Ideal penis size

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What would you guys consider the ideal penis size? For me, I would say a solid 8 or 9 inches with moderate thickness. I've been with guys bigger than that, and, while nice to look at, it's harder to do anything with a dick that big. I'm currently 7.5 inches when hard, so if I was about an inch longer and just a little thicker I'd be perfectly happy with that. No one has ever complained about my current size, but I think it'd look better just a little bit bigger.
 
Just read in a Male Health of the average size is 5.1 in and 3-4 in flaccid .
 
I think ideal size would be 7 x 5. Long enough to look impressive, but not bottom out most of the time, and thick enough to provide sensation without being uncomfortable.
 
For myself, I'd be happy with another inch in length. (2 would be even better.) I'm slightly longer than 5" and about 5" around. Another inch could help avoid slipping out while topping.

My ideal for a partner would be similar. I can't really bottom for a huge dick, so wouldn't want to be with someone huge.
 
I'm slightly over 6 in length and slightly under 6 in girth, so for me the ideal size (size I wish I were/ size I believe even picky girls would appreciate) would be around an inch longer--71/4-- 71/2. A single inch is really a lot when you think about it.
 
I'm pretty happy with my hard size which is 7-7.5". Not small, not intimidatingly big even though I have been rejected anal because the bottom thought it was too big. 8.5"x7" would be a perfect erect size. I really wish I had a longer and thicker soft one though. With a slight semi, mine hangs 5" soft at best, usually 4". So a 6" fat softy that grows to an 8.5x7" hard one would be ideal.
 
Can we drop the cliché "I've never had any complaints"? It's totally lame... as if someone would complain to your face about your dick size. I mean, i know people do, but surely most do not. They simply move on.

I agree with the comment about having too big a dick, tho' i love the concept of it. Surely 7-7.5 about maybe 5.5-6 around is best: you can thrust deep but not ruin the other person.
 
I've had complaints on both sides of the equation. I'm a bit over 6 inches long, and about 6 and a half inches around. I've been 'too short' and 'too thick'. I would like to be 8 or 9 inches long, and at least as thick as I am now. Not for anyone else, just because at 8 or 9 inches, I could suck myself. Haven't been able to reach since I was a minor.
 
I have tried and tried to get to 8" (various measuring techniques) but I can't get past 7". I am 6" thick and very well proportioned but I would love an extra inch for show. To be perfectly honest, the girth is really what matters to me. After many, many masturbation sessions throughout my life, I still get excited about the girth of my own cock - can't imagine being thin. Anything bigger is great for show, but not necessarily better for sex so I guess I will just be content. The exaggeration on this site cracks me up.
 
My gf likes watching me walk around naked, so she can see my penis sway. Sway? I've got 4" soft and 6" stiff. I'm very happy with the length - she's happy with the girth. My penis looks a little longer when soft because my foreskin overhangs the tip of my penis by more than 1/2".