No one should speak despairingly about age: we will all age, unless we die young....a blessing for some.
Think of aging well...so, people who look at you (first impressions are the lasting ones) can not guess your age, without plastic surgery (although I do not have an issue with that).
Yes, older mature women are popular, the rage, because some men say that most (not all) younger women: teens, 20s, and early 30s, are into drama, having children, immature, can not hold an intelligent conversation, can not speak the king's English -- but a garbled, confused, riddled language -- are not submissive, and can not commit.
Now, this is most, readers, not all. Sure there are 20s and 30s who are the opposite. However, finding them....and depending upon where you live, might be a challenge, not so much a problem.