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Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by d_man83, Mar 31, 2011.
Well said...! JulieINTampa is a knockout!
dude, you are hot. she is the lucky one
No this certainly does not make you a bad person. This desire to see your GF so satisfied by another guy is more common than you. I think I saw where about 2000 people had already viewed this thread! I wonder if eventually you can be there when he's fucking her and perhaps you could even be part of it. You will be blown away when you actually hear her gasps & cries of delight. It is the most exciting thing to witness. I think it is important to have a guy who you have a strong friendship with. I don't believe that getting a guy just off the street would do the same thing for me. The first guy we had was my best man. His cock was twice as thick as mine and his body beautiful and athletic. I could never give her the pleasure he could but oh, it was the most exciting experience for me. I can't analyze of explain why I find it so ecstatic, but in your case you have a perception that you poor self estimation is the reason for your desire. You may well be right, but in my experience it isn't always the case. Anyway I think she is a lucky girl to have two really attractive guys who are well endowed and sexually athletic. Go for it & enjoy.
Cheers - Gecko
why dont you post a pic of her body?i volunteer...!
Take the advice of the wisemen... Your gf is very lucky, if you are comfortable share you thoughts with her,you never know.
There are many couples who participate in cukholding and swinging. It's a pretty widely subscribed fetish. If you have discussed it with your partner and she agreed, it also turns you on there is not a problem. 'Are you normal'? Probably not its not everyones idea of a realtionship, but then again the norm is not always absolute. Does it make you a bad person? No, there are alot worse things going on in the world than a bit of swinging between consenting adults.
interesting to read about this since i'm on the other side of the coin. many times i had jealous thoughts even though i knew i could trust my girlfriend. i wanted to be the only man she ever had sex with and that she would fantasize about me all the time.
having said that, i very well know that this would be everything else than normal and i hated myself for being this abnormally jealous. the only positive thing about it was, that at least i managed not to show it on the outside, because i'm 100% sure this kind of possessive behaviour would scare anyone off.
responding to your "problem", i think you look at the situation from another perspective.
from what you wrote, she is not really into this whole cuckold thing. if thats true, than she already made a big sacrifice by letting herself talked into that one time. now its time for you to make your sacrifice (that of course only if you love her)!
i'm not saying let go off your fantasy, but try every once in awhile not to focus on what you want but what she wants. maybe she just wants you to feel more confident about yourself. that if she tells you that you have a great body, then you believe her instead of thinking "she's just saying that to cheer me up". that after sex if you are lying next to each other in bed, then she sees a true smile on your face instead of an expression like "it would be sooo much better if someone would fuck her with a 10 inch dick".
so i would work on trying to please HER fantasies instead of getting her to please yours.
but thats me
Wow! You have an unbelievable set of tits
Have thought about this as well, similar feelings of "not measuring up" driven by years of rejections as a teenager. There is no chance my gf would be into it and even bringing it up would probably destroy our relationship.
Yeah, we should see her somehow.
I think your gf would never like to fuck another man because is hard to find a man as hung as you are..especially girthwise..also girls like more cock size than a fit body 'cause a fit body is easy to gain with diet and gym but a large cock you have got it or not... you have both, a very fit and nice body and one of the largest cock around..you are only an exhibitionist who liked to tell this weird story to us to see what's our feedback... I say have a bit of respect and be grateful to Universe for what it gave to you and don't tell bullshit please
you were seriously happy to let your gf become pregnant from a dude that you more-or-less coerced her into having sex with...?
Yeah Julie is hot. You should have a threesome w/ her and your old lady. That is if they both consent.
Ah.. I want to add another thing I forgot to point out before... your case seems like a "reverse cuckolding" where you enjoy looking at your gf while fucking with a man less endowed than you
You're part of a sexual culture (cuckolding) that endorses wholly the "bigger is better" attitude. The vast majority of women have little preference on penis size and only seem to even notice it if their man is at the very high end or very low end of the spectrum. I've been told by three women (the only ones I've been with) that I'm well endowed (though that's not exactly how they put it) but I know my measurements, and I'm just at the high end of normal. So yeah, I'm big compared to a lot of guys, but small compared to a lot also. Though my fiance did once say it's like being with a porn star lol. I was like "Um...Really?"
My guess is that you're confident and much more sexually experienced than the men whose wives you're handling. That makes you a better lover far more than your penis size. If those cuckolds had been confident in their sexuality, then they'd likely be much better lovers to their wives than you ever could, because they have a connection with them that you'll never have. But when men let feelings of inadequacy get in the way, the bedroom gets dull and it creates a self-perpetuating cycle whereby things go wrong, so the man blames himself, which means more things go wrong.
As for cuckolding fetishes in general, I figure they're fairly normal. The feelings of inadequacy lead to a desire for complete submission because the man has actually become afraid of sex. The easiest way to deal with the fear of sex is to avoid it by outsourcing the primary sexual duties to another man (the bull). The cuckold has thereby given up his sexual responsibilities as a husband and can be freely aroused. Hence why they get off on it so much, and why the submission will eventually become bi-sexuality (though I think it's a lot more about power than about an actual desire to be sexual with a man). Eh, interesting stuff, but not something I'd fret about if I were the OP. He just needs to make sure his woman is happy, whether that involves swinging, cuckolding, or monogomy. I wouldn't feel right suggesting anything specific without knowing a lot more about the couple.
I have a similar theory on the causes of homosexuality in some people, but that issue is far more controversial.
I'm sorry, but THIS is the real myth.
I've been lucky enough to have a lot of decent female friends, so let me give you a run down.
One of my friends was the legitimate undisputed hottest girl from our high school, and she recently admitted she stayed with a guy who was cheap and whom she borderline disliked, solely because he was huge and his dick was "amazing to look at." She now has Magnum condoms around, in the hope that she picks up another well hung guy.
My wife had a big boyfriend in college, and admits it was a lot of fun. She'll sometimes try to say that it really doesn't matter...and then not realizing it sometimes she'll make jokes or comments about bigger being better, and loves using her big vibrator and talking about that ex in particular..
A younger, relatively innocent female friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend and admitted she was partly sad to see him go because of his "magnificent cock", which he even measured for her. She briefly tried to claim size didn't matter, but then recanted and admitted it was a big turn on, but that she was kind of scared and at least wanted a small guy to be her first, and then find a bigger guy afterward, lol.
I've overheard any number of female conversations discussing and comparing guys sizes.
I mean, the list goes on and on. Practically every female I know who does try to say size doesn't matter, will privately admit it does.
it is true....it's a myth and fact on some level...depends on what we're looking for....if we're looking for love...then penis size don't matter as long as it can satisfy....so something less than average usually don't cut it...
when looking for sex and just fun with mr. right now...penis size matters as much as physical appearance....
some girls tell you that it doesn't matter because....she's not into sex as much or she doesn't want to hurt you....just like how guys always say that we're pretty no matter what we wear...
No... I wasn't "happy" to let her get pregnant by him... its the fantasy aspect of a sexually aggressive girl wanting sex with a man so badly that she would let him do it unprotected which always carries the risk of pregnancy. The focus is her desire for sex ... not me wanting her to get pregnant to him.
Also, id like to add that this isn't a typical "cuckolding" situation whereas I don't have any desire to be humiliated... just simply a desire to see her being pleased and a type of escape from my own views of myself where I can imagine that im him... the perfect kind of male I think shed enjoy and who I wish I was.
my girlfriend from college sucked my best friends dick after blowing me. it was hot as hell.