I want to set up a glory hole. advice?

[Nudistpig]

I had the real gloryhole experience in college. I was one of those people who would help reopen the hole and file down the sharp edges. I serviced guys about twice a week for a month. One of the campus security guards used it. It stopped when that building started getting renovations.

A public restroom is too risky now. My private gloryhole will still be exciting, and recapture some of the magic.

Genuine question, because I am not getting it at all, is how are public restrooms risky? Do you mean in terms of being recorded or caught? I can tell you with assurance that no one builds a hole in any bathroom where surveillance is a risk. They are far safer from crime than in the 1990's when I was working my lips daily.

I see the home installation as the far more risky. One, insurance. If someone has cardiac arrest and dies, that will be on you as the property owner. People die cruising every day. You are inviting a parade of strangers to your home and never knowing a thing about them. They know where you live and they do have pictures just go and see what is out there. The magic for me was being young and full of cum. I hope this is a good outcome here, and that is enjoyable for you. I don't necessarily agree that the last two postulates are outcomes I would expect but I'm not going to be sucking cock through it so I don't know either. Very least, what can you do to the experience to make it feel more authentic

 

[lookingtochange]

By risk, I was referring to the risk of being caught in public performing a lewd act. I'm not really concerned about being recorded; I have suffered through that before. A short video me deepthroating a guy at a party has shown up on Tumblr before, and I'm only moderately embarrassed.

Genuine question, because I am not getting it at all, is how are public restrooms risky? Do you mean in terms of being recorded or caught? I can tell you with assurance that no one builds a hole in any bathroom where surveillance is a risk. They are far safer from crime than in the 1990's when I was working my lips daily.

I see the home installation as the far more risky. One, insurance. If someone has cardiac arrest and dies, that will be on you as the property owner. People die cruising every day. You are inviting a parade of strangers to your home and never knowing a thing about them. They know where you live and they do have pictures just go and see what is out there. The magic for me was being young and full of cum. I hope this is a good outcome here, and that is enjoyable for you. I don't necessarily agree that the last two postulates are outcomes I would expect but I'm not going to be sucking cock through it so I don't know either. Very least, what can you do to the experience to make it feel more authentic

 

[lookingtochange]

Genuine question, because I am not getting it at all, is how are public restrooms risky? Do you mean in terms of being recorded or caught? I can tell you with assurance that no one builds a hole in any bathroom where surveillance is a risk. They are far safer from crime than in the 1990's when I was working my lips daily.

I see the home installation as the far more risky. One, insurance. If someone has cardiac arrest and dies, that will be on you as the property owner. People die cruising every day. You are inviting a parade of strangers to your home and never knowing a thing about them. They know where you live and they do have pictures just go and see what is out there. The magic for me was being young and full of cum. I hope this is a good outcome here, and that is enjoyable for you. I don't necessarily agree that the last two postulates are outcomes I would expect but I'm not going to be sucking cock through it so I don't know either. Very least, what can you do to the experience to make it feel more authentic

I am not too concerned with inviting strangers onto the property. That just doesn't scare me as much for better or worse. I meet strangers on grindr all the time anyway. Alas, the main goal over the last few months has shifted to have a glory hole available for private parties.

 

[Nudistpig]

I am not too concerned with inviting strangers onto the property. That just doesn't scare me as much for better or worse. I meet strangers on grindr all the time anyway. Alas, the main goal over the last few months has shifted to have a glory hole available for private parties.

I understand that. It's just not commensurate with the evidence is what I was saying. But dude, I am not telling you to risk or harm yourself. The shift is an interesting yet common one. I see it happening everywhere. Business volume isn't high enough in cruising spots to make them remotely cost effective and private spots take huge time commitment to fill. You in essence built a small business.

This trend is exactly what I was getting at by sharing my story. Sex business, even cruising is sold using narratives. Stories by word of mouth. Buzz. (I worked in nightlife for many years) and you must craft those narratives yourself. What the market wants, what a trick is willing to do, who was where and mystique and cool factor.

M advice would have been to have had 12 months of sex parties on your property with a very well planned series of holes to be discovered by the guests. I'd do some webcam hookup with an option for exhibition that is for one person only. That is a destination glory hole and it advertises for your setup which mocks up commercial not residential property. The users should think they are not exactly welcome but want to stay. And then again Blondie it is big

 

[Nudistpig]

By risk, I was referring to the risk of being caught in public performing a lewd act. I'm not really concerned about being recorded; I have suffered through that before. A short video me deepthroating a guy at a party has shown up on Tumblr before, and I'm only moderately embarrassed.

I finally stopped caring about being caught for any of it a few years back but to be clear you deepthroated the dude so in my books you win. Them other bitches is jealous. You can only be caught and prosecuted for a lewd act if you are really sloppy. But I understand the fear is related to something bigger. If you want to PM about the whole thing send me a message. I am happy to consult and I think I can help you with the two issues I see here, which is sex life and the second project management.

I have also been dealing with depression and no libido for months along with the collapse of all the recent work I did building sex positive spaces up because people would rather ignore than do. Free work I did.

 

[bigguy7]

I have major issues with calling these installations glory holes. They aren't. It's fine but the experience is entirely different. A glory hole starts as a drill hole in a toilet partition. It gets keyed open and worked on by dozens of anonymous gay men. You see it grow sometimes with rough edges and then one day it has been ground and sealed and made ready for cock. You have no clue who or what or when or how. Every man who watched it grow is now returning to use it. There is a communal passion for it unspoken and unwritten. Some you walk in on and a magnificent penis is waiting. They were reciprocal. Almost always. Repair attempts would be vandalized immediately. This one ended with a steel plate riveted over it on each side. Two days later it had reappeared. The person who restored it cut the hole and plate out of the partition, took it too a workshop and used an oxyacetylene torch to cut the plates. This was in a building at McGill university. There was a man who I blew and received there once and we both went back same time the week following to find the other not a word spoken. It went on for over a year and the pleasure was outrageous. Then, one day I see this guy at the urinal and he shows me "the cock" and I know who it is. He said he had to meet me and I was blushing because I wanted him sideways. I took his number and didn't give him mine. My fear of HIV and testing meant I threw it out. We were both first time at non anonymous sex and I failed.

Gotta say, I loved this..., I really appreciate your almost purist and historic take on it, however am lost as to how that helps this guy with his question...?!!?

no offense, just sayin...

 

[ohiorod]

My best advice, and I mean this sincerely , set it up near where I live!

 

[Nudistpig]

Gotta say, I loved this..., I really appreciate your almost purist and historic take on it, however am lost as to how that helps this guy with his question...?!!?

no offense, just sayin...

We PM'd for the advice and chat because I felt it was personal and warranted privacy. The post was intended to make some points regarding the way cruising sex is happening now that isn't necessarily better than then, and it offers some pointers as to what one might be looking for more in cruising sex.