If all guys masturbate, why are we so worried about being caught?

[Cowabanga]

I masturbated late in life, I didn't figure it out till I saw someone make the hand gesture of it, and I ask what was that about? Of course no one believe me until it was my turn to make the whip cream by hand for the desert, and I suck at it. I had no rhythm back then. Started dating at 17, and even then I didn't know what the fuck I was suppose to do.

But I did have night dream, and cumming from that. I figure from not touching it, I would have cum if the wind blew on it just right!

 

[coolbrotha86]

I guess what the OP means by 'let's just admit it' is to stop denying that we do it, kinda how I did throughout high school. There must have been some unwritten rule that masturbation is equivalent to virginity, and no one wanted to be a virgin in high school! Even now, my 14 year old cousins deny it and their rooms smell like a 5-guy orgy (I'm using my imagination on that one...). Of course as you mature and stop caring about other people's opinions, you see no reason to deny it.

That comment about the cat staring at the dude while he jerks off was hilarious! The same thing happens with my dogs. I drop the pants... they turn around facing me... I drop the underwear... their tails start wagging... I figured I'd be the only one excited at that point..

 

[B_dxjnorto]

That comment about the cat staring at the dude while he jerks off was hilarious! The same thing happens with my dogs. I drop the pants... they turn around facing me... I drop the underwear... their tails start wagging... I figured I'd be the only one excited at that point..

They are very scent oriented. No offense!!!

 

[B_Hung Jon]

It's because fucked-up religions have made people feel guilty about it. Pleasure is "sinful" and evil. It's all just bullshit.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

It's because fucked-up religions have made people feel guilty about it. Pleasure is "sinful" and evil. It's all just bullshit.

Yeah, so let's cut some of it off. Evil for "evil."

 

[DiscoBoy]

It's because fucked-up religions have made people feel guilty about it. Pleasure is "sinful" and evil. It's all just bullshit.

Well, they do have a good reason! :biggrin1:

 

[D_Jurgen Klitgaard]

it's something that's done in private and it's nobody else's business but the person who is masturbating.

But I love it when you watch me! :biggrin1:

 

[bigbull29]

My peter is too big to masturbate by myself. I need help!

 

[B_dxjnorto]

A line from a letter Mae West wrote to Alfred Kinsey:

"I believe the more we are prepared to accept sex in our lives without
a distorting sense of guilt and fear, the less tragic will be any of
its consequences." ~ from her book Mae West on Sex, Health and ESP.

 

[joybunny]

Because it's sexual and sexual; things are supposed to be done in private. :duh: Just because all men do it doesn't mean we want to watch you pleasure yourself all the time. All men poop, too. I don't want to see that either.

Contrary to popular belief on this site, sex as a spectator sport is not the norm in most of the world.

Just to be clear: I think masturbation is normal, but the need to have an audience for it may be a fetish.

QFT

 

[B_KOKOBWARE]

People are judgemental...
but good question!

 

[bigman420]

Taking this question seriously is something that only a left-wing liberal nut could even wrap his mind around. It's called common decency and it's something that everyone is encouraged or, in many cases, forced to practice.

 

[andrexx]

Masturbation is my own personal affair. I don't need to be sharing the intimate details about it with others, so I don't need to talk about it and I don't want to get caught.

 

[modest123]

I think for a lot of guys it's not so much that we masturbate per se. Rather, it's the material we view when we masturbate. I mean, let's face it, we don't all get turned on by the same things and what is sexy to one guy might be disgusting to the next. Let's say you had to masturbate publicly for whatever reason. Would you use a Girls Gone Wild DVD or would you rather be seen jerking off to midget granny porn? The reality: some guys prefer the midget granny porn and others get off on bestiality. Yet others enjoy furry suits and others just plain vanilla big boobs. To each his own - but many fetishes are considered way out there while others are considered "normal".

 

[Ed69]

Because it's sexual and sexual; things are supposed to be done in private. :duh: Just because all men do it doesn't mean we want to watch you pleasure yourself all the time. QUOTE]

Tell that to my mother!She seemed to get off on trying to catch me!Then tell me what a dirty boy I was for doing it!