Looks like I finally found a new cocksucker to service my dick on a regular (I hope) basis. There's always a breaking-in period, and I wanna start off on the right foot (so to speak). What do you guys think is the ideal position to be in for receiving proper oral services? I'm not saying this is a major dilemma or anything—just wondered about other people's experiences. I usually want somebody on their knees between my legs while I'm sitting back in a couch or a chair, or sometimes I'll try sitting up at the head of the bed and have the dick sucker lay on his belly, but that isn't great because the mattress actually isn't long enough. With sitting back on the couch or a chair, I think somehow my dick is too far away from the server's head—he has to lean too far forward and bend over to really be positioned to give the best performance. Not that I'm complaining—just trying to optimize the situation, ya know?
Thoughts?
As someone who regularly services a large dick, I can provide this insight.
It depends on what you like, and the shape of your dick.
I can tell you would like to be serviced while you are comfortable. Nothing wrong with that. Do you have any sort of curve to your dick? Do you want to be deep throated? Would you like to face fuck them? I have no way of telling your length so I have to get creative here.
For deep throating
My man has an upward curve to his dick. He is also very girthy. As a result, I can deep throat him from only certain positions because of this. If he is laying down, I will have to face his dick so it can slide down my throat. (I dont complain since he usually sucks me or eats my ass). If he wants to face fuck me we have to flip over and him over me.
In the past before I was monogamous, straight dicks could be sucked from multiple positions but I found laying down positioned infront of them standing to be best. That way I can service or they can face fuck.
I've had one experience with a well hung downward curved dick and its basically just the opposite of the upward curve.
For endurance and relaxation
If you just want your dick serviced but not deep throated some of our favorite positions have been him just laying back and relaxing and me going to town. I will make him sit on his knees while I lay between his legs enjoying his dick. Him standing over me is more for my benefit than his (oops). We will sometimes engage in oral with him sitting back legs spread but I don't enjoy being on my knees on the floor for more than a couple minutes. Otherwise I will just lean over and suck him side ways.
In all honesty, since I usually am the one to service, it really depends on my comfort than his. If I am not comfortable, I cant perform fully. Its all about finding the balance between your comfort and your dick sucker.
There is no ideal position because it varies from person to person. Now, if your dick sucker is very submissive then its more about you. But if its more mutual you gotta find that balance. I am the dominate one in my relationship so its more about finding the best position for me to be able to relax so I can rock his world longer.
I can only go off what you provide so I see you want this to be a regular thing. So talk with them. Establish the best positions right away. Be open about what you want and what you expect and listen to their expectations to.
Hope this helps, sorry I get a bit wordy...