Ideal Size for a taller girl? Females please comment!

[uboat]

Im dating a girl that is taller than average and im not sure if I have enough for her. The girl Im with is 5'11 and weighs 160. Im aout 6'2 180 and my unit is 7in when fully erect. Ive never had issues with satisfying a girl until i met this one. Ive always felt like king kong in regards to sex, but with this girl i am insecure. Ill fuck her for 30 mins straight as hard as i can and she wont cum, but then i turn around and fuck a stranger(about 5'7 tall) for 15 mins without breaking a sweat and she cums twice... wtf?

Ideal Size for a taller girl like 5'11?

My unit

 

[Opalite]

Guess what? It's not her, It's you.

There isn't any super secret body hight to cock preference ratio. There only are different people, liking different things. Nearly all females can not cum through penetration only (if you've experienced otherwise, do not be shocked to hear there is a high possibility they faked it). The ones that do cum from penetration only, do not have to be a fan of beeing humped like a horny puppy - ask her how she'd like it, going loco for 30 minutes just might not cut it. Not even if you're slightly above average.

 

[uboat]

Guess what? It's not her, It's you.
There isn't any super secret body hight to cock preference ratio. There only are different people, liking different things. Nearly all females can not cum through penetration only (if you've experienced otherwise, do not be shocked to hear there is a high possibility they faked it).

Well, all the girls that i have been with in the past that have told me they have had an orgasm with me always have gotten super wet.

Ask her how she'd like it, going loco for 30 minutes just might not cut it. Not even if you're slightly above average.

Well, i always do it how she likes, but she still won't cum. Anytime i ask her if she cums she says "yes", but i cannot feel it and there are no wet spots. She has had a bad sexual history and has issues with sex and relationships, but im not sure that has anything to do with her not being able to cum every time we have sex.

 

[Opalite]

Girls get wet when they are turned on, like men will get hard when they are. When you get hard, isit always because your partner is hitting the spot? It's just a reaction, nothing more.

I wouldn't rule out the chance she can't cum at all with another person, not even from clitoral stimulation. Some girls don't even know to cum by themselves.

But I'd focus on her, and not your penis.

 

[ManlyBanisters]

Ill fuck her for 30 mins straight as hard as i can

Well don't!

Try variety. Different positions, angles, cunnilingus, clitoral and/or anal stimulation, or <outrageous suggestion warning> ask her what feels good.

 

[B_ILIW]

i agree.

and also, cock size per se doesn't lead to being a better lover. also, people have different sexual responses, likes and dislikes. Not all women like to be fingered in the same way; not all men like to be sucked off the same way. also, a tall woman doesn't necessarily have a larger pussy. no more true than saying a 6 foot plus guy necessarily has a large dick.

 

[psidom]

i had one girl who could not cum because it was "too much" friction.

you got a big dick man,you most likely are too much,too quick.
it was explained to me as...

when there is that much friction it begins to feel like
rubbing an arm...a different set of nerves that deal with more pressure,

not enough balance between the "tactile" fun and the pressure fun.

too much of one and it feels like a q-tip
and too much of the other and it feels like a deep tissue massage.

balance it.

use your cock when it is not fully hard,this will give more tactile sensations
for her and you.

try not to fuck like you have something to prove...lots of guys
get on a mission and it is an ego thing,girls can sense the lack of passion
and they begin to think that there could be any girl under you,hence turn-off.

only use your whole cock when she is insanely excited,
pull out and go down on her to relieve the burn...watch her facial expressions,and use your intuition.

rub her skin lightly with the weight of bathwater.

do you play any musical instruments?

 

[B_flashflash]

naaaa just focus on your penis

 

[Opalite]

naaaa just focus on your penis

He's right, disregard everything I've said.

Your weenier is awesome, and if the bitch don't like it she's not worthy of it's awesomeness!

 

[AlphaMale]

Guess what? It's not her, It's you.

There isn't any super secret body hight to cock preference ratio. There only are different people, liking different things. Nearly all females can not cum through penetration only (if you've experienced otherwise, do not be shocked to hear there is a high possibility they faked it). The ones that do cum from penetration only, do not have to be a fan of beeing humped like a horny puppy - ask her how she'd like it, going loco for 30 minutes just might not cut it. Not even if you're slightly above average.

Not meaning to offend or be confrontational, but are you sure about the bolded part? That seems like quite a statement.

