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I had a girlfriend..

it just seems like nobody really has any interest in me.. when I try to talk to somebody it just doesn't work out.

ugh, I wish I knew whyy... :(
 

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You really shouldn't say wish. Have you never seen WISHMASTER??:biggrin1:

Having said that, dude, I've been where you are. The best thing you can do is re-evalutate your preferences and try to put yourself out there more. Go to places, sign up for the whole internet dating thing.... etc.

You might have the "good friend" gene, which makes it hard for people to see you in a dating sense. I still haven't figured out how to beat that one, but when I do, I'll tell you.

Good luck.
 
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Ahh...

I haven't see that.

I've always tried to avoid thoes internet dating sites... I don't know, maybe i'm a little too traditional.

That line "you make a better best friend than a boyfriend", i've heard that from evry girl i dated that broke up with me. Like every single one.

:(
 

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Ahh...

I haven't see that.

I've always tried to avoid thoes internet dating sites... I don't know, maybe i'm a little too traditional.

That line "you make a better best friend than a boyfriend", i've heard that from evry girl i dated that broke up with me. Like every single one.

:(

There is nothing wrong with being traditional. I'm also a better friend then the boyfriend, but I know I will meet someone eventually, but I have to put some effort in it too, and maybe you too. You don't have to register on datingsites if you don't feel comfterable about it.
I can't give you much advice because I'm single too, but no worries.
 

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That line "you make a better best friend than a boyfriend", i've heard that from evry girl i dated that broke up with me. Like every single one.

:(

Ok, a thought: How is your sex life when you are dating girls? Are you rough and dirty? Gentle and sensitive?

I ask because it's possible you might be doing all the friend things during these relationships.

Are you offering them passion and lust... do you ever just grab them when the moment is right and kiss them in the middle of a crowded place?

Do you leave romantic things on their answering machine...

Do you ever make playful comments to them, complimenting them?

Do you do anything that offers them any kind of spark/lust? Something that takes you beyond what a friend is? Or do you just sit, talk, watch movies, have married couple kisses?

That could be your issue. Take these relationships into lusting land... make it a desire. Make her want you. Make her think of you in a completely non-friend way.
 

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There is nothing wrong with being traditional. I'm also a better friend then the boyfriend, but I know I will meet someone eventually, but I have to put some effort in it too, and maybe you too. You don't have to register on datingsites if you don't feel comfterable about it.
I can't give you much advice because I'm single too, but no worries.
Still better than nothign! Thank you sir.
 

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I'll answer your questions in your quote

Ok, a thought: How is your sex life when you are dating girls? Are you rough and dirty? Gentle and sensitive? Sexlife is minimal, but the one girl I was with for about 8 months, I couldn't bring myself to be rough like she wanted. I didn't want to disrespect her. Ever.

I ask because it's possible you might be doing all the friend things during these relationships. perhaps... I try not tothough!


Are you offering them passion and lust... do you ever just grab them when the moment is right and kiss them in the middle of a crowded place? honestly, no.. I don't ever do that..

Do you leave romantic things on their answering machine...
That i do do

Do you ever make playful comments to them, complimenting them?
When it's appropriate, but not all the time

Do you do anything that offers them any kind of spark/lust? Something that takes you beyond what a friend is? Or do you just sit, talk, watch movies, have married couple kisses?
I like to go out and do things.. like, swimming with manatees was fun.. and like going places.. I think those thigns are more fun then just watching movies.. but at the same time it's good to just vege-out.


That could be your issue. Take these relationships into lusting land... make it a desire. Make her want you. Make her think of you in a completely non-friend way.
 

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With nice arms like that you cannot get a girlfriend ? WTF is wrong with the universe lol
lol sarcasm?

I didn't want to put my face on here, but I didn't mind an avatar of a body part...

I guess...because i'm a gymnast, punks used to always call me gay. So maybe that's where the lack of self-esteem cmoes from.
 

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lol sarcasm?

I didn't want to put my face on here, but I didn't mind an avatar of a body part...

I guess...because i'm a gymnast, punks used to always call me gay. So maybe that's where the lack of self-esteem cmoes from.

Well, fuck the haters man. They were probably jealous that you were fitter and getting way more attention than they ever could hope for. I'm sure you'll find a really cool girl sooner rather than later, so chin up :biggrin1:
 

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hito -
i am sorry you are without wonderful, beautiful girlfriend. for what its worth - so am i. just an endless list of exes. hang in there and keep your eye peeled and be yourself.
i wish my arms looked as good as yours.