If a Guy Who's Not Attracted to Men Lets a Guy Blow Him, Does That Make Him Bi?
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Idk. It's iffy for me. Most of the time I think of labels such as gay, straight and bi to have less to do with who you have sex with and to be more about who you have relationships with. This may seem strange but in these times everyone seems to be moving towards the 'if it feels good do it factor', which when it comes to sex makes things very hard to label. I mean,...yeah...he's letting you suck him off...but he's not really acknowledging you and your sex isn't a factor at all for him most likely. It feels good. You're more of a pleasure hole at that point and not really thought of as male or female. (That wasn't meant to be derogatory in any way btw.)
If a gay guy got head from a girl (hypothetically), would that make him straight?
I don't think a single homosexual act makes someone gay. If you genuinely like guys and girls then yeah you'd be bi. If you'd only ever be with a girl, but are open to a guy sucking you off I'd say less so.
I don't think a single homosexual act makes someone gay. If you genuinely like guys and girls then yeah you'd be bi. If you'd only ever be with a girl, but are open to a guy sucking you off I'd say less so.
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Bloody good point, I imagine few people look at it this way.
I think the lines between classical stereotypical definitions of straight and gay are becoming more and more blurred.
Yes there are people that personify the stereotype of straight and gay but I think increasingly there is a massive group in the middle of men and women, (talking men here though) that are not adverse to getting there ego stroked and kicks through a little none committed M on M interaction behind closed doors.
There are gay guys who don't touch anal, so a straight guy getting off by another man, no surprise.
Labels as people have pointed out are meaningless yet sought after things, to my mind 'bi' is what covers everything in the middle of classically straight and gay which is lacking the depth and width needed to cover the spectrum of human (male) sexuality.
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i agree with everyone who says to just get on with the job and stop with the labels.
Ultimately though, it does not make him bi it makes him selfish and you very lucky
Ultimately though, it does not make him bi it makes him selfish and you very lucky
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No, it just makes him horny and practical. Wish there were more dudes like that.
