If a friend's husband asked to see your breasts?

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  1. MOX2009

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    Okay, here's the situation: my wife and I are friends with a great couple. They are the best, closest friends we've ever had. We live several hours apart, and they come stay with us every few months, we stay with them, etc. We trust them more than any other friends.

    My friend's wife is fairly attractive, nothing amazing, but cute, and just very nice and sweet. The biggest thing--she has the largest, most luscious breasts ever! I've only seen them in clothing, but I know they're 34DD (my friend told me), and she's a pretty petite woman. I don't want to do anything with her, and I would NEVER cheat on my wife.

    That being said, I want to see her breasts SO BAD! She's not the type who is a total prude, but I'd also say she's about a 5 or 6 out of 10 on the adventurous scale. Just her and I ran to get breakfast when they were over last time (as I said, we're all very close), and I was really debating whether to ask her if she'd be offended if I asked to see them. It's driving me crazy! I masturbate when they're here thinking about how amazing it would be to get to see them! Am I completely out of line here? If I ask her, do I risk her just completely rejecting me and making major issues? For some reason, I don't think she'd just be utterly shocked, and I think there's a chance she may actually think about it, but I could also be wrong, and really be in hot water. I just don't know what to do. I want to see them so, so bad. If she asked to see my 7.5" dick, I'd show her in a heartbeat. Any advice?
     
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    You are right it sounds like it would be fantastic to see such a pair BUT..... it would be a shame to risk a great friendship to see those tits maybe just wait and see maybe you will get to see them anyway ?
     
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    You run the risk of her telling your wife. She will already think "okay, he's probably the cheating kind" and goodness only knows what else she might add on when she's telling your wife what you asked her.

    If you want to see her breasts so bad, play strip poker or a similar game the next time you guys meet up.
     
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    Ask the husband.

    Not that he can give any permission himself, but you'd be respecting their marriage by talking to him about it first rather than going behind his back. If he's fine w/ it he'd probably ask her for you, and if he's not, he'd probably still take it as a compliment about his taste in women :wink:
     
  5. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    I wouldnt even go there unless they have dropped even the slightest hint that they are up for that type of thing.

    For one she could tell her hubby and he could punch you in the eyes and for another she could tell your wife.

    If you fancy ogling other womens breasts then wear some shades on the beach or go to a topless bar.
     
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    Advice - No.

    Comment - What are you? Nuts?
     
  7. dolfette

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    if a friend's husband asked me?

    i'd break his nose and tell his mrs exactly why.
     
  8. D_Wahine_Weenie

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    Have a pool or beach party this summer! You can always get a peek when she bends over. Ask her to carry something, etc.
     
  9. MOX2009

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    Thanks for the advice/comments everyone. It just confirms what I've thought all along--stop thinking with my dick and use my brain.
     
  10. dolfette

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    glad you saw sense.
    sexual harassment is uncool.
     
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    D'uh.
     
  12. kit_kat

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    If by "use my brain." you mean use your brain to forget about the boobs then Right on, excellent, if you mean think of some plot to see the boobs then continue below....

    I am guessing you are on your way to a divorce anyway and the boobs obsession is just a symptomatic expression of bigger problems. If you want me to be wrong then I hope I am.

    Anyway you can do you whatever you want when it comes to your marriage - your wife will decide what she'll put up with, but you need to respect other people and their marriages especially if you consider them your friends. Actually never mind, your friends can also decide what they'll put up with.

    By the way all the tricks you are thinking of - pool party, her husband will figure it out, and they'll be dressed, packed and out the door faster than you can blink, and when you open your eyes again one or both of them will be black.

    Unless the four of you are swingers don't ask to see her boobs or any part of her body and do whatever it takes to get those boobs out of your mind. The more you masturbate to them the more you'll want to do something with them and not just looking.

    If you can't or don't want to get them out of your mind, then go ahead and ask - that will solve your problem in two ways - they will stop being your friends because you disrespected their marriage so you won't have to worry about ever having to deal with seeing her boobs, and second your wife will divorce you so you will be free to look at any other boobs as much as you want.

    Need some help to stop thinking about those boobs? Well if you are not swingers and are just "couple best friends" then she is really like a sister to you. Start thinking of her as a sister. In other words when you are masturbating and thinking of fucking her, you are masturbating and wanting to fuck your sister. You might still want to do it, but you are not going to ask.
     
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    I 100% understand the fantasy/obsession with friends'/neighbors'/co-workers' wives...but the odds that she is/they are into swapping/sharing and hoping you'd ask are VERY slim - and unless you hit the lottery on that, so to speak, the best you could hope for is that she takes it as a clumsy compliment and doesn't make a federal case out of it. Good luck!
     
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    I feel you Mox but, i don't think you have to drive yourself nuts over it. Like you've already caught on, use your brain. There are a million and one ways you to get to see her breast without anyone getting a black eye. ;)
    Eyescream suggested strip poker. To make yourself look decent, you could say just the tops come off.
    But the question remains; after you've seen them, what next ? Don't tell me you won't want to suck them cos that'll be the next bus stop.
     
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    Don't do it. It's happened to me more than once, and only one friendship survived. And no, I didn't show.
     
  16. Pitbull

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    Can I see your....

    Oh, forgot what I was going to say. :tongue:
     
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    Funny, how you have no concern as to how your wife might interpret your desires. As a 36B myself, I think I might allow my husband to view big boobied women in cyberspace, but acting upon these desires in real life and with people close to us would be too much for me to deal with. Maybe you should divorce your wife and find someone with big tits so that you can think about something else for a change.
     
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    You should ask her I'm sure she is game, I'm sure she knows she kills guys with her big boobs. "Duh" gee how do you think she got her hubby. You ladies on here have double standards, giving advice on not asking to see boobs while your on a big cock porn site no less... Sheesh!
     
  19. D_Sparroe Spongecaques

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    Really? Do we force guys on here to show pics of their penis?:rolleyes:
    Do we leer at them when it isnt wanted?:rolleyes:
    Do we force guys to join here so we can letch at them?:rolleyes:


    Maybe OP should join a site that caters for big tits......and stop being one yourself making such silly comments!


    P.S...show us your willy!!:biggrin1:
     
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