I was just paid for oral sex

[B_Nick4444]

something similar happened to me as a teen

it was not unusual to have some perv walk up, or drive up to me, and ask if they could go down on me

one day one of them approached me while I was in the mood, and I decided to let him, but tried to generate an impression that I was only interested in the money, so I insisted on a dollar amount

after he was done, he opened his wallet, and gave me a dollar or two, much less than the dollar figure I had asked for :zx11pissed:

guess that's why a ho always asks for it upfront :tongue:

and, BTW, I recommend you don't do it again

as has been pointed out. it is illegal and dangerous, and just not worth risking your standing, health, or immediate personal safety

in both your instance, and mine, it was a stupid thing to do

 

[cklover]

Big fucking deal! You got off on the fact some guy would pay you, you got a little ego boost. There's no reason to wail and sob over it! (unless you feel the urge to continue the adventure, become a full-time prostitute, descend to levels of degradation and political incorrectness previously impossible to imagine)

 

[hud01]

you know.....if the mods were really bastards, they would give the op's personal info to law enforcement officals, and get the OP arrested for prostitution.

LOL you are a funny guy and a huge tool. There is no proof as to who posted, so the best they could do is get his IP address, go there tail everyone that lives there to see if it happened again and with the cutbacks to budgets that's not likely.

 

[Smooth88]

Welcome to the world of craigslist. I've had many guys proposition me to blow me and I turned them all down.

 

[D_CountVonBhigBohner]

in all honesty, the person who offered the money to perform felatio is breaking the law. Money and sex are a bad combination.

congrats, you just sold your body.
If you need the money, perhaps you could work a bit more, so that you dont have to feel bad about selling your body again.

 

[TomCat84]

WRONG! The OP came here to brag and get validation for what he did. I expressed my personal opinions, and apparently you and a few others didn't like it. Tough Shit!

What the OP did was illegal, dangerous, and frankly stupid. He compromised his own personal safety, his mental well being, and his health by doing such a dumb thing.

People it's called having integrity. Shame on those of you who are praising the OP for doing something so dangerous and stupid.

He got his dick sucked. It wasn't dangerous in the least, unless the sucker has open bleeding wounds. Oral sex (to say nothing of RECEPTIVE oral sex) is one of the least risky sexual practices. Could he get syphilis? Yes, but it's only dangerous if OP doesn't get tested on a regular basis. Stop fear mongering.

 

[ck85x65]

Wow. A varied and fascinating variety of replies, and clearly different interpretations regarding background, activity, legality, etc.

What does it all mean ? I personally don't know. Nor would I hazard a guess ... but you asked for input, so here is some input :

Around us, all over the world, are people who if they found themselves in your shoes would ask "what's the big deal ? --- its just sex, relax", and the moment would pass like water under a bridge.

Others would be very upset, and bring a lot of drama to the situation.

It strikes me that since we have no idea how emotionally mature you might be, this was a learning experience for you. I am not sure why, but this whole incident brings to my mind the situations I encountered (and I suspect most males) while growing up ... i fooled around with several buddies in my teens, to 'find out what it was like". Curiosity satisfied, I didn't (nor did they) obsess over it and we moved on. In my case to a loving relationship (over 26 years now) with a fantastic woman and a couple of children.

Up to you, I guess ...

 

[unabear09]

He got his dick sucked. It wasn't dangerous in the least, unless the sucker has open bleeding wounds. Oral sex (to say nothing of RECEPTIVE oral sex) is one of the least risky sexual practices. Could he get syphilis? Yes, but it's only dangerous if OP doesn't get tested on a regular basis. Stop fear mongering.

wow! I wasn't referring to the issues of oral sex alone, I was referring to the 100's of things that could have gone wrong that could have gotten the OP laying on a table in the morgue.

 

[unabear09]

LOL you are a funny guy and a huge tool. There is no proof as to who posted, so the best they could do is get his IP address, go there tail everyone that lives there to see if it happened again and with the cutbacks to budgets that's not likely.

Kiss my lily white ass, asshole. I can hurl insults too. Ever heard of being facitious?

 

[pain4anangel]

Good grief. It sounded to me as if the OP had a valid question to ask. He may not have anywhere else to turn. He's 18. You are entitled to an opinion, but for god sake...least you could do was give him the benefit of the doubt first.

 

[LPSGeezer]

Well I say that first of all it's a done deal and you can't cry over it now, the guilty feelings that you experience are simply that society has brain washed you with 'old' puritanical ideas and no decent person would accept money for a (knob) job well done. You are 18 and old enough to make your own decisions and choices, and you chose to take the cash for trade. If the guy calls and you don't want to do it again, just say 'no' .. if he makes threats double your price up front then change your number, but in the settings of your phone is a blocking mechanism so you won't have to change it. If you want to do it again, that's up to you to decide, not us.

 

[FemmeBoy]

I decided to be safe and not get in his car under any circumstances, so I told him to go in a little alleyway-type thing up ahead.

Oh hey, this looks dangerous getting in this car, hey, going down this alleyway will be much safer... doh!

 

[Chase1600]

You seem to be telling us that you are not happy with yourself for having done this. So here’s what I think.

