I Was Being Used...

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They say the greatest and most intense loves in your life comes after you pass 30. So mine came at the beginning of this year and then she left me at the end of august. This relationship made me feel like the main character in a cheesy soap opera. There were break-ups and get back togethers, just like in high school.

Anyway, a few months ago she wanted to come back again after 2 weeks and like the fool i was, i let her back in my life because i was missed her deeply. She said she missed me and my big cock and our all night long fuck sessions. She just loved my dick and to be honest my dick loved her as well, because she was the first woman who was able to take every cm of me without any problems in literally every position.

Weeks passed by and i started to think that after all those drama we are truly meant to be together, there were still some issues but instead of giving up, i always tried to communicate/discuss the problems. At the same time i was badly in love but i felt that she was not. One thing led to another, after a drunk fight i told that i love her. She broke up with me almost immidiately, on the spot. She told me, she dont love me at all, just as a friend and she never felt anything serious about me. Then why you were still with me all along these last months? I asked. Because of the great sex and because i gave her the best fucks of her life with my bc but she considered me as a friend with benefit since the last break up. I was devastated. I should have confessed to her a lot more earlier and then maybe it would saved me to be played like this but deep down i knew the answer but too afraid to hear it.

It was a painful lesson to learn.
 
That fucking sucks. We have all been there before so you aren’t alone. I hope you’ve bounced back in a healthy manner.
 
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I'm so sorry to hear that =/, I hope that u find someone who really loves you and be happy .
 
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Hey, hope you managed to get over her and find someone who appreciate all parts of you. :)

That fucking sucks. We have all been there before so you aren’t alone. I hope you’ve bounced back in a healthy manner.

I'm so sorry to hear that =/, I hope that u find someone who really loves you and be happy .

Thanks for the kind words guys, it means a lot really. I guess im not alone with such paricular experience. I'm trying to find someone new, and started dating again, but sadly she is still in my mind very often, and she tried to reach out for me again in the last month. It doesnt help either to forget...:')
 
Oh, privileged problems, devastating.
 
Thanks for the kind words guys, it means a lot really. I guess im not alone with such paricular experience. I'm trying to find someone new, and started dating again, but sadly she is still in my mind very often, and she tried to reach out for me again in the last month. It doesnt help either to forget...:')
Block her on everything and move forward
 
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Block her on everything and move forward


I agree. Sometimes you just have to be firm and decisive, put your foot down, cut ties and all, for the sake of your own sanity and future.

Continued communication with her will only prolong your agony.
 
Better to just move on and learn from it. There are always people out there looking for people to use and abuse (and some Pluim negative haters). It might be easier to spot that in the future. So grow from this and find someone who will love you back. :)
 
Hard times . Bu tdon't worry better times will come

"what doesn't kill u makes u stronger"
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"une de perdue dix de retrouvées" (one girl lost 10 girls found)
 
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