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No straight man would ever have any type of sex with another man! If you are going to let a man suck your dick yu are not 100% straight....you can consider yourself bisexual....but not 100% straight!
 

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Same sex activities do not make anyone "gay" any more than opposite sex activities make anyone "straight". In any case, these are convenient but essentiallly false categories. Even with in between terms like "bi", "curious" we cannot accurately label people.

Sexual orientation is about a) preference - "I prefer sex with women but I occasionally enjoy sex with guys". b) emotional and romantic feelings - "Sex with women is fun but I don't feel passionate about it. I easily fall in love with guys, though". c) long term commitment - "I like having sex - sex with anyone attractive, male of female but i can only see me settling into a life-long commitment with another guy."

However, most people are not 100% gay or straight and have some potential in between that makes it possible for them to enjoy or be interested in sex with either sex.

I'm sure that there are "straight" guys here who wouldn't wish to have sex with another guy but still find it interesting and maybe arousing to see other guys' erections. What do we label them? Answer: We don't label them. It is for them to label themselves, if they wish. Some will say they are 100% straight and others will say they are 1% gay.

Fear of being gay or of people thinking that we are gay is just another aspect of homophobia. There is nothing wrong with enjoying same sex acts or of being partly or predominantly gay so there is no need to worry about it. You may, should you choose, label yourself whatever you wish. You are uniquely you and no label or its absence will change who you are.
 

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In my opinion it makes you bi-Curious to even consider it. If you try it and like it you would then be Bisexual.
 

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What you are is up to you. You are going to get as many different answers as people who want to answer, but in the end the only definition that matters is your own.

Never, never, never, give someone else the power to define who or what you are. It is the very core of you! Would you really let someone else decide something so important for you?


In the past others have been allowed to do this and look what happens:

-- Concentration camps because people decided that other people were disposable.

-- Slavery because people decided other people were not people.

-- Oppression of every kind because people were allowed to decide what other people are.
 
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Same sex activities do not make anyone "gay" any more than opposite sex activities make anyone "straight". In any case, these are convenient but essentiallly false categories. Even with in between terms like "bi", "curious" we cannot accurately label people.....

Best answer, in my opinion.
 

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It makes you human, with human tendencies. Simple as that, labeling is so pointless.

I agree with Think_Kink and Wrey. I don't think everything is so black and white. Why should people be limited to straight, gay, bi labels? They are merely points on a scale. I believe that there is a wide spectrum that goes with sexuality, just like many other things in life. What about the people that fall in between the cracks and don't necessarily fit into one specific category. The % display on here is a great idea, because it supports my theory. 50-50 would be a self proclaimed, perfectly bisexual person, as 100% either way, would make one straight or gay. Yet, the people that aren't one way or another, (80-20, 60-40) are those who are somewhere in between the common labels. They do exist!

People who refuse to acknowledge such ideas, or basically closed minded.
I know I'm not 100% straight, but I'm close. I consider myself straight preference. I am enticed by doing some things with a guy, but the idea of going all the way sickens me, and I would never be able to develop a romantic relationship with one. People have been trying to convince me that I am gay or bi all the time, even though I have never done anything with another guy, but I am curious. They don't except my idea of a spectrum or take into account that I am dating a woman.

All in all it is up to the individual. We should come to our own terms of sexuality, and not have to feel pressure to fit into a certain label. It is our job to figure out what we like and what we are comfortable with, and go with it. That's that!
 

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If you're straight, and a guy gives you HEAD, does that make you gay or bi?

You could also ask yourself if you're "gay" or "bi" if you look at erotic pictures of other males. My point here is that we as a specie don't fall into groups when it comes to sexual orientation, it's a fuzzy issue. Ultimately, it flat out doesn't matter and it's not worth wasting brain cycles on.

Personally, my belief is that the terms "straight", "gay", and "bi" are merely just labels. There's no good reason to make a distinction, and the only reason why the distinction exists is to divide us as people. The labels are just tools of conservative morality to section off people that don't fit their moral requirements and make those people a minority and thus "wrong". This is the pseudo-scientific approach to eliminating unwanted minorities from societies, labelling them as defects or mutations in comparison to the majority. Hitler tried to do the same thing 60 years ago. The truth of the matter is, it doesn't matter how many layers deep sexual preferences are in our minds, we can't explain sexual preferences any better than we can explain ice cream flavor preferences. We don't try to explain ice cream flavor preferences because that apparantly isn't a controversial issue. The only reason why "gays" and "bis" fight hard for the position that it's not a matter of choice is because there are people who fight hard for the position that sexual preference is a matter of choice. The only reason why gay and lesbian activist groups must exist is because there are other activist groups looking to deny their constitutional freedoms. The cycle is self perpetuating, the more one group claims that sexual orientation is genetic, the more it'll inspire another group to search for the "gay" gene and eliminate it. There's only two things that can happen: 1) the trend can continue to cleansing like it does in some countries, or 2) we can recognize these labels as ultimately negative and divisive and fight against them by not recognizing them. Personally, I prefer to not recognize them. Why? Because I just don't plain care what other people's sexual preferences are for the most part, except when it comes to the people I'm interested in. Even then I don't need an answer like "I'm gay" from a woman, I just purely need a "no thanks".

Distinguishing yourself as one of these groups put you on one side or the other of an issue, one that shouldn't exist, and thus you're taking part in perpetuating the non-issue.
 

