Idiots on LPSG

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by D_Ivana Dickenside, Mar 1, 2008.

  1. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    this thread is in regards to the following post:
    http://www.lpsg.org/78781-was-i-rude.html


    there are too many fucking dumbasses roaming around lpsg. this forum was created as a support system for the penis, hence its name, large penis support group. it's supposed to be a forum where people help each other out and discuss their questions, ideas, problems, etc. it's not supposed to be a place to come trolling around to bully and bash on other users for what they have to say. and for the last time, this is NOT a porn site either!

    don't get me wrong about lpsg though. i've exchanged words with a lot of nice and mature users on this site. there are many individuals who i've become friends with, and even talk to on a regular basis as well. i've had a ton of laughs and i've been introduced to many topics i would have never known of if it weren't for joining in the first place.

    but aside from that, i've also come across a lot of stupid people too. we all know them... the perverts who ask for your photos for jerk-off material; the exhibitionists who want to show off for you their webcams; and especially the trolls who won't leave you alone after you've told them to stop.

    i guess i just can't take a lot of the fake bullshit any longer. i am still going to continue to be a member. however, this forum just turned out to be completely different from what i thought it was in the beginning. i've taken down my photo gallery and will not be posting any more pictures in the future either.

    like i said, there's too many idiots that make the site unenjoyable for the individuals, like myself, to want to interact with other members.
     
  2. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Stacy, i hate to say it, but i agree with you. I have one pic now and i used to have a flourishing gallery like yours. I have to admit that under my old name that i did *once* find it flattering that my pics were wack-worthy. But what seems to be the problem here is the female/male ratio. The understatement of the year is that there is no shortage of guys willing to jerk off on cam. There simply arent enough women to watch them so it ends up being the same people getting approached to cam or to give out your yahoo id to them.

    I have no problems with guys who have told me that they wack off to my pics or vids or send me the occasional PM. It's the guys who can't take the hint that i really have no interest in watching them cam every 27 hours. When all potential cammers added up, it equals never getting any work done. It's a huge can of worms from our perspective. And many women like some intellectual conversation sometimes and this does seem to go to the wayside if you watch them even just once. Your future encounters are laden with pleas or just downright invitations sent to your yahoo name to accept their cam invite.

    I've had to be more honest and tell people that i dont feel comfortable carrying on a cam relationship with them any longer. I'm simple burned out thats all.

    I don't blame the men for wanting the female attention or even approaching the women for some fun, it just seems that there are enough who don't know when to back off or calm down to the point where we lock the proverbial gates to our yahoo names and cams. And there is no good way to approach someone about them watching you masturbate without having your feelings hurt if they tell you no or without making the person feel obligated to watch. Over-zealous is the best way to describe these types and i don't think they even know they are that way.

    Let me also add that even us overtly sexual women arent so thick with it out there in our daily lives that is very attractive to the males to interact with us. Many are married, dating or used to be in relationships with no sexual chemistry and its a huge fantasy and hope to get hooked up with a woman who appreciates the phallus. That being said, just being sexual, female and on a penis site inadvertantly asks for all kinds of men to approach us.

    The really intelligent ones who care about maintaining a decent online friendship with us know just how to do so and still get their rocks off every once in a while with us. Those men are GOLD around here and they know who they are and they arent prone to giving away their secrets. A gentleman is born that way and he cant be created if you ask me.

    -MR
     
  3. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    MR... formerly the gorgeous BHR i presume?

    i have to say i completely agree with you! like you said in your post, i was also flattered to have an outpour of messages and comments from other users when i first became a member. but after spending more time on lpsg, it just became the same ol' repetitive creeps asking "want to watch me jerk off on cam?"

    i do admit that being a woman on lpsg does have it's advantages. for instance, the male to female ratio on here is like 479786435485 men to 1 woman. it gives us women way better odds at sorting out who we want to talk to and who to keep away. but it does have dis-adavantages as well. some men just don't understand that women crave intellectual stimulation and conversation. nor, do women want to see men jerk off on cam every hour on the hour.

    i've just had enough of all the bullshit going on around here. it's just made my lpsg experience very unenjoyable. there's too many fakes and so much shit-talking among the members. people just don't know how to go about expressing their views from a mature stand point. hopefully a day will come where we'll all just learn to get along!
     
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    The problem with being a gentleman is you get a lot less sex and respect from women, sigh.
     
  5. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Yes Ma'am this is the artist formerly known as BedHeadRed. I had a lot of issues over how i was being treated on here and a few people helped me come to the realization that some of it was just the type of board this is, some of it was my fault and some of it was the guys who don't know when to stop begging women to watch them wack off.

    My husband never wacks off for me so when i came to lpsg i was in heaven with all the super good looking guys willing to wack off on cam. I got my "fill of the loin" so to speak real quick. There are still a few guys that i would LOVE to watch cam because i click so well with their personality and wit on here.

    I started to also notice that just because they knew i had a cam, they assumed i would turn it on for just anyone. It's really hard to be prancy in front of the cam for a guy you arent finding physically attractive. There is no good way to tell a nice guy that you arent getting off on seeing him on cam.

