I have always been self-conscious about the size of my "bulge". I have had sex only a few times because I am too big for most women. The girls that say they DO want a bigger man wind up being too tight for me or wind up getting scared of me. Defloration does NOT turn me on, especially if I pop a girl that has already been popped. Looking for a group that can help me ease up on my embarassment and help answer some of my concerns.