I will miss her

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  1. nakedwally

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    My bf's grandmother passed away yesterday morning, she died peacefully. She lived a good long life and was very healthy until recent years, she was a wonderful woman to talk with I met her once, but got attached right away. I am having difficulty mourning because I am trying to remain strong for my bf and don't need both of us falling apart at the same time. I know I need to mourn and probably will eventually, she was a wonderful friend and a great mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. She always gave to her family and friends and was a kind and loving soul. She always made me laugh, she was a wonderful person and I wish I knew her longer. She was a strong Italian woman. She would have been 91 on February 14th,2008. I miss her already. I don't think I have ever met a more loving person than her. I ask myself why her why her?? And I came up with the solution that we all will go when our time comes. I am thinking of creating a memorial website with photos and facts about her life. I have even thought about writing to the Pope to get her made into a saint ( I doubt that will ever happen) So the whole point of this s to express my feelings and how much this person meant to me. Like I said I wish I could have gotten to know her better. I believe there are angels on this earth masqueraded as people and Ma was the bravest one of them. I will miss Ma:frown1::frown1::frown2::frown2:
     
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    .......rest In Peace.....ma.
     
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    sorry to hear of your loss. I hope both of you are doing okay.

     
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    In due time (after several months) I suggest that you contact Hospice as they offer bereavement counseling. They suggest a "waiting period." They were a great help to me when my wife died- both with individual and group counseling- free! It really helped me a lot! I hope you are near a chapter of Hospice.
    You have my sympathies.
     
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    So sorry to hear of her passing, Wally. She will continue to live on through you and your boyfriend in memory.
     
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    Sorry to hear about you and your BF's loss.
     
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    Aww Babe, i'm sorry to hear about your loss.Why don't you give me a call when you feel up to it.
    So sorry for the both of you,give my condolences to your partner,Wally.
    I love you.
    C.B.:saevil:
     
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    Wally :hug: this sucks. Sounds like she was a very special person indeed. Condolences to you and your bf.
     
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    Very sorry Wally. Sounds like she a long and fulfilling life and died well-loved. What more can we ask for? Mourn but also rejoice in a life well-lived.

    I'm certain that having you in her life made it all the more enjoyable.
     
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    Chin up wally. Run around the room without your clothes and then get to work on that website! :redface:
     
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    Sorry for your BF and your loss Wally.
     
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    You both are in my thoughts, wally.

    NCbear (who often wishes he could talk with his grandparents again)
     
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    Thanks to everyone for your support, I am getting through this slowly but surely and all is well for right now.
     
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    Awwwww. Wally I am so glad you had a chance to experience someone who was so loving in your life. May she rest in peace. Hang in there.
     
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    thanks naughty you are the best, I am doing a little better today
     
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    Those we love and are loved by in return, never truly leave us. Im sorry for your loss. Pup.
     
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