If a Guy Who's Not Attracted to Men Lets a Guy Blow Him, Does That Make Him Bi?

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For me, that makes him something other than "straight". But that's for me. Your sexual orientation occurs inside your own head. Of course, specific actions clearly indicate what intrigues/stimulates/excites you and can reveal a specific orientation that others might agree upon. I think the definition remains a personal one, however. If you must label, I would guess that everyone uses the one for themselves that they find acceptable.
 

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I agree with the camp that says sexual orientation is more about the emotional/mental variable. The physical act of getting off by whatever means alone doesn't define sexuality. On the Kinsey scale I would say he's one tick off of 100% str8 for the fact that he's OK with a guy blowing him. But I would say he's more a str8 opportunist than a true bisexual - especially considering the fact he's only focusing on the sensation and the porn. If he was into the OP in anyway, that would be another tick or two towards being bi.

I agree . . . wish there were more dudes out there like him, hung or not :)
 

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Guys, geez. A blow job is a blow job. I've done guys, but that's doesn't make me bi or gay. I just don't care about their gender, you see. It's about hormones as I have found out a couple years ago. I met a transgendered person and I didn't think much of him at the time until he started taking male hormones. That's when I noticed and he didn't tell me until two weeks went by. But I could tell. So...I'm like a dog. It's based on scent, not looks.
I don't consider myself gay or straight or any of the others. And if this guy gets blowjobs at all then coodoes for him. Hell, I wish I had one physical attraction, but boobs scare the hell out of me. I think gay or straight are determined by one's attraction and relationships. Unless he was touching himself, a blow jobs is a blow job in my book.
 

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I have a huge hung friend who's not attracted to men, but lets me blow him while he watches straight porn and does not reciprocate. Does this make him bi?

Labels. Labels, Labels..doesn't anyone get tired of labeling? I've been in this situation & the guy has never done it again...so what does that make him? Stupid labels!!
 

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I have a huge hung friend who's not attracted to men, but lets me blow him while he watches straight porn and does not reciprocate. Does this make him bi?

Who cares? You're both happy with the arrangement. If you call him bi and he doesn't see himself as such he may no longer let you service him.
 

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makes him gay
LMAO! Skull, you crack me up.

Basically, at least in America, that's most people's thinking. If a guy even looks at another guy, he's gay, and there's just no coming back from it.

Chicks can be bisexual, and go back and forth at whim, but guys... If you even say, "cool shirt", you're gay, and you're gay for life. If a guy sticks a gun to your head, and makes you blow him, you're a "cocksucker", and thus gay. It's just like how I tried Brussel sprouts once, and even though I hated them, I'm now labeled a "vegan", no matter how much I tell people that I still like meat. It's just the way it goes. :rolleyes:
 

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Hey, stop using my thread for hookups.....just kidding! I should have told everyone that the pics that make up the majority of my gallery which I've labeled "STRAIGHT BUD 1, 2, 3," etc. is the guy I was asking about in this thread - he's 7 1/2 X 7 1/2. I tell him he has a square dick, ha.