awww, my principle exactly! Can't believe there's someone else feels the same...I told this to some of my friends and they said I'm nuts and ask me to suck someone's dick already and get fucked up in the arse...lol
I wonder how many in here are still virgins... and why...?
- Thread starter lopo2000
- Start date
awww, my principle exactly! Can't believe there's someone else feels the same...I told this to some of my friends and they said I'm nuts and ask me to suck someone's dick already and get fucked up in the arse...lol
Drifterwood
Superior Member
I meant for you to lose your virginity with another man. Your orientation suggests that that is your preference.
Oh, yes, anal sex is illegal in my country, and at the same time, homosexuality is deemed soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo immoral in here too... It's like, when people hear about this, many of them will say, "what the fuck? are you an animal or something?"
So, it contributes to why I'm still a virgin too....
I am but not by choice. I guess I just don't fit into many people's idea of a good looker. And I guess I'm not much of a people person.
Do you know what the main advantage of being an average joe? When you found someone who loves you, she really loves you because of you, not because of your looks, wealth or fame... which is good... But I'm sure you are fine looking...Nobody has a look that only a mother could love if you know what i mean...
sorry mate, virginity is not like voting for Obama... :tongue:
But 5 years! that's impressive! :smile:
- Joined
- Dec 29, 2009
- Posts
- 2,402
- Media
- 68
- Likes
- 1,027
- Points
- 358
- Location
- United States
- Verification
- View
- Sexuality
- 100% Straight, 0% Gay
- Gender
- Male
Maybe it wasn't time for you. You're 18 and you have the whole life ahead of you. You're still vibrant and young and I'm sure you're good looking. Things will be easy for you to get the right person to share the rest of your life with. You still have a strong mind.
All the best!
B_ordinarydude88
Experimental Member
I agree, that is a VERY VERY good point.
on the other hand, lopo20 has got to be the nicest, kindest, friendliest, most generous person I have ever seen. kudos to you for being such a good human... not many of those left in todays world. thank you.
I'm still a virgin =] I am saving myself for someone special. I know I want to top, and sometimes I really wish I didn't have my own rules... really!... I like being a virgin though, I attract a good group of people, plus I think it will be really special when I finally do it.
I am still a virgin. It is quite embarrassing to admit because of the virgins here who list their age, they are all 18-early 20s whereas I'm in my 30s There are a few different reasons, but really it all boils down to meeting people. I've lived in fairly rural/country areas my whole life so there have never really been places for me to meet other gay men. Even if there was, I'm a very shy person so I probably wouldn't go out to those places anyway. I don't drink so you won't find me hanging out in bars. I've never been a looker - but I wouldn't call myself ugly, I have too much self-respect to describe myself that way. I do have a small penis which does make me very self-conscious - especially as I am attracted to black/dark-skinned men. I guess it's one of life's little jokes - give me a small dick then make me attracted to a race generally considered to be the best-endowed. I am also overweight but that is something I can change. So basically, I am a virgin because I'm shy so I have trouble meeting people. I thought as I got older, I would get more and more desperate to lose my virginity but it's actually quite the opposite. The longer I wait, the more special I want it to be. I want to make love with someone I have a relationship with, I don't just want to fuck someone. If it was just about fucking for the sake of fucking, I'd have gone to a prostitute years ago. As I get older, the less bothered I am about 'sex'. Naturally, I would like to have a partner but I'm more interested in finding love rather than just having sex.
There are a few different reasons, but really it all boils down to meeting people. I've lived in fairly rural/country areas my whole life so there have never really been places for me to meet other gay men. Even if there was, I'm a very shy person so I probably wouldn't go out to those places anyway. I don't drink so you won't find me hanging out in bars. I've never been a looker - but I wouldn't call myself ugly, I have too much self-respect to describe myself that way. I do have a small penis which does make me very self-conscious - especially as I am attracted to black/dark-skinned men. I guess it's one of life's little jokes - give me a small dick then make me attracted to a race generally considered to be the best-endowed. I am also overweight but that is something I can change. So basically, I am a virgin because I'm shy so I have trouble meeting people. I thought as I got older, I would get more and more desperate to lose my virginity but it's actually quite the opposite. The longer I wait, the more special I want it to be. I want to make love with someone I have a relationship with, I don't just want to fuck someone. If it was just about fucking for the sake of fucking, I'd have gone to a prostitute years ago. As I get older, the less bothered I am about 'sex'. Naturally, I would like to have a partner but I'm more interested in finding love rather than just having sex.I am still a virgin. It is quite embarrassing to admit because of the virgins here who list their age, they are all 18-early 20s whereas I'm in my 30s
man, I totally understand you... I kinda get you because sometimes i feel that way too... But, don't feel too bad about your age because I guarantee you, you're still young and vibrant! I'm sure of that... I have a friend who got married at his 40's (and I'm sure she's still a virgin because it's our culture that we only lose virginity after getting married)...
You just consider it to be your prime years to enjoy your singlehood... Because I need someone to accompany me in my singlehood...
Join me plz... Single men united!!!!
I have no idea why. Well when I was younger, and to some extent still, I had a pretty bad self-image because I was/am so damn skinny and I didn't really like my face and I'm still not crazy about it. Also I was really shy in school and am still not that talkative among people I don't know usually, and always worried that I put out a creepy kind of vibe. I just wish I could do what normal people do and get laid/a girl friend, move out of my parents house, what have you. Maybe one day.
Yes, maybe one day...
Right now, just cherish what you have... living with parents always give the perspective other people who live independently don't have... Perhaps when you're yourself, and at the same time improving it, people will elkarn to like you, although I'm sure there's nothing NOT to like you now...