so i'm going to go on the perverbial third date on wed or thurs. we had sex a couple weeks ago. had actual sex a number of times throughout the eve/morning, but everything was relatively conventional. although I loved the duration and instances... was fairly standard. hoping to have a conversation around being a bit more experimental. she's a divorcee who married her first partner young and yada yada yada... so my guess is they did a "few things back in the day, but since then, it was 'lights out/missionary'". i'd really like to get funky with her, and fast... blond, aerobic instructor... you get the picture... a shame not to utilize it ... what's a good way to ask, and/or just get into it. plus she's small (5'2" and a buck ten, tops)... good for slamming against the wall and .. well you know. normally, i don't kiss and tell here.. but I think this one has potential... but I don't want to freak her out, via long-term potential, but at the same time.... (and just in case) want to get FREAKY. this one will be very short-term, me thinks... this is for fun... but how do you say "I've never been fucked in the ass, moreover...anally pleasured.... would you kindly be the first.. I've brought appropriate toy and lubricatant" much less, i know you've never received a facial... but if you are ever going to like it, i'm the one. thirdfold... anal... "you haven't ...trust me... this'll go great". I want to be the 'nice guy', but I really want to molest her. Tastefully. :tongue: I mean .. Agent Kujan... how do you shoot the devil in the back? What if you miss?