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In my opinion it makes you bi-Curious to even consider it. If you try it and like it you would then be Bisexual.
I'm inclined to agree with this, with one exception. He's only bisexual if he also continues to have sexual relations with women as well as men.


This is a toughie question, it has taken me 30 years to settle in my mind that i enjoy giving and receiving head and anal as well and that there is nothing wrong with it. Quite true. I do consider my self as mainly het and not truly bi as the sexual act with other guys has no passion and I could not spend a night in bed with another guy unlike when I have sex with a lady. Hmmm:confused:
If it is something you enjoy doing don't beat yourself up about it ..... accept that is you and explore it :cool:

i have a friend who just likes getting head, and nothing more. He actually pretends to be sleeping while I give him head. He'll come over we'll hang out for a bit, and then he'll fall to "Sleep" with a big hard on. I whip it out and blow him off and we act like nothing had happened most of the time.
I still consider him str8 with a little gayness to him. He's just a regular guy who likes getting off, and it don't matter to him how.
LMAO, Dude, it matters to him! If it didn't matter to him ,he wouldn't need to pretend to fall asleep.:tongue: he would just call you up or stop by and say suck my dick. :rolleyes:

If you're straight, and a guy gives you HEAD, does that make you gay or bi?
Men: If you love eating and fucking pussy, sucking tits, have a girlfriend or wife and children; but enjoy having your ass filled with cock, or penetrating another mans ass, sucking cock or being sucked by a man and cannot imagine life without that. You are bi-sexual 50%/50%. It doesn't matter that you have never been in love with a man at that point; it is the inability to live life without anal sex or oral sex with a man that makes you bi-sexual.

That's just my 2 cents. :smile:
 

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Personally, my belief is that the terms "straight", "gay", and "bi" are merely just labels. There's no good reason to make a distinction, and the only reason why the distinction exists is to divide us as people. The labels are just tools of conservative morality to section off people that don't fit their moral requirements and make those people a minority and thus "wrong".

Here, here! Kudos to that!
 

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I think there is a difference in guys who get blowjobs and guys who want to give blowjobs.
Personally I dont think getting your dick sucked gives you any kind of label. Its a life experience.
 

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No straight man would ever have any type of sex with another man! If you are going to let a man suck your dick yu are not 100% straight....you can consider yourself bisexual....but not 100% straight!

Exactly.....

In my opinion it makes you bi-Curious to even consider it. If you try it and like it you would then be Bisexual.

Sounds correct to me!

I agree with Think_Kink and Wrey. I don't think everything is so black and white. Why should people be limited to straight, gay, bi labels? They are merely points on a scale. I believe that there is a wide spectrum that goes with sexuality, just like many other things in life. What about the people that fall in between the cracks and don't necessarily fit into one specific category. The % display on here is a great idea, because it supports my theory. 50-50 would be a self proclaimed, perfectly bisexual person, as 100% either way, would make one straight or gay. Yet, the people that aren't one way or another, (80-20, 60-40) are those who are somewhere in between the common labels. They do exist!

People who refuse to acknowledge such ideas, or basically closed minded.
I know I'm not 100% straight, but I'm close. I consider myself straight preference. I am enticed by doing some things with a guy, but the idea of going all the way sickens me, and I would never be able to develop a romantic relationship with one. People have been trying to convince me that I am gay or bi all the time, even though I have never done anything with another guy, but I am curious. They don't except my idea of a spectrum or take into account that I am dating a woman.

All in all it is up to the individual. We should come to our own terms of sexuality, and not have to feel pressure to fit into a certain label. It is our job to figure out what we like and what we are comfortable with, and go with it. That's that!

I agree there is a spectrum, but I also believe that my 80% gay and 20% straight makes me bisexual ... I don't think a person needs to be 50% 50% to claim this...title!

If you're straight, and a guy gives you HEAD, does that make you gay or bi?

At least bi..

It would depend on who you ask Unless there is reciprocated oral or kissing or other things involved then I do not believe another man giving a straight man a blow job makes the straight man any less straight I have given oral on a number of married men who are on business trips and it was one thing and one thing only to give them sexual relief Nothing more It did not change their sexual interest in women and they had no desire to even see me naked (so I stayed fully clothed).

They are definitely bi or closeted gay men....no if ands or buts about it!

Sexual orientation depends on who we find attractive, not who we have sex with. If he thinks your hot and has sexual and romantic urges toward you then yes, he's likely gay or bi. If he thinks you're just another friend who gives head well and he's imagining some hot chick's mouth on his schlong, well then he's likely straight or bisexual. The only person who knows the truth is him.

If he receives a bj...from another man...he is bisexual...NOT straight! Does not matter if he is fantasizing about some female super model or not, the fact is he is still receiving a bj from a guy, and that makes him bisexual...PERIOD!

LMAOOO..if you are straight then you will not let a guy give you head.

Exactly...


For some reason we are making this topic difficult to understand...this is real simple, NO "STRAIGHT" MAN will ever receive a bj from a guy....unless it is once in experimentation....PERIOD...end of story!
 

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from my own personal experiences, it's hard for me to believe that men are either 100% gay or 100% straight. most...if not all of us are bisexual in varying degrees. labeling sexuality is the most ridiculous concept since religion. we are only human!