I wish my dick was bigger so badly - anyone have advice?

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Again, you're basis on reality and big cocks is based on the internet.
Do you expect to walk around with your dick out? Do you live in a nudist society somewhere we don't know about?
You've never had sex, right? So you don't know that your girth is actually like fisting someone, right??!?? 6" girth, you'd never be able to fuck my wife, you couldn't even get close to getting it into her.
You have major body dysmorphia problems and really need to see a therapist about it. Your arguing every single point on this way too long of a thread by this point is proof you aren't ever going to feel good about yourself because you have a large dick and are using the internet NOT THE REAL WORLD to substantiate your self worth.
literally only 6" at the base - it goes down to 5". A hand/fist is way bigger than that. Plus, of course my basis of big dicks is going to be based on the internet - only here will you find people with dicks that are universally considered big. People out there would consider me average (and hell, even small), especially compared to the people on the internet. The thing about the internet is that people give their most unfiltered opinions thanks to the the shroud of anonymity.

And no, I don't expect to walk around with my dick out. I'd like to not have to worry about urinals or locker rooms, which isn't a guarantee with an average flaccid size.
 

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It's literally true though...if you look good enough, you can be a shitty person and people would look past that. It's just how things work.
It may be true in your perception but your perception does not represent the perception of others. Your declaration of truth is rejected by many, if not by most, which might be painful to your outsized ego. And, for the record, you do not know how to use the word "literally" correctly.
 

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It may be true in your perception but your perception does not represent the perception of others. Your declaration of truth is rejected by many, if not by most, which might be painful to your outsized ego. And, for the record, you do not know how to use the word "literally" correctly.
If my usage of the word "literally" isn't disrupting your ability to understand what I'm saying (especially when this is a sex forum and not English class), then I honestly don't see the point in mentioning it. Also, what exactly about the words I say indicate an ego? What is there to have an ego about? I'm small compared to a fuckton of other guys. Matter of fact, for the way you're talking down to me, I wouldn't be surprised if I were small compared to you too.
 

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I'm still a virgin and have never been in a relationship. If I were to put myself out there though, there is a fair chance that I wouldn't be good enough. Also, I tried accepting my size, and I genuinely can't.
Dude are you trolling us? lol

Don't we all want our dick to be bigger and biggest? But if you never been with people, you can't think you're not going to be big enough

Let's flip it. You're 7.5 and 6 something. Take a pic of it from different angles and imagine you taking it. Do you think it would be easy as hell? :eyes:

Avg American penis size is 6
 

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Dude are you trolling us? lol

Don't we all want our dick to be bigger and biggest? But if you never been with people, you can't think you're not going to be big enough

Let's flip it. You're 7.5 and 6 something. Take a pic of it from different angles and imagine you taking it. Do you think it would be easy as hell? :eyes:

Avg American penis size is 6
Yes, he is "literally" trolling us. The more interesting question is "why?" but I'd rather not delve into the psychology of his self-flagellation.
 

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Dude are you trolling us? lol

Don't we all want our dick to be bigger and biggest? But if you never been with people, you can't think you're not going to be big enough

Let's flip it. You're 7.5 and 6 something. Take a pic of it from different angles and imagine you taking it. Do you think it would be easy as hell? :eyes:

Avg American penis size is 6
i wonder things like this a lot. bc sometimes it really does seem like a person with a large dick constantly complains about having a small dick. but then sometimes i wonder if maybe they have some type of mental thing going on with there behavior? maybe they really do have unrealistic paranoia/anxiety over some ridiculous thing their brain is telling them? or maybe they "get off" by ppl telling them how huge/big their dick is and saying "my penis is so small" is just a lure for someone to click on their media tab and tell them?

but i don't respond either way because doing so won't matter. if they do have some type of psychology condition, then me telling them "you're, penis is gargantuan!" isn't going to change their mind. no matter how many ppl tell them. it's not like once they've received the compliment for the 500th time, they suddenly realize the truth. they need much more help than any compliments can do, right?

and if they're trolling then... well, fuck em.
 

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Yes, he is "literally" trolling us. The more interesting question is "why?" but I'd rather not delve into the psychology of his self-flagellation.
I can't force you to listen to me, but check any porn website, and there are countless dudes with way bigger than me. Check here, and there are countless dudes with way bigger than me. I'm nothing compared to them. And I'll say it again - for the way you're talking down to me, I wouldn't be surprised if I were small compared to you too.
 
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for the way you're talking down to me, I wouldn't be surprised if I were small compared to you too.
Is it like a dom/submissive thing? Do you get off to the idea that people are bigger to you? Or that someone one is "talking down" to you? Why does that make you think he's bigger than you?
 
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Is it like a dom/submissive thing? Do you get off to the idea that people are bigger to you? Or that someone one is "talking down" to you? Why does that make you think he's bigger than you?
No...my point was people with bigger dicks seem to have a tendency to downplay how it's pretty much impossible to feel confident compared to them and act like you're being ridiculous when you don't buy what they say.
 
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No...my point was people with bigger dicks seem to have a tendency to downplay how it's pretty much impossible to feel confident compared to them and act like you're being ridiculous when you don't buy what they say.
People with bigger dicks -YOU

downplaying how it's impossible to feel confident - YOU ARE MAKING IT IMPOSSIBLE TO FEEL CONFIDENT

compared to them - WHO IS "THEM"?

DUDE. stop fucking comparing yourself to online trolls and porn stars and people hired to show off their dicks.

Do you believe everything you read online? Do you also watch Fox News? If you do, I've got Jewish Space Lasers to sell you.

