're you can't open your mouth you're done. Enjoy
I tried a frenum and didn't like it. It just seemed to get in the way for j/o and sex. Everyone is different. Do a google search, look at photos and talk to the person that is going to do it first. Then decided on a PA- I have had my PA for over three years and LOVE it. Wish that I had it done 30 years ago!
I wouldn't recommend it. I've never done it but i've never jumped off a cliff either. I would't recommend that either.
go for it - but discuss it with a qualified piercer to make sure you get it done right - suggest a frenum and see how you like it - a frenum can be removed easily and heals quickly - heals quickly with or without the jewelry. The PA is pretty permanent - at least the hole. I've got both and have no complaints.
