If A New Partner Of Someone You Know Is Less Attractive

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I don’t usually think that based on attractiveness but when I see women in relationships with men who treat them like crap I usually think “The sex must be good.” Even then I’m more likely to think it’s how he uses it (as well as his tongue and fingers) rather than size.
 
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No, that would never cross my mind. However, if after I got to know this new person and he appeared to be an ass in his personality, behavior and treatment of others, I may have to assume he must be quite good in bed. If it is a relationship as opposed to a casual sex partner, I would probably believe that they have similar interests, values or complement one another.

In my opinion, a guy with a big dick who mistreats others, cares little about others or has no redeeming qualities is nothing more than a dick, (pun intended). The size of a dick, including mine, has nothing to do with the value of a person to me.
 

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Not really. Since it can simply be that the new giy treats them better. Though I do think of that if the guy treats them pretty badly and they are still together, that or that the guy is potentially rich.
 
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If the new guy/girl is less attractive than the last I would think they must be more compatible and actually I would think “This one may work out”. If two people like one another for who they are as human beings it tends to work itself out more often than simple physical attraction.
 
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No I don't think it works like that for the most of the time, people are attracted for all kinds of reasons.
 

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I'll never forget the young man and woman I saw at a fast hamburger restaurant. He was very handsome and she was very homely. I couldn't believe the big difference in their looks. He could easily have had a much prettier girlfriend. I don't know what he saw in her. They were very much mismatched in looks.
 
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