Ideal Size for Women?

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That chart is crap. There is no evidence to support it.

Yep, like 99% of all oft-quoted penis-size 'studies' on the internet.
Even well-intentioned people couldn't give good numbers if asked, since people are generally not aware of accurate measurements.
I think the only resource you'll find of actual women who are discriminating purely based on size + shape are feminist, sex-positive sex shops. You'll find the occasional cartoonish 13"+ dildo used mostly as a gag gift at bachelorette parties, but the most popular are typically not around there.
There's a lot of demand for smaller, curved dildos (around 4" circumference to 4.5", so low-average.) Average sizes are quite popular, and many that are realistic, high-priced but still well-reviewed and best-selling tend to be 6-7" insertable and ~5.5" around (big but not cartoonishly big.) You'll find the occasional inhumanly large one (like 8" around) but for the most part, once they break 6" girth the majority of the reviews just say "not for beginners, way too thick for me, fun occasionally but I still use my thinner toy" etc etc.
Much like real people, preferences seem to follow a pretty close distribution.

Of course, if you're longer you can always use a position which penetrates less-deeply, but if you've got a shorter dick there are spots you cannot reach.
 

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This chart has been referenced here on lpsg before. On it I may be just a B, bording the A area, but in the real world multiple women have told me that my size is just right, perfect, etc. Many have also said that if I was longer, or thicker, they're not sure they would've been able to take me.

Having a woman stroking/sucking your penis and saying it is "perfect" - priceless! :biggrin1:
 

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I'm nowhere near as big as a lot of the guys on here (only 7x5.5ish), and ALL (except for one girl) claimed that I was perfect. The last two I've been with said that if I were any longer, they'd be in pain. Of course I'd like to be bigger 'stat' wise (this chart puts me in the 'C' category), but I'm happy with the results I achieve! 8"x6.5"? Sure, I'd like to be... but I'm sure it'd be a tough go on a daily basis with my gal. :)
 

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I'm nowhere near as big as a lot of the guys on here (only 7x5.5ish), and ALL (except for one girl) claimed that I was perfect. The last two I've been with said that if I were any longer, they'd be in pain. Of course I'd like to be bigger 'stat' wise (this chart puts me in the 'C' category), but I'm happy with the results I achieve! 8"x6.5"? Sure, I'd like to be... but I'm sure it'd be a tough go on a daily basis with my gal. :)
once again I'm confused you'd rather have a women be in pain than tell you your perfect.Last week I read a post where a women new man had a 6" girth but she didn't orgasm as often as she did with her ex who was 7"long with average girth and she said she would always choose girth over lenght.Very confused
 

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This chart always makes me laugh.
Like an 11" x 7" penis would be enjoyable :lmao:
I think this is originally from a penis enlargement site.
Side note: The OP is an A soft?! That's huge.
 

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This chart always makes me laugh.
Like an 11" x 7" penis would be enjoyable :lmao:
I think this is originally from a penis enlargement site.
Side note: The OP is an A soft?! That's huge.

Welcome to the internetz. :biggrin1:
 

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Some clarifications. First, the chart does not say 11 x 7 is enjoyable. It is an E, which is "too big or too small or some freakish combination of the two". Second, I am not so much horse hung, as just a big man. On some mornings, I easily have 7.5 soft, so I make it into the A's. The girth just a little over 6 around. But sometimes, in cold water, for example, I have a fairly small one especially relative to my size. But it usually is never less than 6 inches. Erect, I can be over 9, almost 4 standard deviations, which matches my hands and feet. Surprisingly, it looks pretty normal on me. But I look at pictures of guys between 5 - 7 and they look little to me. I had over 6 when I was 12 years old, and the erections in Bible class then were a problem I had a tent in my pants and had to wait a few minutes before I could leave my seat. No jeans back in the day, but stretchy polyester dress pants. (I was about 5 6 then but I had size 12 feet already too)
 

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Excellent to hear. I wish I could trade a little length for a little girth. Maybe it will get squashed down as I get older. Another note, is that I am definitely bigger than any of the dildos that are actually used by women in the adult stores, except the ones that are not modelled after a live person. I love how the dorsal length is longer than the ventral on some of these (hard to explain unless you look at how they did it). Didn't know I was porno sized until I was older. Oh well. Kept me out of trouble