I Want To Suck Dick But I Am Scared Of Hiv

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I have done endless googling and it seems that sucking dick it is tough to get but I would love some insight from you guys here that have experience. I have done it like 3 times over the past 10 yrs and now the urge is hitting me hard.

Tips on where to find someone, how to be safe, etc. Sorry of this has been asked a million times.
 
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Your odds of picking up HIV with oral sex are rather low. There are precautions you could take to further reduce the risk (though it is rare for this to be done, and hardly anyone gets HIV just from oral sex anyway). But there's no way really to reduce the risk to absolute zero. Accidents happen.

On the other hand, there are significant odds of catching certain other STIs through oral sex. Some, such as gonorrhea and chlamydia would likely be blocked by the use of a condom. Others, particularly the skin-born types, like herpes and warts, could easily be shedding from outside the area a condom would cover. For those types of viruses, your only tool to avoid transmission really is examining the person you're hooking up with. Apparent lesions/warts should probably be avoided. Shedding can occur regardless, so having some knowledge of the person would help.

Also, keep in mind that exchange of bodily fluids through the blood, particularly open wounds, is going to drastically increase chances of transmission of HIV and hepatitis.
 

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Don't just hook up with some rando you've never met before. Trust is important. Meet someone and get to know them a bit. And most gay guys/guys who have sex with men do get regularly tested these days, and can even give you proof.
 

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I have done endless googling and it seems that sucking dick it is tough to get but I would love some insight from you guys here that have experience. I have done it like 3 times over the past 10 yrs and now the urge is hitting me hard.

Tips on where to find someone, how to be safe, etc. Sorry of this has been asked a million times.

View point from a guy living with HIV for 27 years... I have to ask, Do you know your own status? If not then this discussion is pointless. Just keeping it real.... Transmission of HIV through oral sex is extremely rare. You have a greater chance of contracting and STD if anything. Today, guys that know they are HIV+ are on medications. Your pretty safe with them. They should have no issues with you discussing their status with you. If your using a hook up site or App, most of those have a place where you can disclose your status and when they were last tested. When you find a guy that your attracted too, chat with them. It's OK to ask them bout their status, just be nice about it..... If you find a guy that has not disclosed his status, that does not mean he does not know. Some guy do not disclose their status because there are still a lot of guy who will not even give them a second look if they read the word HIV+. You can begin a chat with them as well. At some point if they do not bring up status. You can by saying " I just want you to know I am HIV-, How about you? ....Just be wise with your decisions. Get yourself on PrEP as an added protection...Sex is supposed to be fun, not stressful.
 

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I have done endless googling and it seems that sucking dick it is tough to get but I would love some insight from you guys here that have experience. I have done it like 3 times over the past 10 yrs and now the urge is hitting me hard.

Tips on where to find someone, how to be safe, etc. Sorry of this has been asked a million times.

The CDC now says oral sex carries little to no risk of transmission of HIV. People's personal anecdotes are no replacement for now decades of medical data, and anecdotal evidence in the field of health/medicine is a dangerous road to travel.
You WILL likely contract another STI if the man has a genital infection such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, or syphilis. These are generally easily treated when caught early enough (you don't always have symptoms.) Get tested regularly for STIs including a throat swab for gonorrhea. Nothing is zero risk in life.

Get on an app, put up a profile, and find a partner to suck. You will not have a problem finding somebody.
 
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One word for you ‘condom’
I have hooked up with more than one woman that, in the early stages of a relationships or one night stands, insisted that condoms be worn when they suck dick.
 

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I have done endless googling and it seems that sucking dick it is tough to get but I would love some insight from you guys here that have experience. I have done it like 3 times over the past 10 yrs and now the urge is hitting me hard.

Tips on where to find someone, how to be safe, etc. Sorry of this has been asked a million times.

Hi.. Did you suck any dick after this post? Were you successful seeking a good dick to suck? I'm just curious... : )
 

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Nope, not yet.

You can buy a HIV Rapid Test kit at pharmacy (or online).
So you can, in advance (chating), propose your partner if he accepts to be tested right before the play.
You can test yourself also. But remember, other diseases as Syphilis are spreading also between straight people.
It is recommended that everybody who make sex with strangers test for other diseases regularly.
 
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Wouldn’t this be a fear with any sexual encounter? If you’re just meeting strangers to give head, then yeah. Any STD is going to be a fear. Maybe try to meet someone and get to know them mentally 1st. I think it would make the head that much better for both of uou.
 
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