I’m glad if you are not pleased having done it. You are only 18 and have the opportunity to have a great life. This kind of behavior is filled with unnecessary risk and will probably bring you nothing but unhappiness and possibly even some grief.

What happened that night in the alley is a done deal. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Although it was illegal, possibly dangerous, might be against your values, and may be the sort of behavior that carries some health risk, I’m sure the odds are good nothing bad will result. You didn’t get hurt in the alley that night, and you didn’t get caught breaking the law. Apparently, you haven’t given up your values, and the chance of catching a disease getting blown is really small.

Of course you don’t want to fall into a pattern of this behavior every time you think you need some supplemental cash. Eventually you could get arrested, hurt, catch a bug, and of course it will change how you feel about yourself. Besides, you don’t want people to find out about it.

So instead of thinking how you can pick up some quick money doing this, think about preparing yourself to make a good income so you can be free of this kind of thing. Instead of having sex with just anyone, think about the kind of person you want to be with – you must be kind of cute, 2 people agreed to blow you in a single evening – don’t settle to have sex with someone just because they want to do it, find someone whom you really want to be with.

Take this approach and you won't ever again have to worry about having done something that makes you feel badly about yourself. You deserve much better and I can tell from many of the responses that other people think the same.

 

[BlatinoX]

Well, look on the bright side dude...you got $60 and the shit scared out of you. Lesson learned. If the guy calls, politely tell him you are not interested anymore and leave it at that. Unless they are a scary freak, they should leave you alone and find someone else to pay for it. Keep your ding ding in ya pants, save it for someone that you won't feel grimy with the next day and you'll be fine.

 

[dreamer20]

Another Rent Boy thread is born::wink:


http://www.lpsg.org/46571-advice-about-working-and.html

I'm 18 years old ...Anyway, he only wanted to blow me, and that was great. He gave me 60 bucks for my services and I gave him my number telling him I would do it again. But now I feel really dirty and I dont know if I would do this again. Maybe one more time because I really need the money....I know I sound pathetic, please no hate comments.
Has anyone else been in a similaar situation and what did you do?
also...if i decide never to see this guy again how do i block his number so he cant ever call me again. I have AT&T if that helps.
Thanks so much, I need advice

A buddy of mine once called to say his friend was eager to have me do an in house massage on him - he told him I was excellent . The person in question then took over the telephone conversation, during which he said he was willing to pay me to travel to his abode. However I felt uneasy about the situation as I'm not a professional masseur, didn't know him, he lived quite a distance away and hence I rebuffed him. Our mutual friend did get us together one night and this friend turned out to be a very nice person - and so were his blow jobs. I wish he didn't live so far away, as I'm contemplating going to see him.

Find out more about this man and see if he is willing to help you out financially or not. You may have latched on to Daddy Warbucks or at least another $60.

 

[helgaleena]

Another Rent Boy thread is born::wink:


http://www.lpsg.org/46571-advice-about-working-and.html





A buddy of mine once called to say his friend was eager to have me do an in house massage on him - he told him I was excellent . The person in question then took over the telephone conversation, during which he said he was willing to pay me to travel to his abode. However I felt uneasy about the situation as I'm not a professional masseur, didn't know him, he lived quite a distance away and hence I rebuffed him. Our mutual friend did get us together one night and this friend turned out to be a very nice person - and so were his blow jobs. I wish he didn't live so far away, as I'm contemplating going to see him.

Find out more about this man and see if he is willing to help you out financially or not. You may have latched on to Daddy Warbucks or at least another $60.

I have to add to this-- It could work out like this but none of us were there with you! Only you know what sort of guy he was and whether he is a sleaze. Follow you conscience.

 

[iluvbigheads]

...seeing as you are rather young, imagine yourself in a job interview where the employer checks this kind of behaviour through interviewing and essentially interrogation. I was asked directly if I ever accepted money for a sexual purpose. It was later verified by polygraph examination. You might just screw any hopes for a respectable career by taking what seems like a small chance on making a quick buck. And frankly, I was rather disgusted by 60 dollars to suck your cock and then you post on here about it. A good reminder of why I would never even give a guy like this a 2nd look, even if you did have 10 inches.

 

[unabear09]

...seeing as you are rather young, imagine yourself in a job interview where the employer checks this kind of behaviour through interviewing and essentially interrogation. I was asked directly if I ever accepted money for a sexual purpose. It was later verified by polygraph examination. You might just screw any hopes for a respectable career by taking what seems like a small chance on making a quick buck. And frankly, I was rather disgusted by 60 dollars to suck your cock and then you post on here about it. A good reminder of why I would never even give a guy like this a 2nd look, even if you did have 10 inches.

THANK YOU!! Glad to find someone else who agrees with me. I've been chastised so many times on this thread....and its because most of the guys are giving the typical guy response.... 'You got paid to get your dick sucked? Freaking sweet bro! Keep doing it with no reguard to your mental or sexual health. You are a god in my book'

 

[TomCat84]

wow! I wasn't referring to the issues of oral sex alone, I was referring to the 100's of things that could have gone wrong that could have gotten the OP laying on a table in the morgue.

Well then, I suppose we should never be alone with less than 3 people in a room