    It's a difficult thing for both sexes here. Men are used to women being fakers (men just wanting to watch other men wack off) and not knowing how sexual or forward to get with the women because "strangely" all the women on their buddylist on yahoo arent signing on anymore (hmmmmmmm). So they get paranoid and overly apologetic by saying things like "I hope i dont offend you when i say that you are very beautiful" or "I'm sorry if i sound overzealous but......your pictures get me hard" and no matter how much you tell them that you are ok with those opinions they still try so hard not to offend you that its a huge turn off.

    I feel bad for the guys here because it is slim-pickens when it comes to who they can cam with and talk to. We ladies do have the pick of the litter when it comes to who we decide to talk with and watch. Just remember that!

    Hang in there Stacy, we dont want to lose you as a part of the site!
     
  6. D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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    I've only been here a couple of months, but I am sick of some of the shit here. I am tired of wading through troll crap and people bitching at one another. I've seen with every site I've been on and it never gets better. Nobody has any common decency and courtesy anymore. Since these conversations aren't being carried on face to face, nobody gives a fuck what they say and do, or what the reprocussions will be.

    I'm tired of the fakes, and I'm tired of the ones trying to constantly out the fakes. Who gives a fuck? The fakes aren't hurthing you are anyone, only themselves. If someone wants to fall for it, then let them. It does not affect your life in any way.

    SPH guys, get a life. Your cocks works just fine, stop bitching about it.
     
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    :smile:Definition of a gentleman.......................A man who gets out of the bath to have a pee.
     
  8. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    The women WORTH spending your time with are the ones who know and appreciate a true gentleman. Some women will never recognize a gentleman. Those women are true bitches to be around and somehow manage to always get horrible men over and over again trying to change them into gentleman and take up all their friends time bitching about him and how inconsiderate he is. Go figure!
     
  9. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    MR, i was wondering what happened to your BHR account? there were so many rumors going around, lol. some users were saying you got banned and others said you left because you didn't want to be part of lpsg any longer. you're quite the lpsg celebrity!
     
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    I am sorry that you ladies have had a time on here. I understand how you feel. Don't put your pics up. You don't have to put up with the shit you put up on here.

    When I first came here, I had a lot of peeps ask me to cam and for pics. But I didn't play into it. I tell a lot of guys if they want pics and videos. You have Yahoo. You can find a lot of things on Yahoo for free.

    I hope that you find some decent people on LPSG. Not everyone here is looking for a score or trying to hook up with you. Some people are here for supporting camaraderie.
     
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    Both parts are true. i did have a friend of mine change my BHR password the night of my last post under BHR. Ironically, the next day i was contacted by a few of my friends on Yahoo about how i was a part of the banning. I really didnt care as i planned on staying away from posting because it was changing my personality getting involved in way too many heated topics. Since i didnt feel like posting, i just lurked around and realized that i was being asked about. So i created a name to PM my friends and respond to vital topics that i felt i could participate in without any problems arising. I also like to chat in the chatroom and i had no way to do that if i didnt have a screen name.

    So here i am, participating on your thread because i do find it a topic that i can contribute my 2 cents on!

    Celebrity? More like infamous the way i went out with a bang!
     
  12. D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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    I can count on one hand the only people I stay on this site for, and they are the ones that I can carry on a normal, even meaningful conversation with. It's not always sex, it's more than that.
     
  13. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    haha very true! what you had to say in the discussion forums was always the cream of the crop! i admit, it did get kind of boring without you around.
     
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    yeah i understand what you mean, invisibleman. not all the users on lpsg are creeps. but there sure are a lot of stupid trolls on here! i guess one way to look at this is a wake up call to be more cautious of who to speak to.
     
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    Lets face it, when men get super horny most of the time their ability to see how strong they are coming on gets a little fuzzy. When you get drunk on horny hormones you say and do things (esp on the internet) that you wouldnt normally feel comfortable with.
     
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    A damnable lie, I say.

    That problem seems endemic to those who only know how to be a gentleman. Try being a complete asshole to all women all the time...I guarantee you won't get any more action than by being the nice guy all the time.

    The art of interplay comes in how, when, and to what degree one chooses to play the gentleman...or the rogue.
     
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    As a man, I totally agree with that. But I go to a porn site to get off, I don't come here looking to get my rocks off. There are even dedicated cam sites for people that like that.

    If you don't know somebody from Adam, don't ask them if they want to cam with you and then get mad if they shoot you down.

    I swear to god, I am going to lose it if I see one more str8 man leave his IM and tell a new "female" member here to check out the gallery and hit me up. Guys, only fake women are interested in that. The real girls that join here, are not into that. Get a clue.
     
  18. invisibleman

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    But another truism, some men don't know that they are assholes. They think that that is the way of being a man. Some men don't really know.
     
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    Look to see whats in someone's heart before you look to see what's in their pants. Take the time to get to know someone. There are some wonderful people on here. There is no need for pics with me. I am willing to get to know anyone to see what's inside their heart. I came for the sex but the hearts won me over.
     
  20. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    awwww!!! :rolleyes:
     
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