It's really gross hearing you say that you "only" got 6" girth. Boy, grow up. I only got 4.5 girth. You're whining and complaining that you don't got the biggest dick. Do you hear how childish and whiny you sound?
 

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literally only 6" at the base - it goes down to 5". A hand/fist is way bigger than that. Plus, of course my basis of big dicks is going to be based on the internet - only here will you find people with dicks that are universally considered big. People out there would consider me average (and hell, even small), especially compared to the people on the internet. The thing about the internet is that people give their most unfiltered opinions thanks to the the shroud of anonymity.

And no, I don't expect to walk around with my dick out. I'd like to not have to worry about urinals or locker rooms, which isn't a guarantee with an average flaccid size.
So people on the internet are the truest, the most real version of humans. That's what you just said. That's unhealthy to think that.

And in locker rooms and urinals, ONLY MEN can see you. So you're basically more worried about being bigger to men, because they're the ones that you fear will see you the most.

In what way do your fears of being small in front of men equate fear of being small when you're with a woman?

And why do you bring up fisting? Its pretty clear you have porn-induced body image issues, especially bringing up fisting. Do you think everyone is fisting their lover's pussy out there?? This thread is beyond ridiculous at this point.
 

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I can't force you to listen to me, but check any porn website, and there are countless dudes with way bigger than me. Check here, and there are countless dudes with way bigger than me. I'm nothing compared to them. And I'll say it again - for the way you're talking down to me, I wouldn't be surprised if I were small compared to you too.
How do you qualify "countless"? Is that thousands of men? I mean, countless is a massive, almost infinite, volume of people.
And don't equate someone trying to talk sense into you as "talking down to you" that's how you're perceiving their take on you. When you say that is seems like it fits into your "big cock=masculinity" fantasy, where the biggest guys are the meanest guys flexing their manliness against other men, who happen to SURPRISE!!! have smaller dicks than them.
Men don't hate on other men because of dick size. How could they if they're usually always dressed in society?!
 

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So people on the internet are the truest, the most real version of humans. That's what you just said. That's unhealthy to think that.
It might not be healthy, but it's reality.

And in locker rooms and urinals, ONLY MEN can see you. So you're basically more worried about being bigger to men, because they're the ones that you fear will see you the most.
And maybe I am more worried about being bigger to men - I'm honestly uncertain in my sexuality.

In what way do your fears of being small in front of men equate fear of being small when you're with a woman?
They don't equate, they coexist.

And why do you bring up fisting? Its pretty clear you have porn-induced body image issues, especially bringing up fisting. Do you think everyone is fisting their lover's pussy out there?? This thread is beyond ridiculous at this point.
I only mentioned fisting because you were the one that brought it up originally ("So you don't know that your girth is actually like fisting someone, right??!??").
 

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How do you qualify "countless"? Is that thousands of men? I mean, countless is a massive, almost infinite, volume of people.
And don't equate someone trying to talk sense into you as "talking down to you" that's how you're perceiving their take on you. When you say that is seems like it fits into your "big cock=masculinity" fantasy, where the biggest guys are the meanest guys flexing their manliness against other men, who happen to SURPRISE!!! have smaller dicks than them.
Men don't hate on other men because of dick size. How could they if they're usually always dressed in society?!
I think it's disingenuous to pretend as though people minimize/dismiss other people's fixation on aspects of their physical appearance whilst not have those same physical aspects. And it's not a fantasy - it's reality. If it weren't, then why do people associate a small dick with a lack of masculinity or insecurity? And sure, having a big dick wouldn't necessarily equal masculinity, but it's still one of several traits that are considered masculine, like the ones I mentioned earlier.
 

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I can't force you to listen to me, but check any porn website, and there are countless dudes with way bigger than me. Check here, and there are countless dudes with way bigger than me. I'm nothing compared to them. And I'll say it again - for the way you're talking down to me, I wouldn't be surprised if I were small compared to you too.
i wonder things like this a lot. bc sometimes it really does seem like a person with a large dick constantly complains about having a small dick. but then sometimes i wonder if maybe they have some type of mental thing going on with there behavior? maybe they really do have unrealistic paranoia/anxiety over some ridiculous thing their brain is telling them? or maybe they "get off" by ppl telling them how huge/big their dick is and saying "my penis is so small" is just a lure for someone to click on their media tab and tell them?

but i don't respond either way because doing so won't matter. if they do have some type of psychology condition, then me telling them "you're, penis is gargantuan!" isn't going to change their mind. no matter how many ppl tell them. it's not like once they've received the compliment for the 500th time, they suddenly realize the truth. they need much more help than any compliments can do, right?

and if they're trolling then... well, fuck em.
It's why I've never taken the bait to respond vis-a-vis the penis size complaint. Rather, I've called out the pretentious, self-centered, self-indulgent, disingenuous, desperate attention-seeking nature of the original post and subsequent rationalizations. I agree with your sentiment that any reply simply feeds the need for attention; however, it is still useful to deride when derision is so richly earned.
 

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It's why I've never taken the bait to respond vis-a-vis the penis size complaint. Rather, I've called out the pretentious, self-centered, self-indulgent, disingenuous, desperate attention-seeking nature of the original post and subsequent rationalizations. I agree with your sentiment that any reply simply feeds the need for attention; however, it is still useful to deride when derision is so richly earned.
Honestly, you're probably attractive to keep on dismissing anything I have to say in this thread. If you don't like what I have to say, you can simply stop engaging.
 

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Honestly, you're probably attractive to keep on dismissing anything I have to say in this thread. If you don't like what I have to say, you can simply stop engaging.
Friend, can you send a photo of your penis to see what you're talking about? according to your measurements you are great
 
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