anytime i have a new sex partner it is always the same thing. "it hurts stop" what can I do to make this a better experience. I have tried slowing down, and even longer foreplay but after I get into it I just want to pound away some girls love it and other hate it. Do I just have to deal with this until they get used to it? what can i do to make it better since there are more ladies saying stop than there are that actually enjoy it. again its only the first few times untill they get used to it. Thank you in advance for your replies.