I'm not trying to toot my own horn, and I haven't been with a ton of girls at all compared to most people... but during the 100s of times those girls and I had sex I know for a fact they orgasmed through penetration.

You can't fake the convulsing, the white stuff, the overall euphoric feeling you can tell they are experiencing, the constant call backs, etc. I'm not saying that some girls don't fake it for their man. I'm just saying that there are also some girls that have a good penetrative lover and don't have to fake it.

 

[Opalite]

Possitive. I thought it was mere basic sexual education, really. Google is your friend. Or just ask any doctor/sexuoligist.

 

[AlphaMale]

Possitive. I thought it was mere basic sexual education, really. Google is your friend. Or just ask any doctor/sexuoligist.

So you aren't saying that it's completely impossible, correct? Just that a low percentage actually can just from that?

 

[Opalite]

No, it's not impossible. But the chances are slim, I thought it was about 20% of the woman that actually could cum through penetration. And ladies do fake a lot, mostly because of their own insecurities (the ladies in porn always cum from penetration, they feel freakish because they cant)

 

[beachbum1971]

There are plenty of us that cum very easily through intercourse, thank you very much! She could be nervous or insecure with you. Ask her what she likes? Ask her what feels good? Ask her if she can usually cum that way? Communicate. Try new things. Foreplay man! Then when you are ready for the main event, you will know just how to push all of the right buttons. Good luck.

Sidebar: While it's true some women have trouble orgasming, the human race would have died out a long time ago if we didn't enjoy it too!

 

[uboat]

What are the main signs of a female orgasm? My girl is telling me that she cums alot with me and is adamant about it but i still don't believe her.

 

[Ms M]

I don't think height has anything at all to do with it. Or dick size either. You sound like you're a little intimidated by this womans size and maybe that is affecting your performance? Just a thought.

I would suggest trying different things and really watching her reaction. Some women are too shy to really say what they like if you just ask. I'm like that, but if a guy pays attention it doesn't take too much to figure out what I like. She's probably the same, maybe she has some kinks you haven't figured out yet. Good Luck!

You can't tell when your girl cums??? You have a lot to learn. Vaginal contractions are a big clue also a feeling of wetness, more than she was before. All women get "wet" when they get turned on but actually having an orgasm causes more fluid. She should be wetter or at least having vaginal contractions, squeezing your dick or fingers.

I'm not a rocket scientist or haven't studied up on it but just speaking from personal experience and I know not all women are the same but you should be able to tell at least some of the time. Keep in mind it's not the size of the dick but how you use it or your tongue, fingers or toys either for that matter.

 

[Chantal_Kyrie]

There's definitely not a relationship between body size of a girl and how big she likes cocks. Also, Katt is right, while it is absolutely not impossible for a female to cum from penetration (the elusive G-spot, ladies and gentlemen!), it is definitely far more rare.
However, that's not to say that sex isn't good when we don't cum. It can be wonderful that way too, and then finish us off with some clitoral stimulation!

 

[Chantal_Kyrie]

Katt is right: there's no ratio for size of a girl to size of her "needed" penis. She's also right in that it's more rare for a female to cum from penetration only. That's not to say that it doesn't feel good, though. It can be nice even if we don't come, and there's nothing wrong with giving us a clitoral orgasm.

 

[uboat]

Yeah... you guys are probably right. I am going to try to pay more attention to doing the things she likes and trying to hit her g spot with my unit and also switching up positions more while also alternating between sticking and licking.

On a side note, i did feel her contracting on my fingers once before. But that was the only time I have really ever felt her do that. She has an issue with wetness, so she doesn't get very wet at all so its harder to tell visually.

I try not to make a big deal to her about this stuff b/c i don't want her to be freaked out and feel any extra burden during sex... but this shit is driving me crazy.

 

[dalynxx]

A lot of women these days are learing to take charge of their bodies and can cum thru penetration. At times tho, the emotional connection could be wrong; if you get into a woman's heart and make her feel secure in herself and of her body, the sky is the limit. She will open her senses to you like a flower....trust me.

N.B. Have you tried making her cum by oral sex or touching her? If she sees that you are trying to please her rather than just thrust your cock in and out, it could make all the difference. Another tip is to let her ride you - that is a great position for a woman to learn how to get an orgasm from penetration, cos she can control the speed and pressure etc. Just a tip!